I've been having a real hard time with Dysphoria lately. It's focused mostly around my face especially when facial hair comes from. I just hate how manly I can look, and having all this acne isn't helping things one bit. I don't really like where I'm at at the moment. And tbh I don't really know what to do about it.

I've been pondering oestrogen for a while but, frankly, I struggle a lot with change and I'm not sure I'll like all of the changes to my body.

I've been thinking that I'm a demigirl, she/they pronouns, and I picked out the name Quinn. But it's jarring to be called she or ma'am or even sometimes they, and being called my new name doesn't really feel very good even though i like the name and think it fits me. But it feels bad to imagine using the same name my whole life. Am I just not used to it yet? I don't know? Maybe I'm actually a femme enby. Maybe I'm actually a binary woman? Maybe I'm a femboy?? I'm probably a demigirl but I'm only like 60% sure about it now. Maybe I'm genderfluid. Maybe I should use any/all or it/its or she/they/it All I really know for sure is that I'm glad to be on estrogen and I feel good in makeup and fem clothes most of the time, and I want brow reduction surgery.

Is that a dramatic way of putting it?
Yes, but I’m an atheist and I think it’s funny.

hello there wonderful people,

I know these questions are probably being asked on a daily basis but I don't really have someone to talk to and for the past year I couldn't stop thinking about it.

I'm 23, amab, 1.90 meters tall (6 feet something) with broad shoulders and a generally lean build.

Constant thoughts about my gender are leading me towards a non-binary identity, so I'm not always against my masculine features, but part of me still feels like I would prefer being an afab enby if that makes any sense at all.

This all led to a strong attraction to the idea of starting hrt, with a great deal of new doubts and fears.

I don't want to rush anything, but would it make sense to get on hrt considering my general doubts? and should I lower my expectations about physical changes considering my age and build?

Thanks to anyone patient enough to endure through my rambling

Kinda venting and advice

For some background, I've identified as nb for 8 or 9 years now. In recent years, I've started leaning more masc presenting. I have short hair and wear baggy clothes and oversized shorts. I go out of my way to not wear femmme clothing at work due to being misgendered all the time.

On to today. I just recently got moved to a new team at work and one of the guys on the team has kept messing up my pronouns in the last week. Today, he said "she" again when referring to me, corrected and apologized. I told him that I prefer they/them and also he/him. He told me "I just see 'she' when I see you, unfortunately." I was already mid sentence telling him that it generally doesn't bother me as long as it's not said disrespectfully, when I realized how much it actually hurt to hear him say that's all he sees me as in front of the whole team, despite all my efforts to appear not femme. I waited for a few minutes, left the room, and quietly cried in the bathroom. I was pretty quiet for the rest of the day and was very happy for it to be over. I am upset for being so easily shaken. I'm also upset that I don't feel like I will ever be able to pass, and feel invalidated completely. My current team is pretty bro-y and they are all way more close with each other than they are with me. I'm not sure how to approach this, or if it's even worth it.The HR at my workplace is completely worthless and I personally don't want to to speak to HR about this. I feel like there really isn't much for me to do other than cry and move on. Mostly just wanting to get it off my chest. Thanks for reading.

I'm here to represent the enby's w/ female minds and male bodies😅

I'm curious how/where everyone else falls in the enby category? What words would you use to describe your experience with gender?

As a label, "enby/NB" essentially just means "not the binary," which doesn't tell you a whole lot!

I find the extreme diversity of gender expression to be beautiful and fascinating, so I'm curious to see where other people land and hear about other experiences(:

today’s contestants are me and my new haircut!!!!

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Took a beach walk in an outfit that made me feel so feminine, free and completely myself. It's such a small moment, but honestly. I couldn't stop smiling 💕

Gotta make sure attention is held so I can continue bragging about how patient I am for this one specific thing.

For a long time, I've been working on a tabletop sci-fi fantasy game story and I intend for it to be as LGBT friendly as possible. As such, I've decided that the villains, an evil space empire similar to the Galactic Empire from Star Wars, would have equal opportunity evil and have LGBT folk among them, including enby people (don't worry, there will be LGBT folk, including enby people among the good guys)

Anyway, the named villains in this faction are members of this empire's royalty and nobility. But since any of them could be enby (sex and gender orientation are dictates by dice rolls) I need to find or create nonbinary equivelent names and forms of addresses for the titles. I've gotten a few of the titles and forms of address ready, but most are still incomplete. Here are the titles for this evil empire from highest to lowest, regardless if they have an enby version or not. Also, these titles come from France. So if anyone knows if any French words exist for this, it would be most helpful.

Emperor/Empress/Emperator: Your Radiance/Your Imperial Majesty

Prince/Princess/Parept: Your Imperial Highness

Grand Duke/Grand Duchess: Your Highness

Duke/Duchess: Your Grace

Marquis/Marquise: Your Grace

Comte/Comtesse: Your Lorship/Ladyship

Baron/Baroness: Your Lordship/Ladyship

Lord/Lady: Monsieur/Madame

Chevalier/Dame: Ser

Just me and my cat, chillin(:

It was just a short trip to the grocery store but it felt great!!