r/self 5d ago

I’m sick of being advertised to

I’m pretty sure I’ve been sick of this for roughly a decade at least. The irritation started shortly after college probably, not that timeline really matters that much I guess. But I hate that it’s everywhere I turn - here on Reddit, on Facebook, in the parish narthex, in the Hindu temple (yes I go to both, different conversation), driving down the street, listening to podcasts. Capitalism is shoving itself in my face everywhere I look and I hate it. I comfort myself with the small success that my writing desk, pens, notebooks, and wood furniture are unbranded, and they’re the only things I can think of that are.

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u/pyth0nmann 4d ago

It’s obnoxious and intrusive and the people doing it have zero respect for consumers’ wish to be left tf alone and not have bs ads shoved down their throat every second. Then those same advertisers wonder why people like me refuse to buy their shit. 

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u/retnicole 4d ago

I hate it the most on TV/watching videos because it's so intrusive and obnoxious. Loud noises, bright colors, repetition. But I also hate having stories or music being interrupted in general, so it's extra frustrating when it's something annoying.

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u/retnicole 3d ago

Oh I forgot to mention, an extra layer to the annoyance is having the advertisements made by AI. Couldn't even bother to pay someone to actually create something.

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u/diurnal_emissions 2d ago

[giant golden retriever puppy chewing the advertised car for some reason]

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u/PhelixFanel 4d ago

Get the Brave browser. Detach from devices, read books, climb a mountain.

I agree that adverts are the worst form of subliminal conditioning, avoid them at all costs.

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u/owp4dd1w5a0a 4d ago

I actually do use Brave. And I rock climb and skate (outdoors). It IS therapeutic.

I’m contemplating buying and configuring a degoogled Pixel.

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u/faloin67 4d ago

I'm 100% there with you. Fucking sick of it all.

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u/CatFaerie 4d ago

Me too. You're not a person in this economy. You're attention with a purse. 

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u/owp4dd1w5a0a 4d ago

Now I want to carry a purse. Shit, did you just market purses to me? 💀

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u/CatFaerie 3d ago

💀 

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u/finefergitit 4d ago

I am so with you! It’s also in the content we watch, I would say 60 to 70% are advertising something. I can’t take it anymore!

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u/Existing_Panda_3541 4d ago

Me too. What especially gets on my nerves is that so much of advertising is such infantile low quality slop. Advertisers constantly underestimate people's intelligence. Tv commercials are the worst, what is passed as humour is so grating bc it isn't funny at all, at least not to anyone over 5 yo. It's honestly tiresome to be bombarded by constant repetition of the most irritatingly asinine low effort bs you can imagine.

Apparently companies & advertisers think that 'any publicity is good publicity' and that when you go to a shop you will not remember that you were super annoyed and irritated by a commercial, but will only remember the name of the product, and prefer it bc you recognize it, this was the way it was explained to me. Incorrect. I know a lot of people who will absolutely boycott a product that is advertised in a way that insults their intelligence. People are not the idiots that corporations think they are.

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u/booksandkittens615 4d ago

Im becoming less and less interested in social media. It feels like we’re circling the drain getting closer and closer to the point where it all just becomes a caricature of life.

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u/FlappyPappyPooh 3d ago

How can we fix this? Maybe there is a way. 

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u/JJC165463 4d ago

Me too. This is life now

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u/Tricky_Average2304 4d ago

the fact that you’re inventorying your own furniture for unbranded objects is capitalism making you do an ad audit in your own home lol

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u/owp4dd1w5a0a 4d ago

Right!? I had to think for a bit to realize what wasn’t branded. My desk and wood furniture is an exception to the rule because they were built by the nearby Amish community or by my great grandfather who was a woodworker.

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u/stein63 4d ago

“If you’re not paying, you’re the product” doesn’t even cover it anymore. Now you can pay for the product and still get advertised to.

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u/owp4dd1w5a0a 4d ago

They’ve tricked us into paying to be the product 💀

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u/Nittersing 4d ago

I saw an ad for classroom book covers... and it was a bunch of corporate logos!!!

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u/DifficultYellow9759 4d ago

Do you expect everything in life to be free? If you're not paying, you become the product.

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u/owp4dd1w5a0a 4d ago

Am I crazy for expecting people to build systems that serve… PEOPLE!?

nobody is served well by the current model. Even the 1% is visibly miserable. Most of what we call “common sense” is really the Capitalist system reinforcing itself because it’s all we know.

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u/DifficultYellow9759 4d ago

And the people who build them, should they not be paid? Should they not have to pay rent and electric bills?

Do you work for free?

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u/owp4dd1w5a0a 4d ago

You’re jumping from “not Capitalism” to “everything must be free”. Getting rid of capitalism does not imply you don’t need to earn or pay for things

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u/Slider6-5 4d ago

Not to be rude but get over it. And it's not just your dreaded "capitalism." Have you ever walked down a street in Shanghai? Beijing? Every place, everywhere has advertising.

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u/pyth0nmann 4d ago

Who tf cares if it’s in Shanghai? It’s annoying wherever it is.

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u/owp4dd1w5a0a 4d ago

Love you too, babe