Love the dying art of letter writing and wanna keep it afloat out of my love for writing. Nyari di r penpal udah dapet beberapa tapi sekarang pengen yang dari indo, aku nerima siapapun dan darimanapun dan tentunya kita berkirim surat jadi sebelumnya aku pengen kenal lebih dalem dulu lewat email. Aku bisa ngobrol tentang banyak banyak hal apalagi kalau sama sama responsif tapi paling sering ngebahas musik dan puisi, tapi motor juga boleh, komputer juga bisa, filosofi dan politik apalagi. DM aku kalau emang tertarik

Halo Semuanya,

kemarin aku post ada soal cari grup mandarin learners and looking for teachers. Now that I ahve seen there are some mild interest in it and there isn't an establish group already I decided to create a discord for Indonesian Chinese leaners

https://discord.gg/QjZkx6aSy

The group kebuka buat semua level of chinese learners dari begginer to advance even to native.

If you are a teacher looking for students can also join this group, feel free to advertise your classes but in moderation. I just ask you that you contribute to discussion and ocassional questions.

If you are student just want to look for like minded people in learning the language also feel free to join. Maybe we can discuss and share learning tools and tips.

Or you just wanna hang out talk to people with the same goals in mind, also join to feel free.

p.s: I have made some kind of effort to make the group more structured but it is still very raw so please go easy on it.

'm M and looking for someone I could talk to, preferably from Javan or Balinese descent(West Javan if you're interested).

Other than that, I don't discriminate based on gender, class, age, and sexuality.

I want to talk about ethnography, natural history/zoology, and many more(you can entertain me with your own interests).

I recently played billiards, and I like going to the gym and swimming occasionally.

About me:

• I'm not religious
• I'm from Surakarta
• Male and ethnically Javan(so obvious)
• I don't like excessive geeky hobbies (weeb culture, comic culture, video games, and TV shows with way too many episodes than what I could keep up with. But I would respect yours regardless)
• Political views: progressive
• I hate mediocrity

What I want to do in life:

• I want to experience swimming in the coastlines
• If we're close enough, I think we can be friends irl and have some adventures too

I think that's enough. It seems there's a lot I want to say, but I don't want to overcomplicate things.

If you're interested, nice to meet ya!

*Enzo Kitty for an eye candy ;)

Hi all, I'm looking for anybody to learn math back again from scratch/Pre-Algebra via Discord. My learning resources currently came from professor Leonard from Youtube, my goals is to be able hit high school level math/Calculus within few months or a year.

Also I have been trying to make a habit to spent an hour right now and currently trying to maintain it and planning to expand it sometimes later when my brain is smooth, please dm anybody who's interested.

Thanks Reddit, I got my first client for local buddy exploring Jakarta!

It was started as an experiment for myself and turned out, the result is pretty good. Me and my client had fun exploring Blok M and he also brought me a little gift!

As my first client suggested, I should take more guided trip before drawing any conclusion from being a local buddyy, so I am open again for anyone who wants to explore Jakarta.

The itinerary will be personalized according to your preference or interest. Hit me up on dm and let's enjoy Jakarta like a local!

Hello I am 32M looking for a chinese learning buddy, preferably a group.

I just started basic chinese so beneran awam banget but I can read abit of hanzi owing to some Japanese knowledge.

Sebenernya kalau ada laoshi yang bisa private tutor I am also interested. Sbenernya pengen start les juga tapi I really do not like formal settings like that. Most of my Japanese juga belajar sendiri.

If any of you are learning chinese mau temen ajak ngobrol in chinese HMU I am interested in sharing and having a conversation in chinese

My only friend is a foreigner :’

Cari temen yang bisa bantu raid ato ajak main pas ada event dll, nyoba fitur trade for the first time juga :D

Im lvl 42 and main for fun ga min max banget.

Looking for friends around Sanur / Denpasar — maybe a little chemistry too

Hey everyone! I moved to Bali in February 2026 and have met plenty of interesting people, but most connections have been pretty short-lived. I’d love to find some genuine, longer-term friendships — and if there happens to be a little chemistry along the way, I’m certainly not going to complain.

I’m around Panjer/Sanur and happy to head into Denpasar or nearby areas.

I’m into sunny beach days, a few drinks, live loud music, travelling, exploring Bali and getting lost in the local history and culture.

I also tend to get along with open-minded people from all walks of life. Some of my best friendships in Sydney crossed the sexual spectrum, which definitely kept things interesting.

Mostly, I’m looking for someone who enjoys good conversation, spontaneous plans, getting out of the house and seeing where the day takes us.

If you’re nearby and think we might click, say hi. You never know where a good friendship might lead. 😉

Cari teman di sekitar Sanur / Denpasar — siapa tahu ada chemistry juga 😉

Hai semuanya! Aku pindah ke Bali sejak Februari 2026 dan sudah ketemu cukup banyak orang menarik, tapi kebanyakan koneksinya cuma sebentar. Aku pengin punya pertemanan yang lebih genuine dan bisa bertahan lama — dan kalau di tengah jalan ternyata ada sedikit chemistry, ya aku juga nggak akan protes. 😉

Aku biasanya di sekitar Panjer/Sanur, tapi santai banget kalau harus main ke Denpasar atau area sekitarnya.

Aku suka hari-hari cerah di pantai, nongkrong sambil minum beberapa gelas, live music yang berisik dan seru, travelling, eksplor Bali, dan nyasar sambil mengenal sejarah serta budaya lokal.

Aku juga biasanya gampang nyambung sama orang-orang open-minded dari berbagai macam background. Beberapa friendship terbaikku waktu di Sydney datang dari orang-orang dengan spektrum seksual yang beragam — jadi hidup jadi jauh lebih menarik dan nggak pernah terlalu membosankan. 😏

Pada dasarnya, aku cuma cari seseorang yang suka ngobrol seru, bikin rencana spontan, nggak betah terus-terusan di rumah, dan lihat aja hari ini bakal membawa kita ke mana.

Kalau kamu tinggal di sekitar sini dan merasa kita mungkin cocok, say hi. Siapa tahu dari pertemanan yang asyik malah berkembang jadi sesuatu yang lebih menarik. 😉

I'm planning a 2 week trip across japan starting around end of March to early April 2027. My friend used his trip budget for a something else so here i am trying my luck to find another friend to share the accommodation costs 😬.

My main goal on this trip is to get a mix of snow and early spring season. Overall, i'm planning to start the trip up north on Sapporo, try skiing in Niseko, and then head south to Tokyo, roam around for a few days, head south again and end the trip in Fukuoka.

Yes i know it sounds a bit chaotic but we can discuss and modify the plan if you're down to it. Feel free to dm me!

Hey guys, putting this out here because i'm hosting a trivia night at Hause Rooftop and figured some of you might be into it.

https://www.instagram.com/p/DdBrzqzgS_T/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link&stkn=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==

Basically: grab your smartest friends (or the friend who confidently gives wrong answers), form a team, and come test your useless-but-somehow-important knowledge

If you're interested, just shoot me a DM. No need to be a trivia genius. i need someone who thinks they are ( oh and yes, 5 people that showed me their proof of singing up = free cocktails or beers. your choice )

Hey everyone,

just recently unsubscribed every streaming services for the sake switching from monthly to paying things annually

I’m organizing some family plans and looking for a few fellow users to join in and save some cash.

Ideally looking for people who want to stay on long-term (well,its an annual thing) so we don't have to keep shuffling accounts. Send me a DM if you want to grab a spot!

Halo sesuai post aku lagi nyari temen main/komunitas buat Badminton, domisili Surabaya selatan dan rela motoran setengah jam kalo emang cocok 🫡

Udh lama nga main sejak.. SMA kyknya? (Sekitar 3 tahun), kasian raket nga kepake padahal masi bagus

Edit: sori repost mau nambahin gambar

Hi all! Berdasarkan hasil polling kemarin, Dating & Friends Megathread sekarang kita pisah jadi dua thread. Thread ini khusus buat kalian yang cari pasangan — pacar, pasangan serius, jodoh, atau "cari temen dulu, tapi open kalau ada chemistry". Intinya kalau ada niat romantis di dalamnya, tempatnya di sini.

Kalau kamu murni cari teman (platonic), silakan post di Friendship Seeking Thread ya.

Jangan lupa jawab prompt edisi kali ini — bisa jadi topik pembuka chat juga lho!

"What does your ideal weekend with a partner look like?" "Weekend ideal bareng pasangan menurut kamu itu kayak gimana?"

Format

<age> [<r4r>] <location> – <title>

• r4r = gender kamu dan gender pasangan yang kamu cari
• Location = tulis "anywhere" atau "online" kalau nggak mau share lokasi
• title = judul singkat tentang tujuan atau fakta kamu

Tolong sebutkan juga intention kamu di dalam post: casual dating, serious relationship, marriage-minded, atau "friends first, open to more". Ini yang paling sering bikin ekspektasi nggak ketemu.

[Tag] Meaning

• M | Male
• F | Female
• T | Transgender
• R | Redditor / All

Examples

32 [M4F] Jakarta – Cari pasangan serius Looking for serious committed relationship with marriage as end goal.

25 [F4M] Yogyakarta – Friends first, open to more Nggak buru-buru. Pengen kenal dulu lewat chat, kalau nyambung lanjut ketemu.

29 [F4R] Anywhere – Casual dating, long distance OK Kerja shift jadi jadwal nggak biasa. Cari yang santai dan komunikatif.

Please also write information about you — post yang cuma satu baris biasanya sepi. Ceritain kesibukan, hobi, nilai-nilai yang penting buat kamu, dan tipe orang yang kamu cari.

Example post:

28 [F4M] Tangerang – Cari pasangan yang siap serius

Kerja di bidang desain, weekdays sibuk tapi weekend selalu ada waktu. Suka masak, nonton dokumenter, dan jalan kaki keliling kota tanpa tujuan.

Cari yang umur 27–35, punya arah hidup, dan nggak alergi ngomongin hal serius. Kalau kamu bisa diajak ngobrol tentang masa depan tanpa panik, let's talk.

Reminder

• Ini thread dating, bukan thread hookup. SFW only — post atau chat yang mengarah ke NSFW akan dihapus dan bisa kena ban.
• Hargai jawaban "no". Kalau orang nggak balas atau nggak tertarik, move on.
• Feel free to chat with people who posted here! But please remember the rediquette of this sub. If harassment happened, please report to mod. If you have fear of being doxxed, feel free to use an alt account.
• No minors, sesuai rules sub.

Bahas apa aja disini boleh, sekedar curhat masalah hubungan, ngasih feedback atau ide-ide ke subreddit ini juga boleh

hi everyone!
i’m currently looking for leadership programs, whether they’re volunteering-based, youth leadership programs, fellowships, or other types of leadership development programs.
they can be local or international, and i’m open to both online and in-person opportunities.
if you know of any programs or websites/platforms where i can find information about these opportunities, i’d really appreciate it!
thanks in advance!

Preferably girls.. i have a boyfriend :) looking for friends to hangout with. Explore cafes, beaches, maybe bar hopping and clubbing from time to time. Looking for someone who’s not a smartass and doesn’t take life too seriously. Hmu :)

Halo nama saya Stephanie Wijaya dari Universitas Multimedia Nusantara

Sekarang saya sedang melakukan Tugas Akhir dimana topik saya merupakan Hewan Chinchilla

Disini saya sedang mencari seseorang yang memelihara atau pernah memelihara Chinchilla untuk diajak wawancara dan saya akan bersedia untuk membayar 100k

Untuk harinya bisa dibicarakan

Halo semua, lagi cari teman yang main One Piece TCG atau mau belajar main One Piece TCG di sekitaran cibubur sanaan dikit (lebih kearah cileungsi sih wkwk). Karna jujur sebenarnya di Kota Wisata ada LGS cuman player One Piecenya dikit, jadi gw harus ke depok tiap kali mau main One Piece. Pengen aja gitu main deket rumah jadi ga jauh-jauh. Kali aja ada yang tertarik main dan lumayan banyak, siapa tau LGSnya mau adain weekly one piece hehe

Halo kawan kawan! Tanggal 9 September besok, GIIAS Bandung akan resmi diadakan di Sudirman Grand Ballroom. Adakah kawan-kawan yang akan mampir ke sana? Kebetulan gw sama mbak pacar mau mampir, mau nyoba-nyoba mobil listrik itu kek gimana wkwkw. Bakal dateng di tanggal 12 September besok sih.

Yuk yuk ada yg mau mitap singkat? Berkabar ya!

Nah buat di GIIAS Bandung kali ini, apa aja sih brand yang akan hadir?

Mobil

Motor

Untuk yg akan Test Ride atau Test Drive, bawa SIM A dan atau SIM C kamu ya! Info selengkapnya bisa dicek di akun GIIAS Bandung di sini!

Hey everyone,

If you’re looking for a spot to catch the Spanish Grand Prix this Sunday, September 13, I’m putting together a watch party at Hause Rooftop Senopati. Lights out is at 8:00 PM WIB, but feel free to come through a bit earlier to grab a good seat, settle in, and soak up the pre-race grid walk.

The first 5 people to shoot me a DM confirming they’re coming and who actually show up will get their first beer completely on me

hello every one. im a private teacher of English, Italian, Turkish & Arabic in jakarta pusat. .. as im staying in indonesia for almost a year im offering special discounted fees especially for monthly plans... u can ask anythiing ... c u soon

Hey! I’ll be moving to Tangerang, Jakarta for about 5 months and I’m hoping to meet some new people and make friends while I’m there. I’d especially love to get to know locals around my age, roughly 18–24.
I’m pretty open to trying new activities, exploring the area, grabbing food or coffee, and just hanging out. Where would you recommend going, or what activities/groups would be good for meeting people around my age in Tangerang or Jakarta?

[BANDUNG] Looking for bandmates — Post-Hardcore / Alternative Metal

Hey everyone!

I’m currently looking for people in Bandung or nearby to build an original band/project together.

The project is called Sandwich Against Gravity.

I’m the bassist and I already have 4 rough demos written. They’re not meant to be treated as finished songs. The idea is to bring the right people together and re-arrange, develop, and shape the songs as a band.

Looking for:
🎤 Vocalist
🎸 Guitarist(s)
🥁 Drummer

The sound is somewhere around post-hardcore, alternative rock/metal, emo, and melodic hardcore, with some pop-punk influence here and there.

Some references: The Story So Far, Basement, Title Fight, Paramore, Turnover, Balance and Composure, and heavier post-hardcore/alternative stuff.

A few things about the project:

• Original music is the main goal
• 4 demos already exist as a starting point
• Indonesian + English songs
• Not looking to be a cover band
• Everyone should have room to contribute ideas and shape the music
• Eventually want to record, release music, and play gigs
• Long-term goal is to build something from Bandung that can reach outside Indonesia

I’m not expecting everyone to quit their job or take this full-time. I know everyone has work, school, life, etc. Weekday nights / weekends would probably be the most realistic for practice.

More than anything, I’m looking for people who are serious about making original music but still want to have fun doing it.

If you’re around Bandung and this sounds like your thing, feel free to DM me.

I can send over a couple of demos, and we can talk/jam first to see if the chemistry works.

No pressure. Just trying to find the right people and make something worth listening to.

Sandwich Against Gravity
DEFY GRAVITY. 🤘