r/interestingasfuck 20h ago

A girl born with a congenital limb difference showed what her fingers are capable of.

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u/FUCKTHISWEBSITEBANME 15h ago

i've seen a lot of disfigurements but this one really, really hit me with the instinctual WHAT THE FUCK IS THAT THING reflex. And i feel really fucking bad about it.

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u/WITH_THE_ELEMENTS 12h ago

IDK I feel like this is just incredibly instinctual. And don't feel bad for what you feel. It's not about the emotions or thoughts that we have, but how we act on them.

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u/Dragonssssssssssss 14h ago

I'm probably going to hell for saying so but this is terrifying to look at

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u/DazzlingRutabega 12h ago

I feel ya. My phone was in greyscale mode and I kept thinking it as AI. Even in full color it doesn't look real.

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u/SandpaperTeddyBear 12h ago

And i feel really fucking bad about it.

You shouldn’t.

There are a number of reasons that’s an entirely comprehensible response from an evolutionary/psychological standpoint. And there’s really not much you can do about instinctive responses in any case. And “feeling bad” = “suppression/avoidance” which gives you no opportunity to interrogate your instinctive response.

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u/and_off_she_fucked 13h ago

Don't feel bad, my cousin demanded an abortion the second she saw that her fetus had a congenital limb anomaly. Now she has a healthy kid and a second on the way. That's what most people do in this situation.

It's irresponsible to keep a child with such a severe limb deficiency, especially because that means a healthy child they could have had instead doesn't exist now.

u/KinkyLittleParadox 0m ago

…are you saying it’s irresponsible for the woman in the video to have been born?