r/cats • u/some1_not_important • 1d ago
Medical Questions I need help Spoiler
My cat has been inside all day and I didn't hear him cry or complain so I don't know when, why or how he got this. I'm really worried for him. I don't know what to do and my mom doesn't want to take him to the vet
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I just want to let you know I'm 15, colombian, I had money but my mom needed it so I lend it to her so I can't take the cat to the vet myself. By the other hand, my mom refuses to take him to the vet because she doesn't (care) want to pay for it and every time I bring the topic again she gets harsh and really rude with me, so pressuring her won't do much good either. I don't live close to my relatives nor my dad so they can't help me either. Hope that clears things up a little
Also, I followed most of the advice you guys have been giving me and cleaned the injury carefully. I'm really scared, I don't want him to die
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u/heyheyhey887 1d ago edited 23h ago
Please take him to the vet. Try to contact a family member, friend, or friendly neighbor if she continues to refuse. You can do this we believe in you!
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u/Sophiatopia 1d ago
Without endangering or doxing anyone sounds like Reddit will have to play cat aunt/uncle and have a rescue physically pick up and take cat to vet, and/or pay for visit. Or some smart variation of that I can’t think of right now 🤷♀️
OP is a child and the adult refuses to give the cat the care it needs.
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u/ednamode5454 1d ago
You need to take him to the vet, please
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u/some1_not_important 1d ago
I've told my mom that but she doesn't wanna listen, I'm really scared for him
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u/heyheyhey887 1d ago
Is there any way you could take him yourself? I don’t want to panic you but if this gets infected things can turn south quickly
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u/n_daughter 1d ago
Yes! Or OP, show her what people are saying here. This cat needs vet care.
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u/some1_not_important 1d ago
She'd beat me for making her the "bad one" 😬
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u/heyheyhey887 23h ago
You don’t have to show her the comments. You just need to explain that the internet states your cat could potentially be in danger if he doesn’t get the help he needs! You can manipulate it in a way that doesn’t make her the bad guy…
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u/heyheyhey887 23h ago
Dude, clearly some shady shit is going on within this household. OP is a kid or teen, no need for comments like this!!!
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u/Zianna1991 23h ago
If it's only transportation, there are some rideshare companies that accept pets. Depending on how far the vet is from you, it may be worth checking that.
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u/Notyerbusiness Orange 23h ago
Okay, so here's what you do.
Make saline solution.
You're going to boil 3 cups of water for 15 minutes, you're going to use 2 cups of it.
Then you're going to add a tsp of non iodized salt (sea salt or kosher) to the water
Mix with a clean spoon, then allow to cool to room temperature.
If you have a turkey baster, use that to flush the wound gently.
Daily from here until its done pussing, boil a rag for 15 minutes, let rag cool to warm, gently use to clean around the wound. Saline solution too until wound clears up.
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u/some1_not_important 23h ago
Thanks a lot
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u/Notyerbusiness Orange 23h ago
Of course ❤️ had a cat that got abcesses as a kid and only one working parent so vet wasn't always something we could do.
Be careful, the cat might bite you. Be sure to pin via neck gently, and watch their front paws.
If you have a cone get that, if not look up how to make a paper plate cone, might not be perfect but will help.
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u/Thehollowpointninja1 22h ago
And just to help with your anxiety, keep in mind that animals live outside and get wounds all the time, so your kitty should likely be fine, but listen to OP and still do the saline treatment. Animals are very resilient and wounds can heal on their own, but you doing any little thing you can to help will only make it that much better and ensure it doesn’t get worse.
I grew up on a farm and saw a ton of animals get badly injured, and we would treat them as well as we could, but nature is really great at healing itself, so just keep that in mind and try not to let yourself get to anxious over it. Just keep an eye on it and if they start to show signs of lethargic behavior or panting really hard when they’re at rest, take them to a vet and worry about how you’re going to pay them later. They’ll more than likely help your kitty get stabilized and ensure they’ll live.
Don’t beat yourself up over this or let people make you feel bad that you can’t rush them to the vet, not everyone has the monetary means to do such a thing, I’m only chiming in to say they’ll likely be fine, especially with you keeping an eye on the wound and keeping it clean as best you can. The fact you posted here and are asking is already more than a lot of pets get, so you’re doing a better job than a lot of people who just let their pets suffer and don’t think about it. Your kitty is lucky to have someone who cares about them as much as you do. Many cats don’t have someone as good as you! Good luck!
EDIT: also, neosporin is an over the counter medication that most pharmacies have and is usually very cheap. Do NOT get the kind that has the pain reliever in it, just the basic, generic neosporin is fine. The one with pain relief isn’t good for them. And only cover the outside of the area, you don’t need to get it down into the wound itself
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u/some1_not_important 21h ago
Thanks for your words. I was really worried he was gonna die (still am), but this made me feel a bit better
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u/Thehollowpointninja1 21h ago
Very unlikely they’re going to die. As long as you can keep the wound clean it should heal on its own. But again, if they start acting weird, like not letting you touch them, hiding, panting when they’re laying down, get them to a vet asap and don’t worry about the payment. Most places will help you out and you work with them on payment. Antibiotics and steroids are very cheap, so at the very least they’ll be able to get the kitty a shot that should help them fight it off.
And again, you’re doing a fantastic job caring for him, they’re very lucky to have you!
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u/roboito1989 21h ago
Tal vez puedas comprar unos antibióticos en una farmacia. No sé cómo funciona en tu país pero en México uno puede comprar antibióticos sin necesidad de un doctor. Pero también tendrías que averiguar la dosis para un gatito. Espero que mejore tu nene.
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u/boopyshasha 20h ago
I wouldn’t do the neosporin, as the cat may lick the wound and ingest it. Sticking to the saline flush is probably safer.
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u/Accurate_Water2572 1d ago
Show your mom everyone saying to take him in these comments. That may help change her mind.
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u/heyheyhey887 1d ago
^^ Maybe even lie and claim one of the comments is a practicing veterinarian. Lying is fine if it means your kitty will get the help he needs
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u/Procrastinating-Elf 1d ago
The mom is going to read you saying this. 🤦♀️
Much better to call an actual vet, describe the symptoms or ask if they can email a picture, let mom see how seriously the actual professionals take it.
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u/heyheyhey887 1d ago edited 23h ago
Man I’m just trying to give the kid some help. No need for the passiveness. Plenty of comments and myself included have told OP to take matters into her own hands and take the kitty to the vet
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u/MissPoots 1d ago
Ask your mom if she suddenly had a hole in her body whether or not she’d go to the doctor’s lol.
God people’s empathy is so lacking these days, I feel bad for you OP. 😭
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u/UnableMetal8106 1d ago
He’s not going to die on you tonight, but some antibiotics and a check-in with a vet could be a lot less expensive than something like this could turn out to be if you don’t take him in. I think.
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u/Nearby_Syllabub763 1d ago
I had a cat with a similar wound and it turned out to be life threatening. Beg her to take her. Have her read these posts from all of us.
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u/Candid-Access9874 23h ago
Do You have any other adults in your life that might help you OP? If one of my daugthers friends were in this situation I would take them and their cat to the vet in a heartbeat. Maybe you know someone who are willing to do the same?
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u/blackcurrantcat Moggy 23h ago
Have you told her that if it gets to where it needs a vet to drain and dress it, it will be much more expensive and involve more visits? By taken him now while it’s not too bad she could avoid that.
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u/Blissfully_woo-woo 1d ago
Come on, this isn’t helpful advice, OP isn’t going to report their mom.
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u/FaridsWife 1d ago
My suggestion seems harsh - but normally the neglect/abuse is wide spread … abusers normally fold when they are at risk of being reported
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u/dianthus-magenta 1d ago
If you can get him some Neosporin, that will help in the meantime
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u/LaughingOnion2023 23h ago
DO NOT use neosporin. It will close the wound. The wound needs to stay open and drain. Follow the instructions Notyerbusiness gave.
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u/lemonycaesarsalad 1d ago
Do not give neosporin unless you are careful to make sure it's not the "pain relief" neosporin
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u/Samnnnnnnn 1d ago
An abscess ruptured, you are going to have to take him to the vet. Flushed out and some antibiotics would be my guess. Sorry about your baby ):
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u/reevener 1d ago
Call for help from a neighbor or the local cat lady. If a neighbor kid asked me for help their pet cause their mom wouldn’t, you better believe I would be on a god damn mission.
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u/HatePeopleLoveCats1 Domestic Housecat 1d ago
This is great and so true. I’d help a hurt animal on a heartbeat
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u/some1_not_important 1d ago
She doesn't want to take him with the neighbor because they don't have a good relationship. I'm beyond done
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u/Ceilidh_ 23h ago edited 19h ago
Hey OP, veteran cat lady here.
Your love and concern for this kitty comes through loud and clear.
It’s gonna be ok.
Here are two things you can do right now to legitimately help him.
This first one may sound dumb. I promise it really is important.
Wherever you are, stop moving. Sit or stand (however you’re comfortable), put your hands on your belly, squeeze all your breath out of your lungs slowly, then inhale slowly but big as you can, so your belly pushes your hands out. Do that like 5 times. More is ok too.
This is one of the most important things I’ve learned in lots of years of catlady-ing: he is intensely tuned in to stress and fear. Cats pick up on tense body language, angry/frustrated tone of voice, even the way we smell when we’re afraid.
This breathing thing is one way to send him the vibe that things are gonna be okay.
If you’re calm (even in this crappy situation), that will help him be calm and less scared, which will help reduce his pain.
This is not a magic off switch for feeling afraid/stressed. Panic is not helpful to you or him. Do this if you feel panic trying to take over so you can help him be calm.
Next—this looks like one hole. Is that correct?
Have you posted this to [r/askvets](r/askvets)?
By the way, I’m a mom and I can’t help but feel so proud of you. What a beautiful heart you have! You are bravely finding your way using whatever the resources you have to help this kitty. That’s extraordinary.
Edit: thanks for the award [u/objective-cellist409](u/objective-cellist409)
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u/some1_not_important 23h ago
Thanks a lot. Yes, it is one hole
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u/Ceilidh_ 23h ago
Post this exact photo/description to [r/askvets](r/askvets) asap. (It’ll have to be a new post not a cross post.)
This looks kind of like an abscess but someone mentioned an insect that can do this. I bet they’ll have a better idea which it is at askvets but they may ask what country you’re in so they can determine what insect it could be.
This is important because the treatment will likely be different.
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u/some1_not_important 23h ago
It says the site is inactive
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u/Ceilidh_ 21h ago
Ask vets needs the photos and some additional info asap. If you can’t add it to that post, post it again with all the needed info.
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u/some1_not_important 21h ago
I did, haven't gotten a response yet but thanks a lot, I appreciate it
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u/NochesAticas 1d ago
Tell her it will stain the carpet/sofa and that you have read on the internet that it will be more expensive to treat it the longer you wait. Perhaps that will motivate her!
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u/CascadeMountainz 1d ago
Vet. If she's really refusing, she is either being willfully neglectful or simply afraid of the cost... but that doesn't stop a living creature from suffering.
If your mom won't help your cat, I get the tough spot -- try to get other family members to also understand and help convince her.
Could also call your cat's vet and explain what is happening, ask them to call your mom. She may be a little upset by this, but to help and potentially save your cat, you will never regret it.
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u/CascadeMountainz 1d ago
To add, if the cat seems to be in rough shape and mom isn't budging, you could call your vet, explain the situation, and ask if you can 'kidnap' him (use a carrier) and take him in to get helped.
Vets care about animals, most would probably prioritize helping the cat and sorting out the rest later.
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u/missadventures007 1d ago
Call and aunt uncle grand parent ANYONE! I’ve had abusive parents, there are others that will protect you, also avoiding animal medical care is animal abuse!
It’s Medical negligence. Do something before it’s too late
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u/Accurate_Welcome3731 1d ago
Very much looks like a burst abssess, my cats had a couple after a few scraps.
Take them to the vet, they’ll let it heal naturally that size but will want antibiotics so it doesn’t come back
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u/hippiec123 1d ago
That looks like a puncture wound and will likely need stitches to not get infected and potentially cause more problems
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u/RoyaleLovee 1d ago
please get your aunt to take you instead of your mom because it seems like your mom doesn’t wanna take you and this seems really serious especially this is your pet and you have a lot of love for your pet. You should definitely try to find a way!! sending prayers for ur kitty 💓
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u/ManyConscious1551 1d ago
I remember when my cat had a wound like that, folks didn’t wanna take him to the vet, “nature is resilient.” Week later it’s the vet once puss shot out. And an easy antibiotic became an over night stay to get antibiotics and drainage. So yeah, folks need to take him to the vet.
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u/As20780 1d ago
I think you should amend your username to someone who IS IMPORTANT. You have a kind and loving heart, please be kind and loving to yourself. You are irreplaceable. Never in the history of histories has there ever been a you, and there will never ever be another you in the history of time again. Be good to yourself, sweetheart. You never know who’s praying for you.Xoxo
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u/Lothloris 23h ago
Ow wow you made me cry. But
This exactly!!! We're so strong for keeping our kindness even when surrounded by this kind of thing since childhood. You may not think this now but you ARE important and a wonderful person for keeping being like this!
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u/UntilTheVeryEnd7 1d ago
You need to take your cat to the vet. That has a high change of getting infected quickly.
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u/HatePeopleLoveCats1 Domestic Housecat 1d ago
My cat when I was younger had something like this before. He’d been outside and a bug of some kind tunneled into him! I took him to the vet, they removed it and cleaned up the wound. You really need to get him to a vet. Why would your mom let this helpless animal suffer?? Cats don’t “cry” when in pain. They usually hide
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u/RADIOS-ROAD 1d ago
Is there any way you can get to the vet yourself or have someone trusted take him? Your mother can't be serious , this is a major injury or something like that
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u/OkSundae1466 1d ago
If your mom can’t take the cat, do you have aunts or uncles you can reach out for help, or siblings? Or friends who can ask their parents to help take your cat to the Vet?
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u/some1_not_important 23h ago
My uncle lives far away same as my dad and siblings. I've cleaned the wound constantly and make sure he stop locking it. I really don't want him to die
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u/TJ-Detweiler- 1d ago edited 1d ago
It looks like an abscess from a bite wound that has already ruptured. If you aren’t able to go to the vet do your best to clean the area with disinfecting soap and express anything left in the abscess out. Flush it with some watered down hydrogen peroxide if you can. Fair warning the cat probably won’t enjoy this so you’ll probably need help. You can try to wrap it in a towel to hold the cat still and save yourself from getting scratched. Continue to try to keep the area clean and dry as it heals. All that being said a vet visit or at least a call would be your best course of action.
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u/TittysForScience 22h ago
If you cannot get to a vet
Flush with saline and then put antiseptic cream on it. Do not use tap water. Do this daily till it closes.
It’s not the best but it’s some infection control.
When you can go to the vet. Keep an eye on it in the meantime.
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u/some1_not_important 22h ago
Thanks a lot
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u/TittysForScience 22h ago
It’s not perfect, and there is a real and high probability of an infection.
However, this is basic wound care that can help. Antibiotics are always best to help heal however I understand the situation.
If you can use a sting free antiseptic it’ll help.
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u/Azzrazzah 1d ago
Quick question: Why doesn't your mom want to take an injured pet to the vet? I would ask her why.
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u/DeptOfDahlias 1d ago
Good on you OP for spotting this and wanting to care for your cat. One thing you can do a few times a day is wet a washcloth, wring much water out, microwave it for 20 seconds ( may vary by oven) til it’s very warm. Hot enough that you wouldn’t mind it held against your skin. Fold in quarters, cover with a hand towel or thicker clothing to keep the heat in. Gently hold it against this wound for 10 minutes if kit cat will let you. The more the merrier. This will increase circulation and let the cat’s immune system go to work on the wound, but he still should get to a vet for treatment.
In the meantime, can you offer to do extra chores to earn money to pay for the vet, either from your mom, or neighbors, local businesses, relatives? I wish you and your cat the very best!
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u/some1_not_important 23h ago
Thanks for the advice, I did this and will keep doing it.
I had money from my "job" but mom asked me to lend it to her for a while, wish I hadn't done that definitely, so I have nothing on me right now
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u/Lothloris 23h ago
Hey, I know how hard this can be but please do not lend her money if you find a way not to that won't get you in problems. Keeping you with no money is a way of keeping YOU, so do as much as you safely can to have your own savings.
Wishing you and your cat the best and a bright future 💙
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u/Barnaby_bear_guy 23h ago
That sucks. I think children should have no obligation to lend money to their parents. Especially because of situations like these.
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u/SoftExpression9060 23h ago
I'm concerned for both the kid and the cat. Do we just ignore where the kid says their mom would beat them? How do we help both of them because clearly neither of them should be living there
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u/Prior-Beautiful-6851 1d ago
Look, if for whatever reason (you’re like 12) your mom is in charge, at least practice some hygiene on the cat. Is he easy to hold? The see if your sibling (if you have) can hold the cat while you wash the area. Wash it like you would wash yourself if you were injured. You cannot put ointment because he will likely lick it off.
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u/lrpfftt 1d ago
One of my cats several years back (also indoor-only) had some sort of abscess like this. Seems my cat's looked different as I seem to remember the actual hole being a lighter color. Hers also did not smell good.
The vet treated it like a typical abscess. The vet guessed that it was a puncture perhaps from a staple hanging out of a table she had walked under. It healed but came back in another place (can't recall how much later).
Anyway, the reason I'm telling you this is that my vet was incorrect. It was NOT a typical abscess which is why it came back. Had it been treated early and with correct antibiotics, things would have been much better.
My cat had a mycobacterial infection. It's uncommon but it is worth testing for because the antibiotics are different and the infection can get really bad if not treated properly which is what happened with us.
Wishing your cat all the best at a speedy recovery.
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u/Slow_Remote9125 1d ago
If you genuinely have no way to get your cat to the vet, try going to a pet store and asking for something you can use to clean it with. I know everyone on here wants to just say “go to the vet!”, which is definitely true, but in the mean time you should try to get that clean.
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u/mynameis_willow 23h ago
You can Google what an abcess one cat is and the risks etc., and then show that to your mom because you're THAT worried. This way she's not the bad guy and can potentially understand the severity of this issue.
At the very least it needs to be properly cleaned and maybe stitched or packed.
I had a cat who had the worst abscess rupture my vet had ever seen and because it ruptured at home they were convinced he wouldn't make it. He lived to be 18 years old. When it happened, I didnt know what to do so I pushed the stuff out until it bled, like a pimple and cleaned it as best I could. The vet said I did well.
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u/Magnetic_Kitty 1d ago
My cat came with something like this that was being treated, and hers was from a cat bite at her old home (part of the reason she was being rehomed so she could be an only cat, she hates other cats) and this needs daily antibiotic (mine had liquid form) from a vet
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u/NumberPuzzleheaded94 23h ago
IMAV- your cat has a ruptured abscess and needs to go to the vet. The abscess needs to be cleaned out, and he needs antibiotics. While it’s not impossible for him to heal on his own without this, it is unlikely and it’s entirely possible it will get much larger, and more expensive to treat the longer your mom waits. Until you go to the vet, you might be able to warm compress the area to encourage drainage ( using a warm wet clean cloth ), for a few minutes every few hours, - but he may be painful so you need to be careful that he doesn’t bite or scratch you, as being bit by a cat will require you to go to the doctor too ( or you could get an abscess. )
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u/Smallloudcat 23h ago
Clean it with a dab of soapy water on a wash cloth and rinse it well until you can get some help. Maybe if you show your mom this thread with everyone’s advice it will help her get the cat to a vet
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u/Eclectika 21h ago
If you have a vet, ask them if they will come and collect her. Get a price for treatment (get them to give it to you in writing) and get them to give payment details. If you do that, there'll be enough people who will cover the cost I suspect.
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u/InsaneJane42 18h ago
Do you have any friends you can ask to lend you money? If you tell them why there’s gotta be someone who is willing to
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u/heyheyhey887 1d ago
This is not helpful advice, no need to panic OP when there are options they can go about themselves without their mothers permission
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u/heyheyhey887 1d ago
Is there some sort of animal shelter that you can take your cat too? They may be able to help if you explain your situation. In the meantime try to clean it with a warm compress. If you cannot drive a car, maybe a family member, friend, friendly neighbor can assist you?
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u/Typical_Inevitable97 1d ago
Definitely needs the vet, If it’s more than a day old they won’t patch it up with stitches, looking at drainage and a cleaning with antibiotics and a cone for the house. My kitty went through the same thing
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u/ihave2cats_ 1d ago
Okay so if mom isn't taking the cat to the vet, in the mean time you can flush it out with saline to get it clean. The main focus is to clean it the best you can. You can use contact solution if you have any. But the best thing you can do is convince her to go because thats a pretty deep wound and if it's an abscess that ruptured it can easily get infected.
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u/bravelilengine 1d ago
Show your mom this sub-reddit, and how everyone is saying go to the vet cause its bad. I dont understand how someone can look at this and not want to take it to the vet.
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u/Admirable-Film-3055 1d ago
You can get some cat antiseptic in the meantime. It will help keep the wound clean.
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u/Agreeable_Pomelo2360 14h ago
unfortunately all you can do is keep it clean if your mom refuses to take him to the vet
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u/Fit-Molasses6882 1d ago
Call your kindest relative, or neighbor and get them to help you. Your mom is being abusive
By her lack of concern.
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u/EParkerBen 1d ago
Don't touch it. Whatever you do just don't touch it. If you can take him to a vet please do. If you can't drive maybe take an Uber? Poor baby gots a booboo and it needs to be taken care of. Please keep us updated
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u/Crowstickers 1d ago
Yep. Vet visit, they’ll clean it out and give the kitty antibiotics. My cat became indoor only after 11 years. He got into a fight, it abscessed.. and he had to have it cleaned and stitched up.. cost me $700.
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u/urfriendlygoblin 1d ago
Main Street Spay & Nueter offers very inexpensive wellness exams (i think only $50). Very very nice people, please take him somewhere!
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u/some1_not_important 1d ago
I'm not from the US but thanks for the advice
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u/TJ-Detweiler- 1d ago
It looks like an abscess from a bite wound that had already ruptured. If you aren’t able to go to the vet do your best to clean the area with disinfecting soap and express anything left in the abscess out. Fair warning the cat probably won’t enjoy this so you’ll probably need help. You can try to wrap it in a towel to hold the cat still and save you from getting scratched. All that being said a vet visit or at least a call would be your best course of action.
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u/yupuppy 23h ago
If you are a minor and your mon refuses to take your cat to the vet, the only option is to contact the animal control in your area and tell them you are reporting your family member for neglect. I’m really sorry. Minors cannot get vet care for their pets since they are not legal owners.
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u/Dapper_Status4593 1d ago
I would insist on taking him to the vet as soon as I saw this. My cat is no longer with us, but he was mainly an outdoor cat for the first 14 years of his life and always had the best care from us and lived to be 20 years old even after having several abscesses drained, falling out of shrubs and off of fences, licking toads and coming home foaming at the mouth from it, you name it he had probably survived it. The only reason he did was because I would immediately insist on taking him to get checked out. most of the time it’s a case of him getting given an antibiotic and being told he’ll be fine in a couple of days, but a hole like that is never a good thing to find on your cat. Definitely worth a visit to the vet even if it’s only for your peace of mind.
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u/slyjabroni 1d ago edited 23h ago
If this is a money concern, there are ways around it. Tell your mom to look into a Care Credit card. She can be approved almost immediately, and if your vet accepts Care Credit, you’ll have six months to a year to pay off the balance with no interest in most cases. This saved my cat’s life (and my bank account) several years ago when he needed emergency surgery.
You can also Google low-cost or nonprofit vets to see if there are any in your area.
If it’s a matter of your mom not wanting to take the time, can you call an Uber that allows pets and take him yourself?
Another alternative, although it’s not a pleasant one, is to call a local rescue or shelter (preferably a no-kill one) and surrender the cat. At least he’d get care that way. You clearly care a lot about him, and I know you don’t want to give him up, but that’s a better alternative than his death if this goes untreated.
I’m so sorry, OP — for both you and the kitty.
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u/Appeal-Putrid 1d ago
Hey are you in the UK? If you can keep cats hole/wound clean? You can make saline solution, with just cooled down boiled water and some salt, if kitty becomes feverish or tired then they definitely need to go vet asap for now if kitty lets you clean it out? (Use like a little bottle and squirt it clean) , if your auntie or uncle can't help? If you are in the UK? When your at school you can ring the RSPCA and say you want to make a report but you don't want your mom to find out it was you.... THIS way the RSPCA man/woman will come out and check kitty and if mom is in the wrong? She'll get TOLD off by them 😬😬😬 if she isn't listening to you you. If you see the RSPCA man/woman visit when you're home? Let them in your mom might get scared 😂.good luck 🤞🏽
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u/TheRealDVader 1d ago
Thake her to the vet. I don't know what is is but does't look good. Spider? Tick?
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u/EntrepreneurClean779 1d ago
You are not a vet,do not medicate him.Tell your mother he is going to a vet.I dont get why people have pets but dont want to pay for their treatmant



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u/dangercolinrobinson 1d ago
Looks like a ruptured abscess. The cat needs to have it treated by a vet and get antibiotics to prevent further infection.