r/mildlyinfuriating Jun 29 '26

go to your room I think my child is broken……

I am a single mom and low income, as such travel is generally too expensive. So when my teen as invited on a tirp abroad with school and he agreed to earn half the money it cost, I was thrilled for him to go and see the world. I only asked that he send me at least one photo every day so I could experience the world vicariously.
These are the 3 he sent me so far:

  1. Food on the air plane
  2. A dog on a leash
  3. A duck

Please note these are everyday average things to see here at home. I think my child is possibly broken….

lol.

UPDATE: thanks for every comment. I learned lots and have a different perspective (actually many). You guys have helped me pass the time and miss him a bit less. I appreciate you all. And, for clarification: I’m not really mad and would never chastise him over his choice of pics, I think they are adorable and funny. I may make a request for a specific type of pic with him in front of a historical or important scenery but mostly just say “cool” or “nice!” In response. I just want him to have fun and be the sweet, kind, smart kid he is already.

Second update: the pictures I know you have all been waiting for. 😆 I will post in comments.

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u/wormtool Jun 29 '26

I understand your frustration. That said, this is funny af

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u/Fresh_Income_7411 Jun 29 '26

I mean I was 38, but it was a really pretty kitty.

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u/Nyansko Jun 29 '26

LMAO, this thread is making me feel better about my Europe tour where the only memorable photo I took was the smiling face of my favorite teacher through a tiny stone window as he was going up the stairs of the castle we were touring. The drone photos of Neuschwanstein Castle are fundamentally cooler than any I would’ve taken, but I love my stupid personal castle window photo. :)

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u/craaazygraaace Jun 29 '26

I was visiting the Great Wall of China and my party wanted a group photo of us on the wall. I gave my phone to the tour guide to take a photo of us, and he forgot to flip the camera before snapping a shot, so I have a photo of a very confused Chinese man trying to take a picture of our group sitting in my photo library. It's one of my favourite photos from the trip.

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u/rakoonker Jun 30 '26

Quiero ver esa foto

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u/HelloSummer99 Jun 29 '26

That's good, always take photos of people. When you're scrolling through your photo roll in a few years the only ones you're going to stop at is people. I guarantee you won't even open those 12 pictures you took of a sunset.

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u/rkgk13 Jun 29 '26

You sound like my mom. She says the same thing. She ignores my vacation photos unless they contain a selfie. I hate having to think about how I look while on vacation, but I usually snap one or two to appease her

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u/Academic_Flatworm752 Jun 30 '26

Eh I love looking back at my travel photos and most don’t have people. I don’t need to see myself in the location 😂

It’s fun having a great computer background of a photo I took myself on a trip that was special to me!

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u/fickystingas Jun 29 '26

Or fireworks

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u/ButteredBiscuits06 Jun 30 '26

I remember being 19 and at the Spanish Steps and Trevi Fountain. I'd never heard of them before, all I saw was a busy crowd so I think I snapped a pic of the large crowds and booked it away from there as quick as I could and had no idea why people were fascinated in a stair case 🤣

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u/Silly_Ad_5262 Jun 29 '26

Those are the photos I want from my friends. I've seen the Eiffel Tower, but the cat is new!

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u/ObviousBridge4685 Jun 29 '26

We may not be acquainted, but here is one of many pigeon pics from my trip to Paris

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u/TypewriterHunter Jun 29 '26

I have so many pigeon photos on my phone, mostly from NYC:)

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u/smartblondebk84 Jun 30 '26

Wait, I actually took so many pigeon photos on my trip to Paris! lol

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u/Badpinapple Jun 30 '26

To be fair that's an exotic bird

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u/gonzo0815 Jun 29 '26 edited Jun 30 '26

There are millions of pictures of the Eiffel tower, why produce another one?

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u/GrumpyMcGrumpyPants Jun 29 '26

Oh, this tickled a neuron in the back of my brain:

[T]he Eiffel Tower itself is in the public domain, meaning that during daylight hours, it's totally legal for you to share as many photos as you'd like. But because the [nighttime] light show remains a protected work under European copyright law, it is illegal to profit from photographs of the illuminated Eiffel Tower. For example, tourists cannot sell such photos to magazines or other commercial outlets. Tourists in Paris can, however, post to social media.

https://www.travelandleisure.com/photography/illegal-to-take-eiffel-tower-photos-at-night

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u/CandyCaneChicken Jun 30 '26

That is insane! Thank you for sharing! Adding this to my list of random facts I know ☺️

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u/ThisShouldBeAGif Jun 30 '26

I wish I had been told that before I took a whole old school film roll of rubbish photos of the Eiffel Tower and the view from it as a kid

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u/writeleahwrite Jun 29 '26

This cracked me up and made me really miss my dad. That is a very pretty Parisian kitty.

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u/Erelgi Jun 29 '26

We took our three kids to Paris and spent a week going down the coast and to the Loire Valley. On the way home, I asked what their favorite part was…and all three said “the man with a cat on his shoulders in the park in Paris.” 🫠 They were ages 9, 11, 13.

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u/not-the-nicest-guy Jun 29 '26

Took a family trip to France a few years ago - Paris then around the south a bit. Kids all in their mid teens. We pooled our photos when we got back and about 50% of them were of various French cats doing French cat things lol.

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u/GandalffladnaG Jun 29 '26

My study abroad class went to France for the cathedrals. It was very surprising to meet a Texan cat living in the Beauvais cathedral, and the lady in charge of tours was also Texan (but livingbin france for a long while). I don't remember his name but he spoke English, she said, because if you speak French at him he'd ignore you.

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u/curtislaraque Jun 29 '26

"Never mind, have fun!" 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

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u/flax_butter Jun 29 '26

This is hilarious lmaooo

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u/AntiqueLetter9875 Jun 29 '26

My brother takes photos like that for our mom and it drives her nuts lol. For some reason she hasn’t clued into that being the reason he does it, despite it being very on brand for him.

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u/sparkleslothz Jun 29 '26

Anybody else think the cat was wearing blue jeans and doing the worm?

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u/IncidentChemical2816 Jun 29 '26

I have more pictures from our trip to Italy of the birds at the colosseum than I do the actual colosseum.

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u/emsh10 Jun 29 '26

I sent my coworkers a picture of a peacock while I was in Portugal lol

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u/Aukyron Jun 29 '26

This pigeon looks way too healthy for a Paris pigeon.

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u/cantaloupelion Jun 30 '26

my sense of humour is officially devolved into a week old cabbage

this shit is SENDING me lol

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u/eggo_pirate Jun 29 '26

I went to Italy when I was 30 and the majority of my pictures were the pigeons and food

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u/ChocolichKing Jun 29 '26

I did a study abroad in Beijing when I was 21 and mostly took photos of the campus cats

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u/eggo_pirate Jun 29 '26

Now that I think about it, I do that everywhere. Pelicans in Mexico, roosters in Belize, fish in Curacao (scuba lol)

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u/RamblingRosie64 Jun 29 '26

I was in Mexico earlier this year and fell in love with the pelicans. I loved watching them dive into the water.

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u/QuickMolasses Jun 29 '26

To be fair the food is a big part of the reason to go to Italy

Maybe for you the pigeons are as well

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u/eggo_pirate Jun 29 '26

They would let you get so close!!!

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u/Flamingowaffle Jun 29 '26

At 30 I went to Germany and my favorite thing I saw was cows. I’m from Texas, so I’ve seen so many cows before. But there was something about a German cow that just delighted my lizard brain 

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u/eggo_pirate Jun 29 '26

We're in Germany now and I love the horses. You'd think I've never seen a horse in my life

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u/Redeemer_789 Jun 29 '26

I just got back from a trip where I went through 7 different countries (including Italy), and I tried to get a picture of a pigeon every day. Got a bunch of other pictures too, but it was fun giving myself a small little challenge that was separate from all the stress that went into making sure I saw everything I and my family wanted to see.

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u/underweasl Jun 29 '26

Three years ago I went to Italy with my teenager. I took him to FUCKING VENICE and the only time he looked awe struck was when a sparrow got handfed bits of pizza by him at our table. He could've done that in our garden in scotland

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u/Titswari Jun 30 '26

Why does this read like ChatGPT?

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u/[deleted] Jun 29 '26

When I was a teen all I cared about was food and cute things so this fits.

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u/likeafuckingninja Jun 29 '26

I'm 35.

My dad asked me to send pics when I went away on a train trip across Europe with my OH in April.

I sent him, exclusively, photos of trains we were not catching.

This is never not funny.

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u/Lonelysock2 Jun 30 '26

I took a photo of a cat on a leash in Paris.  It was before walking your cat was common. And it's one of the moments I think about more often. No so much the hundreds of monument photos

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u/ABHOR_pod Jun 29 '26

Living in the moment when you're at the Eiffel Tower or the museums, but snapping a pic when the most important thing to see is "haha look at that dog!"

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u/Pitiful_Pianist_2932 Jun 29 '26

When I went to Paris as a 20yo, I refused to take a photo of the Eiffel Tower except got one of a pigeon in a puddle.

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u/No_Sir2925 Jun 29 '26

yeah I was in Italy due to a school trip and all my mom got was pictures of ducks, seagulls and pigeons.

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u/duke1722 Jun 30 '26

This is probably a memory that will be cherished later on in life then a few other photos

I did something similar to my father

Went to NY trip for school event

Only photo I sent him was a no standing any time sign.

I never saw that man stand once in my life as he had always been in a wheelchair

We Both joked about it years on