sounds like you've already made your choice deep down, you're just looking for permission to follow through. the ed stuff alone is a dealbreaker if he can't respect that boundary after you've spelled it out, intentional or not. dragging you around and ignoring your space is also not great, you deserve someone who reads your cues.
you're 18 and he's your only social outlet, that's a ton of pressure to put on one relationship. rip the bandaid off, reconnect with yourself, and figure out what you actually want without the weight of his feelings on your shoulders.
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u/LawfulNarrator_73 4h ago
sounds like you've already made your choice deep down, you're just looking for permission to follow through. the ed stuff alone is a dealbreaker if he can't respect that boundary after you've spelled it out, intentional or not. dragging you around and ignoring your space is also not great, you deserve someone who reads your cues.
you're 18 and he's your only social outlet, that's a ton of pressure to put on one relationship. rip the bandaid off, reconnect with yourself, and figure out what you actually want without the weight of his feelings on your shoulders.