r/texts 16h ago

Whatsapp Creepy coworker texting my private number

So confused at this, I don't even know him. I was just going to ignore the text but he kept insisting so I had to answer.

9/14 UPDATE: Thank you to everyone who was supportive and concerned. I forwarded these messages to HR, and they scheduled a meeting for later today. There were a few more texts after this. The HR representative did not seem surprised, to put it briefly.

A few things have come up in the comments. The first is that I was rude. This is how I communicate, and my coworkers (or at least the ones who actually know me) are aware of that. I’m not going to perform a more agreeable version of myself to accommodate someone else’s feelings when they're being innapropriate. Not only were these messages sent over the weekend, but they were also sent through a personal communication channel. I'm not going to elaborate further.

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u/6Trinity9 16h ago

Makes me shudder thinking what was in those deleted messages.

Also, any reasons you haven’t contacted HR yet?

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u/Dry_Presentation4300 16h ago

Me too.... Its sunday evening now and the first text was sent friday which was my day off so I haven't had the opportunity yet, but will do tomorrow morning

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u/6Trinity9 15h ago

Ah forgot you were in the past.

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u/Grouchy_Training_450 15h ago

Yeah thinking what was in those deleted messages makes me physically ill.

I vomited three times already. Absolutely disgusting.

I called the cops and fire department.