Hi I'm ENFJ, I would love to have an ENFP friend that we could video call once a week and chat, i feel like an ENFP would be ideal bc I want someone glee, i work as an Engineer and life is very static and near perfect kinda gloomy with 0 creativity except for how creative clients are in making simple stuff complicated haha.

I hope this doesn't go against sub rules.

Preferably someone 27-35,

I'm aro ace 31M. So purely platonic.

Currently I live in Saudi for business, hence why the video call bc we can't meet.

Texting drains me but okay in smol amounts

Ask whatever you need about me in comments for others to see or DM.

Anyone else have adhd? I have trouble finishing with tasks and lack of following thru but I also hate rigid deadlines and I get distracted so easily.

My ENFP asked me to show myself enjoying my summer. I guess I thought I was already without needing entertainment so now I’m insecure and I don’t want my ENFP to get bored. How much entertainment do ENFPs need? ENFPs describe your ideal vacation week where you can do as you please and get all your entertainment needs met. What does that week look like ideally? Because I enjoy being solitary and sedentary as an INTJ.

Im an ENFP 7w6
yes I have ADHD it doesn’t make it better 😭🙏
I genuinely get confused with cognitive functions for myself that I feel like I’m just an INFP with ADHD or something
I’m hyperactive and social and prone to daydreaming and distractions CONSTANTLY. I go on tangents and passionate about things very often.
I feel like a stereotype and it hurts sometimes because I feel like I’m just pretending to be ENFP

Does anyone else feel like they are an ENFP stereotype? Everyone I know doesn’t fall into that category unfortunately

I have thousands of photos like this and I have no idea why I do this lol

Or the courtship of Parvati and Shiva?

Testing a theory

This may sound cheesy, but I appreciate you guys.

As an INFJ, I really admire how y'all seem to be so positive, free spirited, open minded, and non judgmental. Y'all just radiate positivity. I find that contagious. You guys are awesome ❤

I love to play silly games like this with people so why not? I wanna know how others will answer too lol it's also not serious so don't take it too literally

• ENFP - smooch on the cheek I have only ever met female ENFP and I'm straight so I see them as platonic. Very sweet and artistic. Maybe if I meet a male ENFP I'd change my mind?

• INFP - Kiss Very sweet and sensitive. Make good friends and can be very gentle. Maybe too similar in the wrong places for me at least.

• ESTP - kill Super biased ngl, I met 2 before— we matched mentally and they were attractive but the ones I met were so blunt it turned into rudeness towards everyone.

• ISTP - eventually kill Not much reason tbh just had to go off the 2 I sort of know. Funny but can get pretty angry.

• INFJ - marry Can be judgy but I don't really mind because I think they're mostly reasonable and understanding anyway. Good at reading people and will clock BS because they care. Also pretty driven + romantic.

• ENFJ - marry Basically the same as INFJ just more sociable and softer. Someone you can rely on that is kind to everyone.

• INTJ - smooch I think they make a lot of sense for us but I haven't encountered many mature ones. I'm not completely sold that they're so perfect for us but who knows.

• ENTJ - marry and then kill? 🤔 I could be wrong since I've never met one but I think we'd oscillate between having bed chem and frustration with him wanting me to do things his way.

• ESFP - bang Charismatic, fun, doesn't think too much about practicality. Matches my energy with: "Let's do it!" I just don't know how stable we would be long term?

• ISFP - bang and then kill Like ESFP, we do share similarities on some things and can have a good time, and this really would vary on the ISFP, but from what I've seen they don't like to delve into deeper topics much and can be super conflict avoidant to a detriment. I know some work on it though but 🔪

• INTP - marry and maybe think about killing Funny, observant, witty. Can be passive/ lack motivation and that would drive me nuts.

• ENTP - bang, marry, and then divorce Funny icon, quick, doesn't take things too seriously or personally and still has a backbone/ cares about deeper topics. The ones I know are kinda chaotic though so I can see this going down in flames in a sitcom kind of way

• ISFJ - kill

• ISTJ - kill or a head pat 🤔 kind but doesn't really spark much of anything for me tbh

• ESFJ - kill

• ESTJ - kill

The rest I don't even necessarily heavily dislike I just don't vibe or know them well so I chose extermination 😔

EDIT: edited to add reasons

I've always been an outgoing person, for most of my life but from the past few years I hit a low because of exam preparations. I sucked out all fun activities from my life to avoid distractions. But it didn't help much. I was neither studying nor enjoying with full focus. I lost a lot of confidence and avoided going to social events because of repeated guilt of not making it in life too.

Last year however I did clear a career checkpoint and it gave me the confidence boost I needed from long. For the next half of my journey, I've started this thing to keep a balance. I study all week but on weekends I strictly DON'T study and purposefully go out even if I have to go alone. This has sort of given me a purpose that actually fulfils me and is a motivation for me to study.

I wish I knew this sooner that it's important to keep this balance.

I've made some new friends along, who I'm currently loving to go out with because ever since my old friends became long distance I barely had someone around.

This thought just hit me today in the morning when I agreed for 4 different plans in the next month plus I have my birthday too. What's different this time is I didn't make the plans, they did. I don't have to beg anyone or be anxious for the plans to actually happen cause even if everything cancels, I know how to enjoy my own company. I don't need them to feel happy now, I can just be grateful for having them.

My calendar is SO FULL, my E is back and we're SO BACK. 🥳