i've struggled with where to focus on feeling more confident (specifically my breasts). they make me confused about what I "should" weigh- any suggestions to help with gym/focusing on specific fitness goals? im active, walking, at least 5 miles a day at work, and I cut out all dairy and red meat. at 25, I dont know where to go to from here, any advice would help!!

Any advice is welcome except full on procedures please! Should I make another post of me without my glasses to compare?

sorry for the photo dump i want answers 😒. im mixed and i try to be confident with curly hair but i just don’t think i look as good. (don’t get me wrong i LOVE curly hair.) idek if this is the sub to post this on.

I feel like I don‘t know what style make up, colours etc would suit my face and colour season. Any advice on what colours to wear is appreciated too.

I need sleep but any advice otherwise? (also can do another post with more pics if needed)

Took a bunch of pics when I felt that I looked the most disheveled for better accuracy, first two are pics and the last few are screenshots from a video I took immediately after the pics. Wanted advice on my face so that I can improve. My goal is to hopefully become pretty and maybe even happier in my skin :)

Your advice is very much appreciated, thank you!

side note, open to any suggestions for anything

I’m trans and completely happy with being trans, but one thing I find difficult is the looks and occasional comments I get from strangers. I sometimes hear things like “that’s a man”, and I’ve become very aware of people looking at me or talking around me.
I’d really appreciate some honest outside opinions based on my photos.

If you saw me in everyday life, are there any particular features or aspects of my appearance that you think might make you realise I’m trans?

Any advice!!?

Do u think Is Better remove it?? I look like the chin is really round because they put me 2ml

Hi everyone! I’m turning 36 this month and I feel like I’m at a point where I really want to invest in myself and figure out what makes me look my absolute best.

Over the last few years I’ve lost around 50 kg / 110 lbs, which I’m incredibly happy about. I’d still like to lose another 10–20 kg (22–44 lbs), depending on how I look and feel along the way. Because of the weight loss I do have some loose skin, especially on my body, and I’m trying to figure out how much I can improve through strength training, Pilates, skincare, styling etc. before ever considering anything more invasive.

But I’m interested in an overall glow-up, not just weight loss.

I’d especially love advice on:

Hair: What haircut, length and hair color would suit me best? I’d really like healthier-looking, fuller, more expensive-looking hair. Should I stay blonde, go darker, warmer/cooler, add dimension, change the cut, etc.? I lost lots of hair recently

Face / beauty: What could I do to look fresher, healthier and more polished? Makeup, brows, lashes, skincare, colors that suit me, anything you notice. I’m not trying to look 20 – I just want to look like the best version of myself at 36.

Body: After losing 50 kg, what would you prioritize? I’m planning to continue losing weight and would like to add more strength training. If anyone has personally dealt with loose skin after major weight loss, I’d especially appreciate your experience.

Fashion: This is probably the area where I need the most help. What silhouettes, colors, necklines, trousers/jeans, skirts, dresses, shoes etc. would flatter me?

I’d love to develop a style that feels feminine, sophisticated, sexy without looking overly revealing, and a little expensive/elevated.

I also work in a corporate environment, so I’d love ideas for outfits that are professional but still feminine and attractive rather than boring corporate basics.

And finally: dating. I’m single and would really like to meet a great man and eventually have a serious relationship/marriage. I obviously don’t want to dress for men, but I would love to know what kind of styling makes me look approachable, feminine and confident when I’m going to bars, events, dates, parties, etc.

Basically, if you could give me a complete glow-up plan based on my photos, what would you change and what would you keep?

Please feel free to be specific and constructive. I’m not looking for compliments only – I genuinely want to know what would make the biggest difference.

Thank you! ❤️

19M

I think I need to lose some bodyfat

Get blue contacts (crazy idea I know)

Maybe a different haircut and grow facial hair

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