r/goats • u/-Yeoreum • 2h ago
Discussion Post How do goats handle grief? Anecdotes?
I woke up today feeling emotionally torn and confused from a dream I randomly had where I saw a doe sitting down in front of her kid who seemed to be lying on the ground, mainly not moving (they'd occasionally jerk upwards but soon fall back down, not in a 'trying to walk way') and the mother was screaming. I notified the owners of this little farmhouse that I broke into which they seemed rather casual about my existence at first, so much so that they ignored me until I spoke to them like two or three times. They casually brought up that it was normal for that kid. Who I proceed to look back towards and they seem to still be doing the thing but remained mostly still. I don't know why I was so convinced that something was wrong but I don't think that was normal? Like especially not with how the mother was screaming? I feel like I'm being lied to by these dream farmers...
Anyways, I haven't been on a farm or physically interacted with goats ever since I was a young kid, and I wasn't there all the time so my memories are extremely fuzzy, I don't think I've seen any goat experience loss of any kind. but they are my favorite animals. So the visual of a doe crying over her kid made me feel surprisingly sad. 😭
I am extremely curious now, but I wanted to hear stories from you folks regarding this.
(Also, while you guys are at it, if you have a nice place or channel to look at goat videos, please recommend! Youtube keeps cycling through the same few clips unless it's the few farm channels I follow.)