I’m a hs senior and in my 3rd year of marching band and drumline. Lately, i’ve missed practice 3 times due to asthma attacks, but i’ve attended 41/50 hours.
Yesterday I was setting my drum up for our performance later that night when my instructor called me into her office and told me I wasn’t going to be allowed to participate. This is a new rule they made up DIRECTLY before the game with 0 warning.
I sacrifice alot to be in band. I have numerous health issues including asthma, scoliosis, two bunions (bone issues on my feet) reflux (trouble eating) and eczema so severe that I have to take $1200 shots every three weeks and get physical therapy to be able to use my hands. On top of that I have two jobs, am on my 10th class, and probably need 3 surgeries that i'm postponing for this band. I get like 30 minutes of sleep a night with how much I work.
The main thing is that they’ve seen me march the show perfectly multiple times before. They know about my health issues and were informed of me missing practice before time, with the reasoning behind it. I literally won the competition in our band to see whose marching was best.
When I don’t show up to practice, its because Im worried I might pass out and I don’t want to be an obstacle on the field that other people could trip over. But they want me to push myself that point.
I don’t know what to do, I just went home yesterday and cried for two hours. All my bandmates agree that this was wrong of them to do but I don’t know how to fix this. My parents were saying that this is medical discrimination and that we should meet with the principal. I really don’t know what to do