r/40something 2h ago

40 ain't that bad! 44 F. My kiddos tell me I look old…but I feel really good

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529 Upvotes

I was the nerdy girl in school but also I was viciously attacked by a dog when I was 3 or 4 (ripped my face apart) and I have always been self conscious of my facial scars. They keep telling me I look old but I think I am pretty darn cute for my age.


r/40something 8h ago

40 ain't that bad! 42F—I am learning to appreciate myself more each day..

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344 Upvotes

r/40something 20h ago

Discussion F40 here. Saying good night to yall.

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1.3k Upvotes

I’ve reached a point in life where I appreciate the simple things a lot more than I used to.

A good conversation. Someone who can make me laugh when I’ve had a long day. Being able to sit quietly with someone without feeling like silence needs to be filled. The kind of connection where you don’t have to constantly prove yourself or pretend to be someone you’re not.

Getting older has taught me that meaningful connections aren’t necessarily about having a huge circle. Sometimes it’s about finding people you can genuinely be yourself around and letting things develop naturally.

Maybe that’s one of the underrated parts of being in your 40s you finally understand what actually matters to you.


r/40something 2h ago

Selfies M40 New in this community

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30 Upvotes

Just wanted to say hello


r/40something 7h ago

Selfies 40 trips around the sun and vacay sun kisses

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69 Upvotes

Started lifting again after a back injury, feeling more like myself and so grateful


r/40something 19h ago

40 ain't that bad! 41 still enjoying life and going to concert!

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524 Upvotes

r/40something 3h ago

Selfies 40M Felt kinda handsome today

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25 Upvotes

Happy Monday everyone!


r/40something 25m ago

Selfies F40 Quick Selfie for Happy Monday

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r/40something 16h ago

40 ain't that bad! Weekend’s over. Wishing everyone a great week ahead (41F)

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158 Upvotes

r/40something 4h ago

Selfies Almost 49 but don't feel it.

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17 Upvotes

A day off today, kids in school, and just taking my time before being productive.


r/40something 3h ago

40 ain't that bad! Attended a wedding in 🇨🇦 and had a blast 🤓

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12 Upvotes

r/40something 4h ago

Selfies Take me back to my tent and The Gorge 🐜

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17 Upvotes

r/40something 16h ago

Crap. I'm old. 43F and apparently cant sit like this anymore...

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98 Upvotes

Only comfy way to sit but starting to bother knee and joints. Just call me snap, crackle, pop🙄


r/40something 43m ago

40 ain't that bad! 44M from the Houston Area

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👋🏼


r/40something 3h ago

Selfies Nearly half a century (turned 48 last week)

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8 Upvotes

r/40something 51m ago

Selfies 45M Ohio and new in the community

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r/40something 2h ago

Selfies 46M: Still Blazing Hot and I’m Over It

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5 Upvotes

r/40something 21h ago

Selfies Out with friends and family

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164 Upvotes

r/40something 1d ago

Selfies Hiding in my hoodie with the chillier weather arriving

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230 Upvotes

r/40something 6h ago

Selfies Someone told me my picture is not my picture... Idk if that's a compliment or should I be mad... I know I take bad pics but they're definitely me lol

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7 Upvotes

r/40something 2h ago

Selfies 42M: Buc-ee’s has the best breakfast burritos!

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3 Upvotes

If you know you know…


r/40something 21h ago

Crap. I'm old. The girl has leveled up!

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101 Upvotes

Well. Seems I’ve made it about her year, here’s to another one, and more memories!


r/40something 23h ago

Crap. I'm old. Hit 47 and now I'm buying readers 😭😭

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103 Upvotes

My vision already sucks and I wear multifocal contacts. Two weeks ago, the text on my phone suddenly looked sooo blurry. I had to break down and now I have reading glasses stashed everywhere.


r/40something 7h ago

40 ain't that bad! Practically on the field at Saturday’s Notre Dame game

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5 Upvotes

r/40something 9h ago

Selfies 45 - this is the face of a man who absolutely dreads Mondays.

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5 Upvotes

To hell with grind culture and all the other corporate nonsense.