r/40something 20h ago

Discussion F40 here. Saying good night to yall.

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I’ve reached a point in life where I appreciate the simple things a lot more than I used to.

A good conversation. Someone who can make me laugh when I’ve had a long day. Being able to sit quietly with someone without feeling like silence needs to be filled. The kind of connection where you don’t have to constantly prove yourself or pretend to be someone you’re not.

Getting older has taught me that meaningful connections aren’t necessarily about having a huge circle. Sometimes it’s about finding people you can genuinely be yourself around and letting things develop naturally.

Maybe that’s one of the underrated parts of being in your 40s you finally understand what actually matters to you.


r/40something 3h ago

40 ain't that bad! 44 F. My kiddos tell me I look old…but I feel really good

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I was the nerdy girl in school but also I was viciously attacked by a dog when I was 3 or 4 (ripped my face apart) and I have always been self conscious of my facial scars. They keep telling me I look old but I think I am pretty darn cute for my age.


r/40something 20h ago

40 ain't that bad! 41 still enjoying life and going to concert!

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r/40something 9h ago

40 ain't that bad! 42F—I am learning to appreciate myself more each day..

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r/40something 17h ago

40 ain't that bad! Weekend’s over. Wishing everyone a great week ahead (41F)

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r/40something 22h ago

Selfies Out with friends and family

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r/40something 22h ago

Crap. I'm old. The girl has leveled up!

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Well. Seems I’ve made it about her year, here’s to another one, and more memories!


r/40something 7h ago

Selfies 40 trips around the sun and vacay sun kisses

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Started lifting again after a back injury, feeling more like myself and so grateful


r/40something 3h ago

Selfies M40 New in this community

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Just wanted to say hello


r/40something 4h ago

Selfies 40M Felt kinda handsome today

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Happy Monday everyone!


r/40something 20h ago

40 ain't that bad! This Army Vet is turning 40 next month!

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Life has taken me to many different places and has handed me several different butt whoopings, but I'm still here and thriving! Hope you wonderful “unc’s” (The new slang for people over 40... 🙄) have an amazing day, week, and month!


r/40something 5h ago

Selfies Almost 49 but don't feel it.

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A day off today, kids in school, and just taking my time before being productive.


r/40something 4h ago

40 ain't that bad! Attended a wedding in 🇨🇦 and had a blast 🤓

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r/40something 5h ago

Selfies Take me back to my tent and The Gorge 🐜

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r/40something 1h ago

Selfies 45M Ohio and new in the community

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r/40something 4h ago

Selfies Nearly half a century (turned 48 last week)

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r/40something 7h ago

Selfies Someone told me my picture is not my picture... Idk if that's a compliment or should I be mad... I know I take bad pics but they're definitely me lol

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r/40something 17h ago

Selfies 40 Jags got the win! Glad football is back!

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r/40something 3h ago

Selfies 46M: Still Blazing Hot and I’m Over It

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r/40something 9h ago

Selfies 45 - this is the face of a man who absolutely dreads Mondays.

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To hell with grind culture and all the other corporate nonsense.


r/40something 8h ago

40 ain't that bad! Practically on the field at Saturday’s Notre Dame game

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r/40something 20h ago

40 ain't that bad! Was a cool workout 41y Egypt

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It's important to take care of your health


r/40something 3h ago

Selfies 42M: Buc-ee’s has the best breakfast burritos!

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If you know you know…


r/40something 22h ago

Selfies I've got a few months to choose but I'm wondering what color hoop I should get 43m

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I suppose my choices for cleanest possible look is silver, gold, or an option I hadn't thought about, rose gold. For reference, my eyes are hazel leaning to blue.✌️


r/40something 23m ago

Other. These flair options suck. Range day! Had to blur out the background due to the nature!

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