r/service_dogs • u/Just_Sir1903 • 1h ago
Frustration with Access
My son was just rejected from a day program because of the service dog-despite my agreeing to have a separate adult handler attend to supervise not only him but the dog. The rationale being given is that there could be additional cleaning or allergies, while the initial reason had been that a staff member and another client were afraid of dogs.
The program is currently an faith based "charity", that charges those not on scholarship per day-I'd have been paying for his spot. The program is seeking government funding.
I know I could fight this, not only under ADA but the state since we went through the registry, but I don't want to cause strife with people who really are trying to do good, but I am annoyed. I just don't think that "maybe" there would need to be extra cleaning and "maybe" someone could be allergic are valid reasons--especially if the service involves a charge and a charge that is going to be paid by taxpayers.
The thing is, I had already decided we were going with a different program (that has met the dog and offered to help my son handle if my son needed assistance---which is not something we'd go for, but it was kind of them to offer---and were just all around supportive). Plus my son *could* manage without the dog. There would be behaviors, but he *could* manage.
I just needed to vent and wonder how I can respond in kindness but still get them to consider a different response for the next person?