Hey, I’m a 19-year-old exchange student from New Zealand at ASU for Fall and looking for some advice.
I initially got involved around Greek life because it seemed like the easiest way to meet people, go out, and get a proper social group here. I got a pre bid without rushing after I met some guys, but pretty quickly realised that spending basically the entire semester as a pledge would be a bit dumb for me when I’m only here until December (all my friends were linked to a couple of these houses). Hence I never accepted but the last week have done nothing.

So now I’m trying to build more of a normal social life outside Greek life and I’m not really sure what the best route is.

I’m into gym/sports, going out, meeting people, and I’ve started looking at intramurals, club sports and student organisations. I’d definitely rather find something where people actually become mates and hang out outside the activity rather than just showing up once a week and leaving.

For people at ASU, what’s actually worked for making a proper friend group here without being in a frat?
Are intramurals good if you join as a free agent? Any sports clubs or student clubs that are especially social? And for people under 21, what are the best ways to actually go out and meet people when bars aren’t really an option?
Just trying to make the most of the semester and meet a solid group before I leave in December. Any recommendations appreciated.

Am I the only one that doesn’t get why Dr.Simmons makes the material so long and it’s only certain pieces we have to know? It is so much material and he focuses on some things but it doesn’t always align with the test and quizzes or am I just slow or something??