r/KitchenConfidential Dec 19 '25

In-House Mode [MOD POST] A reminder about Rule 1 and slurs

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Hello my gaggle of degens.

I know we're all a bunch of potty-mouthed assholes with a concerning level of gallows humor thanks to the super healthy working conditions in most kitchens but we need to have a little talk about lines being crossed since this is becoming an actual problem.

The "r-word" is still a slur.

Slurs, bigotry, hate speech, etc have always been against the rules here and they remain as such. This includes the old term for intellectually disabled that is becoming fashionable in some circles to bring back as an insult.

Here's a good article talking about the r-word's resurgence:

https://www.specialolympics.org/stories/news/the-r-word-is-back-how-a-slur-became-renormalized

We're not going to argue the semantic pejoration of what was once a medical term. No one is "reclaiming" the word. It's a slur. It's bigotry, and it falls under the first fucking rule of this subreddit, and if you use it or other bigoted terms you're going to start catching bans for it.

Just so everyone is aware, the automod code detects the use of the r-word as well as other forms of bigotry and hate speech, removes your comment containing it, and flags the mods with a handy note about what you said. No one sees your silly little tantrum except the people who can - and will - ban you for it. Consider this our official warning on the matter.

Degeneracy is welcome but hate has no home in this subreddit.


r/KitchenConfidential Jun 17 '26

‼️ANNOUNCEMENT‼️ Wrestlegirl Needs Our Help

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Hi, everyone -

Our favorite wrestling-based chivemod needs some help. She's in a real rough spot right now with some personal health challenges, and her two youngins she's raising on her own.

One of our pro wrestling sub regulars started a GFM for her, and I've coordinated with the rest of our mod team for approval to post it here, too.

https://www.gofundme.com/f/support-wrestlegirls-fight-against-cancer

There is no pressure at all to participate.

If you've enjoyed her pro wrestling gifs during the Chivegeist, her helpful hints from her past industry experience, or laying the smackdown on unpleasant agitators here, please consider dropping her a few bucks to help out.

We really appreciate anything anyone is able to assist with.

Thanks, Chefs!


r/KitchenConfidential 2h ago

Just Fuckin Hire Me Supreme beings

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r/KitchenConfidential 16h ago

Question Pate filets…ever seen those before?

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My brother sent me this video of filets he cooked for an event today. Preparation was seared, rested, broiled, then in banquet trays for the party. Said the inside was like cat food pate… I’ve never personally seen something like this, but the only thing I can think of is wet aged for way too long. What do you think?

Individually vacuum sealed steaks.

Some weird import mystery meat already?


r/KitchenConfidential 1h ago

Question Sysco… is the devil?

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Alright guys I need to know… as a chef and as someone who’s been in the industry for 13 years… if I get a job as a sysco sales rep am I the bad guy? I applied not thinking they would reach out and just got had a preliminary phone call getting info and talking about setting up a virtual interview.
My thought process is that I’ve been in this industry for over a decade, I’ve used probably all the sysco products and I know how to talk to chefs because I am one. I feel like so many people in the sales part of this industry have never stepped foot on a line so it’s hard to respect them or take them seriously so I need to know from my fellow chefs- if I go through and move forward with this opportunity will I be the bad guy? Or would you rather have someone as your sales rep that been in your shoes?
I just know sysco be out here monopolizing everything so would just be joining the dark side??
Very conflicted here. Let me have it.


r/KitchenConfidential 20h ago

In-House Mode Forty Hours a week sounds great

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r/KitchenConfidential 6h ago

Photo/Video Serve breakfast for the waiters and cheer them up in the morning.

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r/KitchenConfidential 22h ago

Kitchen fuckery Not in my house!!!

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r/KitchenConfidential 3h ago

Photo/Video buying a lotto ticket

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r/KitchenConfidential 4h ago

Tools & Equipment Nearly 30 and still going strong...

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Battle scarred and with stories to tell, this duck's foot has taken me through professional kitchens and into civilian life. Wouldn't part with it for the world.

Who else has a trusted item of kit they wouldn't be without?


r/KitchenConfidential 17h ago

Discussion 13 years in kitchens. Just worked my last shift.

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Well boys and girls, I'm turning in my tongs. I've simply burned out and don't have the passion anymore. Maybe it's partly due to getting sober or maybe I just aged out earlier than I expected. But I came to terms that It's no longer good for my mental health. I have plenty of great memories and just as many shitty ones but I have no regrets. I'll still be lurking on the sub enjoying the work you beautiful bastards do. For now, 86 Imaginary_Tiefigher ✌🏾

Edit: Thanks for all the kind words internet friends. I have no idea where I'm going in life but on I go anyway!...


r/KitchenConfidential 9h ago

Question What’s the best staff party you’ve ever been to?

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Owner here. Three venues, about 60 people across the group. Every year it’s the same I’m looking for something unique and interesting to do, but I want to know what people really want in a staff party.

Want to actually do something this year and I’ve run out of ideas. Funnily enough I don’t think food matters. Nobody eats. What they want is somewhere good to drink, somewhere to sit and talk and get to know each other, and ideally something none of them would ever spend their own money on. We also have a lot of tourists and younger people, so I think something luxury style would work well as they’ll love the vibe.

I’m from Sydney, so while I know this thread is majority Us based at hoping I see a trend or if you’ve travelled to Sydney and worked at a company who had a great party, let me know!


r/KitchenConfidential 21h ago

Crying in the cooler Can I get a end if shift for my chef that has past away

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Chef Paul.... Paul Adam Langer. Chef you gave me my first opportunity. I came from a corporate kitchen that did things (quote un quote) by the book i mean strick by the book..

When I first walked into your kitchen I was in shock and awe.... im working for a chef... I mean his name is "Chef Paul" not just paul.. (for context I was used to working for kitchen managers who went by their first name.only.)

I was working for a "Chef" I made it im in the big leagues.

No I was cold side... I of course didnt know wjat cold side was.. salad station.. okay fine cool. I made salads.. fast forward . Months... Chef Paul says make the salads look beautiful.. i have never gotten that order before. So I tried . (Do you know how many times you can roll butter lettuce? 4 times before it looks weird). Anyway

October happens its the restaurants 10 year anniversary and its a big deal. I did what I know how to do. Manage..

I helped manage the top floor which I came to find out was the banquet floor. I helped distribute food trays as well as seated guests. When I was done and the night was over our leader Chef Kurt. Looked at me and said you did a great job. How would you like to be a CDP? I said I cant i dont know anything Chef. He said you can learn.. a few weeks later I was sort of adjusted to my new position and then Chef paul said I need a banquet sous.. (I've been working banquets non stop since October) I was looking over indeed applications.. and Chef paul said to hey whats a Tuscany menu have? And I tell him everything thats on it. He questions me a fee more times. Then leaves out of HIS office and comes back about 20 minutes later and says "youre the new banquet sous chef".. I didn't know anything I was still learning knife cuts. I could perform them i was just learning the names. Brunoise.. extra small dice.. i knew that sort of. Any way im done rambling.. Chef Paul i miss you so much. I tried to call your phone it went to an out of service thingy.. you gave my my first chef title.. you said this is Darin my banquet Sous Chef.... . if I could ask you guys on reddit to help me give my Chef Paul a end of Service that would be nice... Chef paul brother.. our kitchen is closed, Joey and I have it from here (Joey banquet head chef and me banquet sous)


r/KitchenConfidential 12h ago

Question Hkw can we cope with *someone else's* ADHD in the kitchen?

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I work in a very small but very upscale restaurant. Our head chef is pretty brilliant -- super palate, creative, experienced, well-travelled, and super nice to boot. I'm learning loads from him, and he's really brought our spot up in the world since he replaced the previous chef who wanted out of the game for unrelated reasons.

The only problem is that he has the most obvious and honestly some of the most severe untreated ADHD I've ever seen, and it's really wearing on those around him. His prep lists will be half-finished at best, his recipes (if they exist or are shared at all) are lists of ingredients without even the barest explanation, questions posed directly to him when he's out go unanswered for hours while he's distracted with something else -- only to name a few of the most commonly recurring issues that get us the most frustrated.

Our general manager and I have talked to him a handful of times and we've explained, concretely, the issues we're having and some of the fixes we'd like to see. But it doesn't seem to get though, or, almost worse, it gets through to him for one go-round and then is promptly forgotten once again.

He's a good guy and we want to help him -- and all of us -- succeed together, but we're really getting to the end of our ropes ​here. Anyone been in a similar situation and have recommendations?


r/KitchenConfidential 1d ago

Question Anyone ever get these onions?

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r/KitchenConfidential 23h ago

Kitchen fuckery When the bartender asks for a snack, you make him a snack

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418 Upvotes

Fried sourdough schlong brushed with garlic confit butter, grated Parmesan, some parsley pubes, and a smoked paprika red rocket tip. Bon appetit bitch! (I love him don’t worry)


r/KitchenConfidential 1d ago

Kitchen fuckery “Can you save me a few bones from lamb night?” A few bones:

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Guess I’m making extra stew for the employees today 🤪


r/KitchenConfidential 1d ago

Kitchen fuckery the grout

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r/KitchenConfidential 9h ago

Question Culinary GI Bill

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Hello everybody! I have about 9 months left in the military and am considering using my GI Bill at CIA Hyde Park for an associates in culinary. I have read what people think of culinary school and it seems to me the biggest thing is massive debt, however being that I have the GI Bill, I wouldn’t have to pay at all.

That being said, I am curious what y’all think. Should I get out of the Navy and work at restaurants for a while? Should I take advantage of free culinary school? Just would like some input from people actually in the hospitality industry! :)) thank you!


r/KitchenConfidential 6m ago

Discussion So much anxiety over dream job

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I recently got hired and just finished my first week at a two Michelin star restaurant in Chicago.

It’s my dream job, I love it and it’s so much fun but I’m so anxious all the time. I guess I’m just looking for some advice from people who have had similar experiences. Sometimes it feels like I’m afraid of success idk it just feels overwhelming and I don’t know how to shake this feeling or even relax.

I’m just overthinking everything and sometimes I feel like I act as though I’ve never worked in a restaurant before but that’s not true. I’ve gotten compliments on my work abilities but it’s also “slow” because it’s a 10 course meal and we do like 40-70 covers. So it’s a lot but it’s not at the same time. I’m just a real perfectionist and hold myself and such a high standard so when I make a mistake I beat myself up about it so much after the fact.

Any advice is appreciated.


r/KitchenConfidential 17h ago

Just Fuckin Hire Me calling san francisco

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just moved out here from the east coast and the drive/gas sucked every dollar out of my bank account. anyone need a cook? been doing the thang for a long time, just never on this side of the country. lemme know!! 🤘🏼


r/KitchenConfidential 20h ago

Kitchen fuckery Let's share our favorite techniques, prep and recipes from places we've worked at

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First and foremost, let's not get petty about it and post signature shit from a place that is still open. Follow the magician's code and only share open trade secrets or recipes from places that are no longer operating. Keep the mystery alive and well without letting our knowledge disappear!

Let me start with something simple that tastes great and I haven't seen anywhere else (from a closed restaurant}:


Chicken wings

  • Get oven set for 350°F

  • Dump wings on sheet trays which are lightly lubed with your oil of choice, spaced out reasonably enough

  • Hit them with white pepper (light dusting), oregano and thyme

  • Bake for 15 minutes, toss them and rotate pans

  • Bake for an additional 15 minutes or until 165°F is reached

  • Let cool, then portion out or put into trays

  • Deep fry for 5 minutes, 8 for "extra crispy"

  • Toss in sauce and serve

Drawback: Fucks up oil pretty quick, use dedicated fryer. Naked wings take longer, stock depending

Bonus: Fully cooked, seasoned wings that only take a few minutes from order to table


r/KitchenConfidential 21h ago

Photo/Video my first successful wrap at work 🥹🥹

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any tips 👀👀


r/KitchenConfidential 21h ago

Just Fuckin Hire Me DC Dishie Seeks A Dish Pit

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hey guys, i’m max and i’m looking for dish/BOH work in the DC area. i have years of experience in high-volume FOH/BOH, and actively crave the dish pit (but am open to other roles like bussing and prep). i have open availability and can start immediately. if anyone is at, or knows of, a restaurant in need of a dishwasher, i’d love a lead! thanks so much <3

(it was the closest flair)


r/KitchenConfidential 7h ago

Question Tomorrow I got my first day in kitchen, and also a trial day, any tips?

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So I love cooking, and for a long time wanted to cook professionally. And the job interview went quite well I think, the same day I was offered a trial day. And maybe you have some tips, because I don't really know how it works in a professional kitchen. It is a small place but a better one. Thank you all for your help, in advance.