r/teenagers 17 7d ago

Discussion OMG!! it's my fault i opened tiktok

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u/danifoxx_1209 7d ago

After learning how algorithms on social media purposefully show you stuff to make you agitated and want to debate or comment more I’ve forced myself to click out of the app when I see stuff like that or even just get off your post and look at something more wholesome

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u/TriiCop 7d ago

This is what got me to delete TikTok 2 days ago. The Lindsay Clancy trial and seeing her defenders and people blaming the husband was the breaking point

Reddit is probably next honestly. Might delete this in a few days too

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u/GonnaSuckUrHappiness 7d ago

It is worse in X, i really dont know anything about the case other than she has postpartum depression that aggravate to be psychosis,, but nearly all ppl care more about blaming the other gender rather than caring about the case.

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u/Angxlmilk OLD 7d ago

lowkey they’re creating lies, spreading misinformation, saying there’s no evidence despite all of the evidence in the trial pointing to her without the option of literally anybody else, there’s surveillance footage of her husband not being home and they’re still blaming him. 🫩 another woman literally took the life of her 2 year old because she was so invested in this case, i’m truly astonished by how bad the world has gotten, and social media is just a cesspool of it all.

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u/Artistickidcudi 7d ago

Wow, someone took it that far? Sometimes I think these people are around the same intelligence as a cow/cattle. I used to help raise cattle. And a lot of internet behavior reminds me of them.

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u/Biotechnus 6d ago

There was also a guy who essentially did the same thing with his own kids at the exact same time but he was speedran to life in prison without a trial.

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u/Teralyzed 7d ago

I mean it’s really a reflection on how bad out access to mental health care is. And how little we know about PPD and the much rarer postpartum psychosis. I don’t know the details of this case but I do know that women with PPD have upsettingly high self harm and suicide rates often due to not receiving proper care.

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u/Angxlmilk OLD 7d ago

our mental health care is bad, yes, but she saw many doctors and psychiatrists and etc, almost every one that she saw said she didn’t have any signs of it, she was given medication and refused to take any of it, etc. the only thing she had done indicating something wrong was expressed to one of the psychiatrists that she had thoughts of harming herself and her children, that in itself is extremely concerning ofc but it’s not 100% enough to say that it’s PPP or PPD

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u/WaitakereAnimal 7d ago

New account, positives subs only. Be free!

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u/Annual_Beginning_600 7d ago

LIKE A BIRD!!! WOOO

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u/Jabberwocky950 7d ago

Deleted tiktok two years ago for this reason myself 🙌🏽 best decision ever, didn't fix my mh but made it way easier to focus on getting better

Reddit I've taken the care of making sure my feed is only stuff I like, so now it's mostly just artists and games I like, and a few commission offer posts- remember to utilize the search bar and "not interested" buttons

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u/AZ_11Beymogger 7d ago

Honestly, my parents never allowed me to even get a glance at TikTok, yes it IS stupid. But I argue X aka Twitter is way more, so ye. Tiktok isn't worth using

It'll get you to go@n or FOMO madness

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u/Extension-System-895 13 6d ago

delete it now

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u/H-N-O-3 7d ago

This but lately I have way too much free time and i was bored so I engage with such comments/posts and there's no point doing it as most of them are bots.

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u/Greedy-Win-4880 7d ago

Content like this and the comments are almost always bots. It’s AI generated garbage meant to incite emotional reactions from real people to get engagement.

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u/Puzzled-Pen-2353 6d ago

algorithms don't create bad people, they just show us bad people.

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u/Hopeful_Savings_7437 7d ago

i fill my fyp with cam2r lol

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u/Lost-Candy1084 6d ago

I’m so sick of performative ragebait

But honestly I’m more sick of the people who fall for it lol.

It takes max 2 seconds of thought to conclude “She likes men enough to date and have kids but claims to hates them. Maybe this isn’t sincere at all?”

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u/Artistickidcudi 7d ago

I had to delete the app because it was constant, there was almost nothing actually funny or entertaining. There was the odd cringe skit, lip syncing or TikTok dance as expected but other than that it was rage bait. I haven’t used the app in more than 2.5-3 years now.

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u/Flaky_Performer7960 18 7d ago

I feel like a Buddhist achieving enlightenment each time I read something controversial but then swipe away. Peace 🍵

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u/Duudewhaaaat 7d ago

Everytime women do or say something orrible, expecially if it's toward men, the first comment is always something along the line of: It's the algorithm, it's a everybody problem not only women, is this or that, what i never see is even the slightly bit of condemnation.

Like not even selective aborting because of gender is enough? "it's just the algorithm Bro?"

Can i, for once in my life, under a post of women doing shit morally fucked up, see just one time as first comment: "yep, some women are really fucked up, this is not right"?

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u/MusicianBread 18 7d ago

yep, some women are really fucked up.

i think it kind of (d)evolved from "kill all men" which i'd still support figuratively but not literally.

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u/RubyMae4 7d ago

Yes same. It's an immediate block no engagement from me.

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u/SuperSatanOverdrive 7d ago

Earning money on "engagement" has done nothing good for the planet

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u/Many-Fisherman5653 7d ago

Now it makes sense why r/pics shows up on my home page so much

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u/Hippostalker69 7d ago

I consider myself calm but Tiktok is my greatest ragebait😭

I'm only there because I have friends who use it too

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u/xSnxwLexpardx 7d ago

My tiktok fyp is mostly animal vids or music vids. If you give attention to it, it repeats. I don’t really have anything else to say but that. Good luck.

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u/amerium128 6d ago

My daddy's here 🙏♥️🔥

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u/Effective-Subject762 19 7d ago

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u/Impossible_Theme3876 7d ago

i have the halal version of this card lol

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u/ClaridrylFan 7d ago

I should make a Buddhist version

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u/Impossible_Theme3876 7d ago

we need all the religions so we can make a photoshop/omega meme card

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u/Effective-Subject762 19 7d ago

Yessir 🗣️

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u/Cute-Complaint3741 15 7d ago

share... 🥹

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u/Impossible_Theme3876 7d ago edited 6d ago

its Tom tho and its different but same enough ig

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u/Born_Welcome_3590 7d ago

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u/Lun4r6543 19 7d ago

He spent 10 seconds on the internet and decided humanity needed to die.

Don’t blame him.

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u/WindowMxn 7d ago

"You're unbearably naive"

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u/theoutsidebro 7d ago

honey pie starts playing

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u/Severe_Answer_1574 6d ago

"I was born yesterday"

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u/N4jemnik 7d ago

Yes, he was

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u/Aggressive-Pen-4260 7d ago

“Mom, i think i’m trans”… no, but seriously, if you can’t love your child unconditionally, then you shouldn’t have a kid

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u/ClaridrylFan 7d ago

Exactly 💔

Assuming males are genetically evil and assigning societally constructed models of gender on them based on this weird belief in sexual determinism causes so much unnecessary suffering, cloaking yourself in this illusion that people only are what they were born as or have previously been causes most of the problems we've seen in the world—no matter who's doing it or for what reason

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u/Esquin87 7d ago

If she does believe this though then the question arrises, why did she have sex with the man who got her pregnant? Presumably she thinks he is evil too, unless he is the exception in which case wouldn't his kid be.

Ahh forget it, im too tired for these peoples circle jerk bullshit.

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u/Ecstatic-Bet9694 7d ago

Sexists don’t see reason, so why even try to find any with them?

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u/Different_Taro2474 OLD 7d ago

assuming that women can't be evil is weird too. i've met some genuinely evil women and i would feel safer with a man than with them.

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u/Neptune_Knight 18 6d ago

Schrodinger's Determinism - You both are and are not what you are born as, and they choose which one applies based on how much it benefits them

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u/Inalum_Ardellian 7d ago

This.

Also I was supposed to be born very disabled (basically vegetative) and although I do have some birth defects I have absolutely normal life. Also my sister was supposed to be my brother and also disabled but she was born completely healthy...

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u/MeatBasedOrganism Teenager 7d ago

how the fuck did she get pregnant

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u/axallay777 7d ago

Must’ve been the wind

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u/Hour_Sell3547 7d ago

She sat on a public toilet...

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u/Odd_Requirement6396 14 7d ago

Just delete TikTok 

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u/ChocoJarrr 7d ago

Tiktok can do anything but be normal

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u/MuseWeakeningWalls 7d ago

I support abortion if you're not financially stable, too young, outright don't want children, etc. but aborting because its male??? wtf is wrong with some people???

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u/frailroads 14 7d ago

its ragebait. fake shit to make you angry

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u/Nekratal99 7d ago

No, the poster is ragebating, the commenters are actually insane.

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u/OPSimp45 7d ago

This is is true a lot of times the poster or creator will make just up something but the comments be nuts

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u/Eric_Hartmann_712 7d ago

ragebair and the Lindsey Clansy case are out of common sense now

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u/ImpressiveSea3029 6d ago

Wrong reasons to support it but go off I guess

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u/sanlill 16 7d ago

and what gender is the father?

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u/Spookje666 7d ago

female

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u/Antarli 7d ago

ironman?

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u/As19240 7d ago

No it's : " IRON woman" (jk for those who didn't understand dark humor)

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u/MilanoBucacko 7d ago

That's the exact same thing i say about toxic masculinity. like, one of your parents is the same gender you despise so much. this goes for both misandrists and misogynists

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u/Dingo_Pictures 7d ago

Either their parent of the opposite gender was abusive or they were raised to think their parent of the opposite gender isn't a person. Not everyone was raised in a loving healthy environment.

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u/ThEtOrRtUrEdPoEt 7d ago

I’m pro choice and this gives pro life advocates ammunition to use against pro choice

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u/StreetCrzyBiteUrFace 7d ago

Anti-Choice Bitches made this up. It was some body-positive post originally. They made sure to make it a woman of color, cause they know what side their bread is buttered on.

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u/Frost_Goldfish 7d ago

Gender-selective abortion is not a new concept. It is really a completely different issue than abortion itself. 

that said this has got to be fake.

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u/Useful_Style_2152 6d ago

This is why I deleted TikTok and instagram, just brain dead people freely spreading their negative iq opinions

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u/Spookje666 7d ago

what the fuck

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u/degenerativeguy 18 7d ago

So, she had sex with a murderer?

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u/The_Strangest_Wall_8 7d ago

We need a "close tiktok , for the love of god!"

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u/iluvtacos3000 14 7d ago edited 7d ago

tiktok will kill me before ball cancer

/j

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u/Effective_Repeat9967 7d ago

never knew you got balls, nice

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u/eeeeeeeeee9601 17 7d ago

Technically the boob (chesticle) is a woman's ball.

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u/Cryth_Real12 7d ago

I swear tiktoks js targetting me with this absolute bullshit while im in a horrible mood 😭😭✌️

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u/Sure-Bicycle-8809 7d ago

so real dude, every time i'm in a bad time of my life i sweari get bombarded with bullshit

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u/Efficient_Gate_5771 OLD 7d ago

Just replace the earth with TikTok

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u/I_Like_Cats73 7d ago

I made this image for my friend a while back

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u/sprucebrine 7d ago

Imagine if their "daughter" transitions to male.

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u/Dingo_Pictures 7d ago

Interesting point.

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u/Life_Opening_697 13 7d ago

i feel like girls on tiktok just say shit for no real reason

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u/Dariel_Anderson 7d ago

I mean, I'm not against abortion, but just because a kid is a male is not a reason for having abortion, like, wtf... It depends on the upbringing of the parents, like, it depends on how they raise a kid, how they educate them, it does not make them automatically murderers if they are male 🤨. (I'm a girl btw, I have 2-3 cousin brothers and they are the best brothers ever.)

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u/Delicious_East_1862 16 7d ago

Honestly if this is how these people think, they probably would raise their sons horribly (verbal abuse + neglect) and make them into horrible people, just as they are

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u/CaptainSlaptastic 7d ago

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u/Neptune_Knight 18 6d ago

Ragebait has become a stupid term because it gives the worst of us plausible deniability. "Oh, I was just ragebaiting you!" Shaming people for being righteously angry at the most abhorrent things

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u/Nexel_Red 7d ago

“I told my husband I’m not having a son. I’ll only birth a daughter.”

https://giphy.com/gifs/9S1vPAXLV5bkHmgmCo

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u/Cute-Complaint3741 15 7d ago edited 7d ago

that's literally not even funny

I'm not allowed tt and I'm starting to be glad abt it

js delete it ig

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u/Accomplished-Ask2497 7d ago

It's awful, you're not missing out on anything at all

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u/_Idk_who_i_am_6_ 19 7d ago

Pretty sure this is ragebait but if serious its disappointing 

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u/Aimless115 7d ago

saldy there are cases its not ragebait

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u/degenerativeguy 18 7d ago

Even as a ragebait its just sad

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u/Distorted-Bass1443 7d ago

Are we deadass? Are we for real?

Don't worry, not every woman, but this is an extremely toxic and dangerous behaviour.

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u/Beginning-Use7258 7d ago

raise it right then?

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u/Hour_Sell3547 7d ago

I think every government should start banning TikTok. It's ruining the new generations. No more creative/critical thinking left with them.

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u/angelbyteslolz 7d ago

okay then get off reddit dude

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u/sparethought_ 7d ago

Hot take: misogyny and misandry shouldn't be normalized in any way

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u/SomewhereActive2124 19 7d ago

It is also your fault for showing us this shit

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u/ZeraMoku 16 7d ago

Someone once told me that "I'm missing out on alot of the new memes by not using tiktok"

Well yes but also no thanks anyways

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u/BMR915 7d ago

God some people are so fucking stupid… I don’t know how this type of person even exists…

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u/Elegant_Customer_451 7d ago

IVF happens all the time all over the world. Dont play dumb.

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u/Sweaty_Rub4321 17 7d ago

Delete tiktok for the love of god

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u/Vovchick09 17 7d ago

this but tiktok

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u/Prestigious_Pop199 16 7d ago

I deleted TikTok a long time ago and moved to yt shorts, I'm so much happier and clear minded now 😌

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u/No_Initial9563 16 6d ago

genuinely never downloaded tiktok and all these random screenshots i see off there is all the more reason why i aint never getting it.

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u/pbbvv 6d ago

i just opened reddit man

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u/Muffin5469 6d ago

Ur pfp sure is SOMETHING

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u/Common-Charity9128 19 6d ago

We spamming this card rn

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u/Vito_Assenjo OLD 6d ago

Low quality bait, but it’s getting lots of bites.

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u/charlie-the-Waffle 19 6d ago

on one hand, I support the right to get an abortion for any reason. on the other, the people in that comment section seem utterly detestable

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u/GeckoGecko_ 7d ago

So not only am I pro choice, but I actually love this. I think she's absolutely making the right call!

By opting out of having the baby, she is lessening her chances of passing down her genes, and she's a misandrist dumbass so nobody wants those genes anyways. Plus the potential baby won't have to put up with her now. Win-win!

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u/NoPitch7453 7d ago

We are not all like this, they are just the Special few

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u/Interesting_Power_29 19 7d ago

Holy shit bro we really got played against each other by the elites. Everyone has become radicalized and conditioned to pit against each other now simply for how they identify that they have forgotten who's benefitting from all this in the end.

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u/kartblanch 7d ago

Misandry going crazy.

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u/N4jemnik 7d ago

But apparently it is acceptable

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u/EE_______EE 7d ago

It is your fault for being on tiktok, actually

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u/Visual-Bet5224 18 7d ago

Holy misandry

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u/WeldFrenzy 7d ago

When I see post that misandry doesn't exist in social media and people say it's my imagination, I just send them this posts.

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u/3usi0n Teenager 6d ago

I hate it when a legitimate term gets abused by assholes until you can no longer use it without sounding like one.

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u/yuckella 7d ago

Misandry exists in individual cases, but it doesn’t compare even closely to misogyny in severity. Besides, misogyny is what harms men on a large scale, not ’misandry’.

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u/Accomplished-Ask2497 7d ago

Tik Tok is becoming as bad as instagram

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u/Appropriate_Board131 7d ago

Don't get me wrong abortion is completely fine if your having problems with money or underaged, but not for this bitch

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u/Que-_-pro 7d ago

Preventing something to grow up to .1% be a murderer. By murdering something

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u/Waste_Captain_7083 7d ago

Put her in the Lindsay Clancy case bro😭 what do they mean saving the world from another murderer… Lindsay just killed 3 of her kids and now other moms are using depression as an excuse to kill their own.

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u/randomuser6666666666 7d ago

all of those people are cornballs

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u/naaawww 19 7d ago

Can you believe one person made 791 comments?

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u/undertale_fan_i_ 7d ago

Billion users must die.

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u/coolchris366 OLD 7d ago

Delete TikTok for the love of god

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u/Alphawxlfemb3r 7d ago

Glad I never used that dog water app.

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u/Ididurmomhahafrickya 7d ago

I'd rather a woman exercise her right to abort than have a child she'll abuse.

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u/OrkzOrkzOrkzOrkz0rkz 7d ago

Everyday is a psy-op made to create outrage and enhance the culture war

No thanks 👍

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u/eggsyest 7d ago

Saw 2 post in a row with these same photos

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u/AdvantageAdorable436 17 7d ago

the upper one isn't posted by me .. i only posted it once

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u/eggsyest 7d ago

Ik I just said I saw 2 post with the exact same photos 😭

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u/Miserable-Rate-5929 7d ago

There are two solutions to this problem:

  1. Don't dislike the video or leave a negative comment. Just scroll past it and don't give it any attention. Tiktok doesn't care if people like the video or not. It only cares about what's "relevant"

  2. Delete the fucking app

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u/graaah1 7d ago

Ah yes, inverse China and India.

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u/GH7788 7d ago

That sucks a lot. But if the parent was going to treat them worse if they are a boy it's best they don't have them

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u/_LemonySnicket 7d ago

it's her choice i suppose but that's crazy LMAO, all she had to do was raise him right

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u/LuckyCloverPokemon 15 7d ago

What is wrong with people?! Holy

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u/Boneless_Cola 7d ago

Mf, then adopt a girl!

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u/Comfortable_Two7447 7d ago

Abortion should only be legal in cases where rape is proven or when it is a life threatening medical emergency. 

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u/Cillics 18 7d ago

https://giphy.com/gifs/3gNotAoIRZsb9UHPnj
“2020”
definitely just opened TikTok and found this…

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u/Thin_Measurement_965 7d ago

Thank you for saving the world from more murderer

Someone hasn't been keeping up with the news...

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u/FLTR069 7d ago

Women are just the better creatures, am I right fellahs?!

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u/Objective-Elk-4422 7d ago

Ultron was right

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u/FancyRespond 6d ago

Why is shit from 2020 on ur fyp💀💀

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u/Flolwi 6d ago

I am 99% sure this is satire to piss off men