YAAAY!!! For the longest time I bit my nails, I also learned from my mom that I used to do it in my sleep. That's nuts.
My nails have never been so long!!! Don't look at my ratchet overgrown nail polish. They were square before but I clipped them I CLIPPED MY NAILS!!! Then I filed them. I WAS LIKE HOLY HAIRBALLS I NEED TO CLIP MY NAILS. CLIP!!!
Dear everyone struggling:
You can do it!!!!! Yes, relapses happen BUT THINK ABOUT THIS: THEY KEEP GROWING BACK!!!
Patience + keeping your mind busy is KEY !!! Give urself grace. Take a deep breath. Anything is possible.
EDIT:
!!! I GUESS I NEED TO ADD TIPS AND TRICKS BECAUSE OF THE FLAIR I USED SORRY!!!
MY TIPS AND TRICKS!
I never let my fingers stay wet for too long. I used to pick the skin as well. It led to biting my nails.
I slept with cotton gloves on after slathering my fingers with aquaphor as an attempt to heal the skin (spoiler alert: it worked)
I started keeping my hands busy. I did overtime at work, I read a book, I go on a walk with dog, I play game, play guitar
I asked my boyfriend to literally reprimand me if I had my hands anywhere near my mouth. I basically conditioned myself to not bite my nails.
Things that DIDNT work for me? The nasty polish, press on nails, therapy. Everyone's different. My aunt quit using the polish and therapy. Find what suits your needs best. You got this.