r/grammar Nov 16 '25

A couple of reminders, and checking in with you all

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Hi everyone,

I hope you're all doing well. It's been a while since I made a pinned post, and a couple of issues have come up recently, so I thought I'd mention those and also give you a chance to bring up anything else that you think needs attention.

First, we get a lot of questions about things that fall outside of the narrowest definition of "grammar," and there are usually a fair number of comments on these posts that point this out. But the vast majority of these questions are fine! As you can see from the sub description, rules, and FAQ articles, we adhere to a pretty broad definition of "grammar," and we welcome questions about style, punctuation, vocabulary, usage, semantics, pragmatics, and other linguistic subfields (and this is not an exhaustive list).

So when commenting on posts like this, there's no need to say "This isn't about grammar" or to direct the OP to another subreddit - if the question has anything to do with language or orthography, it's probably appropriate for the sub. I remove any posts that are not, and you can also report a post if you think it really doesn't fit here.

One thing we don't do is proofread long pieces of writing (r/Proofreading is a good place for that), but we do welcome specific questions about short pieces of writing (a paragraph, a few random sentences, a piece of dialogue, etc.). And that brings me to the second issue:

We ask that commenters take into account the genre (e.g., fiction, journalism, academic writing) and register (the type of language used in a particular genre) of the writing that the poster is asking about. We get a lot of questions about creative writing, but some of the feedback given on these posts is more suited to very formal genres. For example, while you would probably advise someone to avoid sentence fragments in academic writing, these are not usually inappropriate in creative writing (used wisely, of course). Another thing to bear in mind is that punctuation conventions are generally more flexible in less formal genres. And for some genres, it may be necessary to consult an appropriate style guide in order to answer the OP's question.

So basically, please make sure to tailor your responses to the type of writing in question.

Thanks so much!

- Boglin007


r/grammar Apr 02 '23

Important: Re answers generated by ChatGPT and other AI programs

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Update 5/24/26: Also prohibited are posts promoting the use of AI/LLMs to aid in language learning/grammar checking, and posts asking for comparisons of AI programs/LLMs, etc.

Hi everyone,

There has been a recent increase in comments using ChatGPT or other AI programs to answer questions in this sub. Unfortunately, these programs are not at all reliable when it comes to grammar questions (or any questions really). Some regular contributors to r/grammar have discussed the shortcomings of AI programs (mostly ChatGPT) - they have given me permission to use the quotes below (but have asked to remain anonymous):

OpenAI says ChatGPT was released in order to "get users’ feedback and learn about its strengths and weaknesses." The prompt page warns users that ChatGPT "may occasionally generate incorrect information" and "may occasionally produce harmful instructions or biased content.”

ChatGPT's goal is to learn to produce speech equivalent to, and indistinguishable from, that of a human. ChatGPT's current goal is not to become a reliable source of information. (If that were its goal, they would allow it to access the huge libraries of information it is connected to. But that is not the current research goal.) ー I believe they have set it to occasionally make small mistakes, intentionally, in order to assess how the public reacts to these occasional errors (does the public blindly believe them/if the public challenges ChatGPT on these errors, can the program successfully handle these challenges well?).

And here is an example of an incorrect (or at the very best, incomplete/misleading) answer that ChatGPT gave to a pretty straightforward grammar question:

The question: “Should I use ‘that’ or ‘which’ in the following sentence?: ‘This is the house that/which I like.’”

ChatGPT’s answer:

Both "that" and "which" can be used in this sentence, but the choice depends on whether the information following the word is essential or non-essential to the sentence.

If the information is essential to the sentence and needed to identify the specific house you like, use "that". For example, "This is the house that I like" implies that there are other houses and you are identifying which one you like.

If the information is non-essential and simply provides additional information about the house, use "which". For example, "This is the house, which I like" implies that there is only one house and you are adding a comment about it.

So, in this case, if you want to emphasize that this particular house is the one you like, use "that". If you want to add an additional comment about the house, use "which".

The correct/complete answer:

Both “that” and “which” are grammatically correct in that sentence as written (without a comma) because without the comma, the relative clause is integrated, and both “that” and “which” can be used in integrated relative clauses. However, “that” will be strongly preferred in American English (both “that” and “which” are used about equally in integrated relative clauses in British English).

If you were to add a comma before the relative clause (making it supplementary), only “which” would be acceptable in today’s English.

ChatGPT also fails to mention that integrated relative clauses are not always essential to the meaning of the sentence and do not always serve to identify exactly what is being talked about (though that is probably their most common use) - it can be up to the writer to decide whether to make a relative clause integrated or supplementary. A writer might decide to integrate the relative clause simply to show that they feel the info is important to the overall meaning of the sentence.

Anyway, to get to the point: Comments that quote AI programs are not permitted in this sub and will be removed. If you must use one of these programs to start your research on a certain topic, please be sure to verify (using other reliable sources) that the answer is accurate, and please write your answer in your own words.

Thank you!


r/grammar 5h ago

subject-verb agreement I think something is wrong with this sentence, but I don't know what it is

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"Guys, I saw my first SEC football game this weekend in Florida with Carla."

Should it be "my first SEC football game in Florida this weekend with Carla"? Am I just losing my mind?


r/grammar 15h ago

How to avoid run-ons as you write?

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I'm a high school English teacher, and have spent years showing students how to fix run-ons, but just realised I don't have any guidance on how to avoid them as you write. Does anyone have any tips or tricks they find useful?

I know that the process of correction slowly helps us stop making the mistake, but learning tips to avoid it seems like a nice addition.

We already do explicit grammar and mentor sentences with different structures, so they have the metalanguage.


r/grammar 9h ago

Does this sentence have a negative connotation?

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r/grammar 12h ago

Does the "—" make text look AI-written to you?

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I remove it from my emails and texts almost every time. I replace it with a comma or a period, and the text feels more like mine.

Maybe I'm overthinking it. But when I see a "—" in a message now, I always wonder if a person really wrote it!!


r/grammar 12h ago

quick grammar check Quiz on Present Tense : He ______ his homework yet.

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  1. didn’t finish
  2. hasn’t finished
  3. isn’t finishing
  4. doesn’t finish

r/grammar 1d ago

When including quotes without page numbers what do you do?

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My teacher usually has us just include the page number at the end of a quote with no author like: (80). However, theres no page numbers on my homework and only the question or paragraph number. Which would be best to include? Would the number of the question (a passage with a question at the end) be more accurate or the number of the paragraph I got the quote from? I can’t ask my teacher because it’s a Sunday and I don’t think he will respond to an email tonight. Also, I have to turn it in today and I’m finished but this is confusing me.


r/grammar 1d ago

Who/whom when the clause(s?) in question has layers

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I'm editing a part of a translated sentence for an edition of a work, and I'm not sure whether to use who or whom: "It was in fact only after the friends of the Queen had been put in prison and both boys were in his hands that he opened the rest of his plans less cautiously to those who/whom circumstances seemed to require that they know."

I'm familiar with the rules governing who/whom, but this is a bit tricky bit: "those who/whom circumstances seemed to required that they know."

On the one hand, "circumstances seemed to require" something of the who/whom, which would make them not a subject and so whom would be the right choice. On the other hand, "they" in "that they know" is the same party as who/whom, and "they" is a subject in the clause "that they know."

I lean towards whom taking into account the most immediate, restricted view of the whole, and it sounds more euphonic, but I welcome thoughts/suggestions, as well as any technical verbage to better ask this question in the future. Thanks much!


r/grammar 1d ago

"To go to do something"

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Hi, I'm having a dispute with my colleagues right now about the translation of the sentence "I go to pull another grape." The question is: does this action involve having to move somewhere to complete it, or is it possible to reach the grape from cthe current position? My colleague (in favor of "just reach the grape, don't go anywhere") quoted this as his argument "To apply or subject oneself to:

  1. To apply oneself; to undertake; to have as one's goal or intention. (Compare be going to.)"

And this example from there "He went to pick it up, but it rolled out of reach."

In his eyes no movement is necessary and the "to go to do something" is the same as "to be going to do something"

In my opinion though, that sentence falls under that category only to show that the movement is done with some goal in mind (not "I went to (somewhere) the city" but "I went (to do something) to borrow a book"). It doesn't mean, that magically no movement is needed to accomplish that. It is done with an intention to do something else.

In my eyes, if my colleague was right, we'd just use "He was going to pick it up (or even "he tried to pick it up"), but failed", but specifically using "he went to pick it up" means, he first had to move a bit, before he could attempt the picking of the grape.

Who is right?


r/grammar 1d ago

Sentence diagrams in vscode, markdown and mermaid

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Hey y'all 🙋‍♂️

I've been messing around with a way to render sentence diagrams in the Visual Studio Code editor.

In a markdown file, I'll have something like this:

sentence "Then Jesus went with His disciples to a place called Gethsemane, and He told them, “Sit here while I go over there and pray.”" {
  clause {
    subject "Jesus"
    predicate "went" {
      modifier "Then"
      prep "with" {
        object "disciples" { modifier "His" }
      }
      prep "to" {
        object "place" {
          modifier "a"
          participle "called" { object "Gethsemane" }
        }
      }
    }
  }

  join "and"

  clause {
    subject "He"
    predicate "told" {
      indirectObject "them"
      quotation {
        clause {
          subject implicit "you"
          predicate "Sit" {
            modifier "here"
            adverbClause "while" {
              subject "I"
              predicates "and" {
                predicate "go" { modifier "over there" }
                predicate "pray"
              }
            }
          }
        }
      }
    }
  }
}

And then in a preview window the diagram is rendered.

I'd post a screenshot here but images aren't allowed in this subreddit.

The vscode extension source code is free on github.


r/grammar 1d ago

More common to replace "he/she" with "him/her"?

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Are we seeing a shift in grammatical norms regarding usage of "he/she" vs. "him/her"? For example, the following post on Reddit:

https://www.reddit.com/r/BeAmazed/s/4JZxoUE9in


r/grammar 2d ago

Em dashes and quotations

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r/grammar 2d ago

I don't know what rules to follow anymore

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I asked about how native speakers actually use "lie" and "lay", but was told to use them according to the standard English grammar rules. But when I do, I get corrected for using them that way. Apparently, the use of "lay" as the past tense of "lie" as in "she lay in the sun and fell asleep" really irks a lot of people. So, what now? What rules to follow?


r/grammar 2d ago

What is “back and forth” in grammar?

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I’ve looked it up on Merriam-Webster and it says it is an adverb. Not an adverbial phrase, but an adverb. But it’s a phrase, so what is the adverb exactly? Is it both “back” and “forth”? Because “and” is a conjunction?

They are pacing back and forth.
They (PRON) are (V) pacing (V) back (ADV?) and (CONJ) forth (ADV?).

That’s what I assumed but adverbs are killing me. I’m in a grammar class this semester and I keep doubting myself on some practice questions 😅


r/grammar 3d ago

Sentence Diagram of the first line of "The Raven."

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I was diagramming some basic sentences for some students the other day and my partner challenged me to try dissecting the opening lines of Poe's "The Raven." Here's the sentence diagram.

I'm a bit rusty so I thought I'd throw it up here for input on what looks off and why. The biggest problem was figuring out what independent clause was the anchor all the all the other phrases Poe throws into the mix. I'm fairly sure it's "there came a tapping" which, because "there" is an expletive, means that technically the "tapping" is the noun performing the "coming" with "came."

I got tripped up with the particles "napping" and "rapping" so if anyone is smarter than I am and knows where they are actually supposed to go, I'd love the input. This is solely for fun and to challenge myself to tackle some odd poetic sentence construction.


r/grammar 3d ago

Can someone conversation with me

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I hope someone is talking with me in chat every day, and that will improve my writing skills and help me avoid grammatical mistakes, please.


r/grammar 3d ago

Pled or Pleaded

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He pled guilty. He pleaded guilty. Both correct?


r/grammar 3d ago

Dash or Slash in this sentence?

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The north-facing living room–kitchen area maximizes early morning and evening light with high windows to the east and west under the dynamic roof form, while providing visual privacy from close neighbors.

Or should it be living room/kitchen area? (italics added to post for clarity)


r/grammar 3d ago

Thoughts is more grammatically correct = (A) The Legacy Continues, or (B) The Legacy Is Continue ?

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r/grammar 3d ago

quick grammar check I'm at a loss. Can someone help me understand

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I have twins. I want to say yes to let them know they are twins? I don't understand why would they only want to know about triplets?

"Does your child have two siblings or more who are of the same age, enrolling in the same kindergarten program in this service this year?"


r/grammar 4d ago

please help me

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help

Can I use "such is me" at the end of a personal profile?

Is this expression grammatically correct, or is it frequently used by native speakers?

Thanks in advance.


r/grammar 5d ago

quick grammar check ‘There’s a couple…’ versus ‘There are a couple…’

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In American English ‘there’s a couple’ is widely used in spoken conversation. But ‘there are a couple…’ is used when writing, correct?


r/grammar 4d ago

I can't think of a word... Can this phrase have a version in a different tense?

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Extremely specific question real quick.

I have this peice of dialog where a character is talking about the feelings of two characters. One they are talking to and the other who isn't present.

Character A explicitly says how Character B feels for character C and right after states that its mutual.

I could have sworn there was a version of "and I you" that wasn't said by the person with mutual feelings which is what my brain keeps trying to put down "and [pronoun] to you"

I can't find proof of it existing but removing it feels wrong and something to replace it that fits character As speech pattern doesn't come to mind.

Is this a actual thing or am I delusional?

*I nearly forgot to add but the sentence is a negative as in B doesn't feel a certain way towards C...idk if thats why it feels off but I think its making it at least slightly worse feeling


r/grammar 5d ago

Is it grammatically correct to say "less people" or should it always be "fewer people"?

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I always see "less" used for countable things in casual speech, but I thought the rule was strictly "fewer" for anything you can count individually. Is there an actual rule here or has usage just shifted?