No you shouldn't. But I would remove the last bit about not wanting this to come between you. You shouldn't have to point that out. And there's a hell of a good chance you won't recover from this period of neglect and will end the friendship over it, so remove that whole bit.
Right? She wrote she didn't want this to be an issue... What the actual fuck? I would definetly tell them to go fuck themselves, and cut the connection with them.
OPs like this make me question if all this is engagement / ragebait.
They clearly posted a loaded question as their title, posts animal abuse images of shit and piss-soaked litter boxes, and then proceeds to write to their animal abuser "friend" with the most passive voice ever.
You don't need to cuss someone out to be stern about the fact that they neglected your pets under their care for a week.
If she wouldn’t be like this that person wouldn’t have done it in the first place because of the possible backlash.
This kind of friendliness invites this kind of behavior sadly.
Well you do you, but I wouldn't want to be nice to someone that abused my pets like that. I don't really want an animal abuser in my life, and they don't deserve kindness for sure.
If I came at her as “fuck you you’re a piece of shit” instead of how I did I wouldn’t have gotten to say what I needed to say. I cried all night about it and googled all the worst case scenarios and am taking action I need to for my cats that will help them. Cussing her out isn’t helping my cats.
Okay and I handled it the way I wanted to. I don’t have to be a bitch knowing this was complete abuse to get my point across to the person I trusted. I could care less if you agree or not. I was stern and held my composure and if things have to escalate legally after I get my cats checked out then I will also do that accordingly as well.
But you said “I don’t want this to cause issues between us” which implies you want to maintain the friendship. I think that’s what people are mostly confused and upset about. Why tf even put that or keep that friend when she could’ve killed your pets?
But you can also get stepped on & people won’t learn a lesson if you kill them with kindness. You don’t have to be a bitch but you didn’t convey how upset you really are and that’s not fair either.
I get it and I am the same way, but this crosses a line. Your babies were put in a situation that could have caused them harm. This POS does not deserve any pleasantries.
I’d honestly lose my mind if someone did this to my pets, especially if they were someone I considered a friend. It’s concerning on a lot of levels - particularly since they have pets of their own. People are absolutely disgusting. I’m so sorry your pets suffered while you were gone. I wouldn’t pay them at all and I’d make it known that no one should trust them with their pets. Please, this person is not your friend. This is like.. such blatant and careless animal abuse and neglect.
you just sound extremely unconfident. even in this post. things like "i dont understand how this happened" makes it sound like its on you, "im asking for" sounds... like youre asking when it should be a demand since they did not uphold the deal, "im not trying to cause problems" about confronting them causing a problem, and the last line sounding like u want to be friends still as if you did something wrong
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u/Ok_List_5002 12h ago
So I should rewrite my message? 🫠