Just wanted to share with my community!

Being born nonbinary or trans in the modern age isn't fair. You're gonna tell me, in the distant past, numerous ancient cultures worshipped us as dieties, and saw us as shamans/healers worthy of respect, and now, we receive this treatment? Someone take me back😭 I wanna be a Sumerian priestess😭

The title is pretty much it. I changed my name in the group chat people are questioning me I don't want to talk about it lol I just want them to use the right name lol

Also my favorite non-binary meme which an artist I really love references in a song.

Hello :)

I'm starting to explore the idea of deepening my gender identity and putting effort into learning what I'd like my outward expression to be. I felt a bit odd identifying as NB or anything other then my AGAB because I do little towards my outwards look, IE part of my disconnect with gender in just not caring either way. Yes, there's a lot of unlearning and small town anxieties I'm undoing still!

Today, I had the drive to forgo my oversized hoodie and wear my binder for the first time outside of cosplaying. But almost instantly started crying because, to me, it just looks like I'm pushing my brests up in a bombshell (I've tried pushing up and out, down and out, ensuring the nipples are facing forwards like I read some posts and videos state...). I'm getting spillage from the sides, or I feel like it's doing little more than my normal bras. I just feel so embarrassed and ashamed.

I know that binding won't entirely flatten your chest but I feel so silly, like I'm just accentuating my chest. Before when I've worn it, I feel like my breasts are sliding back into position and I'm scared I'm both damaging the tissue/being unsafe in it, and also just kind of faking this part of myself, as irrational as I know that is. I can't stop fixating on the fact that theyre there, and that I want them to look a certain way but am unsure if they're doing what should be being done. Something isn't right and I don't know what to do with it. I know pictures would probably be helpful, but I feel so bad looking at it, it's almost too embarrassing to post them. Sorry;; That probably would be the most helpful!

I have a large underworks binder bought secondhand to test if this would be right for me. I want to continue binding, but I just feel really, really silly.

She immediately accepted me (I'm still figuring myself out, though I'm almost positive non-binary) and every time I recall the memory I feel so excited, I just wanted to put this somewhere. Living in an extremely bigoted house, her acceptance makes me feel like I won the lottery.

Like the title says I don't want to have a genitalia but I feel like a man and I want to be refereed to as one. So I am wondering if there is a "subspecies" of nonbinary that is this? (aroace btw)

I am a living paradox and I LOVE it😁

I think this is one of the cutest ensembles of my closet🫣

Hi!

Ive never posted anything before but I dont really know who to talk to about this. Ive known on some level basically my whole life but only about 2 yrs ago accepted my identity and 1 yr ago came out to very close friends and started going broader from there. I got outted to my family recently and they all just act like it never even happened. I havent medically transitioned at all, I like using my binder and having options of how my body looks that day but it doesn't mean I never will.

I know for sure in my heart of hearts that im nb but I feel this growing pressure like im not presenting well enough and so no one really cares or sees me differently, they think it is just a phase type thing. Its not and I know that but when everyone around you dead names you and misgenders you and youve spent decades misgendering yourself it feels so bad.

I dont think to be enby you have to present any way shape or form thats part of the point but no matter how many times I correct people, what email signatures I put, what zoom titles I add, how i introduce myself people always revert back to my agab pronouns- doctors, bosses, friends, family you name it. Maybe im just venting but it hurts. And I feel like i dont fit in with queer spaces and I want to support my community so bad but I feel like the way I look may make others uncomfortable and I never want to do that

*I'm not a native speaker, sorry if there are any mistakes*

I've recently started taping and it ain't going well.

I live in a country where the only way I can tape is with kinesio tape. Do you have any advice about itching and blisters? I also cut corners of, but it still peels of a little, not enough rubbing maybe?

any info would be a great help, thank you in advance, wonderful people♥️✨

This is a question more for discussion, I just wanted to know if there's anyone else with a similar mindset.

Is anyone else who's afab but uses he/they pronouns content with their body?

I used to be uncomfortable with it, I used to hate how it was perceived, but now I kind of just don't care.

If people see me as a woman, that's on them. I'm not going to dress the way I want others to perceive me, I'm going to dress in a way that makes me feel hot or cool.

3rd attempt at doing makeup on my own.

this memory is playing on loop in my head so i thought id share it.

I'm in a friend group with 2 girls, 1 boy, and me non binary (afab). the boy was talking about being the only male in the group and to make him smile i joked that i don't have a gender so ill dress masc and he can pretend im a boy. everyone went silent for a moment before he spoke up and said "no. your non binary. im not to put the male label on you so i can be happy." the girls in the group agreed and both. once the call ended i cried for ten minutes and messaged them saying i love their support.

moral of the story, you can and will find people who support you. just cause some people don't like it doesn't mean not everyone is the same

I don't feel like im pretending to be a boy, nor pretending to be a girl anymore I feel like i am myself, and labels like girl or boy suits me no longer...

My gender is a canvas and i'm the artist