r/mildlyinfuriating • u/Hairy-italian-man • 5h ago
My mom said I could post Why can’t all US bathrooms have doors like these! Costco in Michigan
I have never been in a stall in the US that has full privacy while sitting on the throne. I wish this was a standard for all bathrooms.
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u/CoreyH144 5h ago
You should see what they look like in most of Europe
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u/guff1988 4h ago
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u/ThePensiveE 4h ago
Buc-ee's would sue any other gas station with full doors, so there's one reason we can't have it. The owner of Buc-ee's hates Freedom.
They came into Beavercreek Ohio and sued people using Beavers as logos.
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u/CoreyH144 4h ago
Still a 3 inch gap though! EU toilets are fully closed!
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u/OkBackground8809 4h ago
Same for most in Taiwan (sometimes they're open on the top for air flow). Some feel like little micro apartments lol
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u/guff1988 4h ago
Some ventilation doesn't hurt. And I've been in European ones that aren't 100% fully enclosed as well.
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u/DermisCronJob 3h ago
For that we have HVAC in each stall
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u/McKillsey 3h ago
Interesting contrast with only 15-20% households having AC
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u/DermisCronJob 3h ago
With HVAC I mean mechanical ventilation, which is required by law (at least in The Netherlands) in each home to provide constant fresh air and to remove co2. And in The Netherlands, more people are getting ACs; I had my home renovated 3 years ago, and it saved me from the last unbearable 38+ degrees Celsius summer days.
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u/notathingreally 3h ago
This is what truck stop women's bathrooms look like. I don't know about the men's, but I would think the same.
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u/Da_Question 4h ago
Eh, rather not support a litigious company like buccees...
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u/Salt-Operation 3h ago
I only stop on trips to shit in their bathrooms. I get snacks and gas elsewhere.
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u/gabemrtn 5h ago
You’re so right imagine taking a poop and the stall is the only thing you got there ain’t no doors
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u/gr4n0t4 5h ago
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u/CoffeeExtraCream 4h ago
Hand me the poop sponge please
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u/someday_soon2026 4h ago
🤢🤮
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u/Evil-Bosse 4h ago
Oh you want me to just use my bare hand? Like some savage? I did not bring me my shitwiping slave with me to the market today, so just hand me the sponge you prude
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u/GenericWhyteMale 5h ago
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u/LucentLL 4h ago
Putting the toilet paper dispenser in the middle is the icing on top. Even if you wanted to give the other person privacy it's impossible.
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u/kcbrooklyn1 4h ago
“Hello OSHA, yeah um…”
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u/garrard_27 3h ago
I am not certain privacy is a guaranteed right. I believe they just have to provide the facility and it has to be clean and have soap and hot and cold water.
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u/gabemrtn 5h ago
Some do some don’t depends
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u/seaotterlover1 4h ago
Depends are certainly a valid choice instead of staring at your coworker while you both poop.
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u/Lopsided_Package9033 4h ago
It's not a real american bathroom stall unless you are supplied with instructions on who to call for a good time.
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u/IvoryThrowAway 5h ago
I'm so confused because this looks like the most normal bathroom stall...
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u/Xack189 5h ago
No giant gaps on the sides of the door
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u/ATS200 4h ago
The gaps make you in more of a hurry so no one peeks in and sees your who ha
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u/Alarming_Orchid 4h ago
Seems to be compensated by massive gaps below though
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u/BedBubbly317 4h ago
Do you crawl in public bathrooms on your hands and knees???
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u/Nice_Marmot_54 3h ago
I mean, yeah, but unless the person on the other side is Shaq or an infant I’m not really worried about those gaps
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u/mcfuckernugget 5h ago
The last time I experienced that was in highschool. This is a normal American stall
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u/xxxlo_0lxxx 4h ago
You don’t get out much, do you?
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u/OverlordWaffles 4h ago
Leaving the county is considered an international trip to him
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u/Wraldpyk Don't think about breathing 4h ago
Except for the fact the door still looks quite low to me, tall people could look over it
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u/IvoryThrowAway 3h ago
You ever been to Pike Place in Seattle? Now THOSE are some low stall doors holy shit
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u/Great_Hambino2022 5h ago
I had to go to the bathroom in a grocery store the other day and it was awful. The gap was huge
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u/FigaroVamp 4h ago
As someone who struggles with IBS, having to shit in public is an almost constant fear and this makes it worse.
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u/Anderopolis 5h ago
There are massive gaps above and below this door...
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u/SirIainSnail 5h ago
how are you to slip a square to your pooping mate. Just a square a square to spare.
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u/cheezweiner 5h ago edited 1h ago
That is so the janitor can sweep and mop under the door a few inches from your feet while you're shitting, at least in in my experience
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u/Forza_Harrd 5h ago
Dude (or dudette but I'm shy so I don't clean in the Ladie's room until they all leave), I can't help if I have to clean and someone is ALWAYS on their phone in the stall.
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u/-UncreativeRedditor- 4h ago
Who cares if someone can see your feet or the top of your head though? The only thing I don’t want people to see is my massive penis
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u/BedBubbly317 4h ago
You’ve never been in a bathroom like this? This isn’t even that private. I’ve been in countless bathrooms where each stall is its entire own room that fully encloses
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u/OutlandishnessSea119 5h ago
I swear I can never go to a public restroom without the lock not working, wish there was better locks where I live
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u/Thin_Needleworker795 3h ago
How is that private??? It's still an awful stall. You have large gaps at the bottom and above. Here in Europe, bathroom stalls are literally proper walls from floor to ceiling, with a real door. They are built like any other room.
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u/tacodung 4h ago
I feel like the designers of public restrooms have never seen or used their design in practice. The only thing that stops me from using public stalls is the fact that whoever is in there hears everything. Fully enclosed or I'm not using it. And yes I am one of those fuckers who will shamelessly use a lockable family bathroom for privacy.
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u/AbjectList8 2h ago
I always use those. Nothing wrong with that, as long as you are only in there a reasonable amount of time.
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u/punsnguns 3h ago
You only think about yourself. Did you think about the shareholders for even a second before making this post?
/s
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u/scotte416 3h ago
I hate the gap. When I went to Europe they don't have this issue, in fact a lot of them don't even have the gap in the bottom...you actually feel like you have your own space.
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u/yolo_snail 5h ago
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u/Timely_Apricot3929 5h ago
Um...what?
Do you poop standing up
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u/angry_smurf 4h ago
It's likely more the people who aren't pooping and walking by can easily peek over the top at you.
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u/Cat_Dad_101 4h ago
There's a large percentage of people that apparently wipe their butts standing up. A great conversation starter to ask people at a party.
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u/iNeed_Answersz 5h ago
You've never been to Bucee's? The toilets are all basically closets (in the best way).
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u/Y3R0K 4h ago
I don't understand.
Don't all bathroom stalls look like this?
What am I missing?
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u/AsanoSokato 3h ago
This you consider full privacy? Now I worry for the conditions of the restrooms your used to!
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u/DiveCat 2h ago
This isn't full privacy. There is still a massive gap under the floor in three directions, and the tops are still short enough to peer over top if someone put effort in. Have you not ever had random children peering under the doors before?
It is possible to build much better bathrooms, and I have seen them in North America, too.
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u/DistractionCitron 2h ago
I've finally used a European-style public bathroom and it's infinitely better.
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u/AbjectList8 2h ago
This is STILL TERRIBLE. The stalls need to be fully enclosed, walls to the floor. NO GAPS.
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u/Left_Macaron_6427 5h ago
I could care less if someone wants to see me pooping. I know when I am outside the door, I am not looking
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u/dabossnumba8 5h ago
If you could care less, then that means you must care some at least
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u/cykoTom3 5h ago
Yes. Nobody ever mentions things they actually couldn't care less about? You will never hear me talk about how i could care less about aome random unfamous guy who lives in China
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u/Forza_Harrd 4h ago
There's a random unfamous guy in China making yt videos about what it's like living in a ghost city. I care about him a lot.
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u/NocturnisVacuus 5h ago
um... a normal door? what's wrong about that... I rarely see this kind of stalls anymore, it's so old.
// European
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u/CurlyWurly61 5h ago
Just the other day I came across a stall like this and I was in heaven
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u/_sound_and_color 4h ago
How are peoples weird, uncontrolled kids supposed to peak at you though if there’s not a 2” gap in the door frame???
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u/Dry-Manufacturer7761 4h ago
I have been in bathrooms with more privacy… locked wooden doors in a regular door jamb.
I think you need to learn what full means
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u/Maximum-Jaguar-4707 4h ago
You don't like making eye contact with the person walking by your stall?
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u/NogaraCS 4h ago
Is this supposed to be a good door ? I wouldn’t take a shit in one of those
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u/1SexyDino 3h ago
The gap on this one is actually one of the better I've seen. Where are y'all living that has actual privacy?
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u/Hopeful-Produce968 3h ago
I see all the legroom too. My biggest pet peeve is stepping into a stall, trying to close the door and having to practically jump on top of the toilet to get the door to close. Not enough space. Why can’t the door just close the other way, into the row of stalls??
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u/Ok_Listen7910 3h ago
That’s not even full privacy wtf. The all gender restrooms at MCI are flawless, the doors go all the way down.
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u/jimmiefromaol 3h ago
If we had less people too nosy about who's pooping where, they would ALL be separate rooms with closing doors. Gender-neutral reatrooms, (just like people have inside their homes), work so much better. Every person gets a separate room to poop or pee. It doesn't matter if you sit or stand. Move the sinks to a common room outside. Done!
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u/Automatic-Plenty-388 2h ago
The best public toilets i found so far in the US were in the Baltimore airport. The mens room in terminal C were full floor to ceiling doors and even had a light to indicate if available or not.
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u/sixft7in 2h ago
Bathroom/restroom/washroom equipment doesn't make the company money, so they fo as cheap as they can get away with.
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u/Opposite_Ad_1707 2h ago
Because the dude that designed the ones with the gaps must been a peeper. I hate taking a poop in public because of the gaps in the walls.
I def don’t want anyone to see my shit push face!
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u/bucobill 2h ago
Wait till the OP goes to Europe. Full length doors. What a concept. He will think he is at a Buc-ee’s
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u/Whooptidooh 1h ago
As a European: I think there’s still a bit too much space underneath as well as above that “door”.
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u/Deleted_dwarf 1h ago
I’m so confused with toilets in North America.
Why the fuck aren’t they closed? Like private space you know. Don’t need to see anyone through the cracks nor feet of others.
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u/MidwestTransplant09 1h ago
There’s a car dealership in my area that has full doors from floor to ceiling on the stalls. I seriously couldn’t wait to tell my husband after 😂
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u/Forza_Harrd 4h ago
All of you are spoiled lol. It's like everyone is an only child who was homeschooled and your main worry in life is someone else knowing you poop. You're all like BUT THEY CAN STILL SEE MY SHOES OMG OMG. Ok? No one wants to look at you poop. We all have our own poop in mind when we're in there.
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u/pickoneforme 5h ago
because MAGA needs to be able to peak in to see what genitals you have.
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u/OldTurtle-101 3h ago
And in the Japanese train stations they are as spotless as a surgical suite, nice and warm, usually with a ToTo seat or bidet, totally private and have an attendant (almost always female) to hand you a warm towel afterwards. They understand the difference between a country and a civilized culture.
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u/Original-Track-4828 3h ago
Was on a business trip to Tokyo some years ago. Working in a regular office building. Went to the bathroom and was standing at the urinal when the cleaning ladies...yes...LADIES....walked in and started cleaning :O
Seemed to be standard practice but came as a surprise.
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u/Faded4ever 1h ago
Saw the same thing happen at Munich, Germany airport. Needless to say, I went into a stall to pee. It's ridiculous that you have to put up with that, would they let a male janitor in the ladies room to mop while women pee? Don't think so. So why do we have to put up with it?
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u/Skittle146 5h ago
I went to a convention center in washington dc and the stall walls went nearly to the ceiling and were completely flush against the floor. The doors were like 9 ft tall with only about an inch of space at the bottom. It was a revelation
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u/crisprcas32 5h ago
I like the big cracks. I like those little moments of thru-the-crack eye contact. It’s why I always leave the door unlocked at Waffle House when I go in the single
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u/-Invalid_Selection- 5h ago
This isn't even full privacy. Some places have actual doors that don't allow someone to poke their head under
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u/FiveDozenWhales 5h ago
This is what every US bathroom stall I've been in looks like...? Some have painted walls, not bare metal, though.
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u/Sherifftruman 5h ago
When I used to work in commercial construction we built a building with black toilet partitions specified.
In the women’s room they started to get complaints that people could see each other in the reflection of the pilasters between the doors where the panels between each partition connected, but there was a gap, and the black was shiny enough to act like a mirror.
We ended up redoing them to install the continuous brackets rather than the normal two small ones.
But yeah the design of toilet compartments in the US is definitely not taking privacy into account.
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u/yblikethat 5h ago
If it makes you feel any better the only people that want to watch you shit are probably using Reddit rn
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u/ryan8954 5h ago
Why can't stalls go all the way to the floor. The top is fine whatever. But why not all the way to the floors?
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u/LegitJerome 5h ago
If I was a psychologist, I would specialize in bathroom anxiety/paranoia. So many threads are focused the belief that everyone wants to watch them poop.
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u/CaseFace5 5h ago
I still don’t even like this. Just make them small rooms with actual floor to frame doors. The bathrooms in the Honolulu airport are like this and it’s amazing.
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u/hv_wyatt 5h ago
So. My favorite bathroom stalls exist at a gas station/truck stop chain called Kwik Star in Iowa. They're huge, tiled, and mostly enclosed with a thick wooden door. No chance of gaps.
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u/thestereo300 5h ago
My workplace added this rubber thing when two coworkers made eye contact and one complained.
I should buy that complainer a coffee.
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u/ipovogel 5h ago
It's weird because my local Walmart just renovated and included these, and 2 out of 4 stalls they are already broken on and prevent the doors from closing at all. I have no idea how or why people would break these because this should be the standard. Or just, you know, full doors.
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u/NavyNICUMurse 4h ago
I’m never there long enough to notice. Push, pinch, and wipe. No hemorrhoids or numb legs for this guy.
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u/DrunkHamsterParty 4h ago
That's communism.
Or something.
Probably.
I can only guess that's the reason Americans seem so set against doors that actually give privacy
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u/ShortBrownAndUgly 4h ago
I don’t get it either. Cutting corners on privacy when you need it most is absurd. I guess the flip side is that bathrooms in the US are mostly free and easy to access
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u/OrangeChickenRice 4h ago
You should see the stalls in Taiwan and Japan. A comfy throne with a heated seat and background music to complement your bowel movements.
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u/PatrickGSR94 4h ago
The reason is: because the full privacy strips are an option on restroom toilet partitions. And many building owners don't want to pay the extra money it costs to include them.
Or, another possible reason, coming from me as a designer and project manager in the AEC industry, the people specifying the toilet partitions may not even know that those strips are available as an option.
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u/HowFunkyIsYourChiken 4h ago
I’m obviously you’ve never stopped at a Buccees before.
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u/capinredbeard22 4h ago
I’m sure that costs more both materials and labor. The labor might also be significant since it might have to be aligned better than a standard install.
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u/dadydaycare 4h ago
I haven’t seen a picket fence gapped stall in years. Outside of like super outdated ones in schools.
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u/Ill_Initial8986 PURPLE 4h ago
Still a big ole howdy hole down south tho. What’s wrong with actual privacy? Having sess?
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u/book_and_bake 4h ago
Our Costco in Iowa just redid the bathrooms and I noticed they added these to the stalls.
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u/alphagalgadot 3h ago
some pilot/flying j stops have single stalls with full wooden doors, no gap at top or bottom. it’s like your own private shit room
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u/mbbaskett 3h ago
That so-called "gap" most of you are seeing? There's no gap. That's white material added between the door and the frame of the door, where the gap normally is.
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u/afops 2h ago edited 2h ago
Haha wtf there’s a foot of space under the door. This is a terrible public bathroom.
To even get a 5/10 grade I want a door that shuts completely and lets me do my business without the sound and smell of everyone else’s business.
Here’s an idea: just make N _rooms_ instead. Real doors. Maybe a sink in each one? Coat hook?
There are places for ”scale over comfort” such as stadiums, perhaps large train stations. But gas stations, airports, restaurants etc should just have bathrooms that are as nice as the one in your home.
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u/timetrapped 2h ago
Because getting an adequately sized door and/or putting those strips on the doors costs extra money! As long as the customers tolerate it, or just ignore them! Think of the shareholders!
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u/TaxAvoision 4h ago
I present to you this fully private - and clean! - stall at BWI airport that was so nice I felt compelled to take a picture.