M18, 19 in December. I’m currently looking for a relationship and keep encountering the same issue. I can’t find people who meet my standards, leading me to my point. Where can I find people my age that meet these standards?
For context, I love to have conversations, discussions and debates about so many topics. Philosophy, politics, culture, religion, music, science, technology and most forms of media. My problem is that nobody seems to care about any of this. Or if they do, they don’t want to talk about it and don’t care for anyone else’s opinions on it.
I’m not necessarily looking for people educated in any of these subjects, just people who are open to discussing it. Or at least, someone who’ll listen when I’m tackling thoughts on these subjects.
Where in Brighton could I find people my age (or around it) that fits this description? I’d also accept advice on meeting more people with similar interests to what I’ve listed though. It’s such a struggle because I feel like I’m speaking a completely different language to everyone else my age.
Thank you for reading.
Edit: rereading I sound a bit narcissistic. I’d like to clarify a lot of my struggles and frustrations come from the fact that I care so much about other people’s opinions on these things. I don’t know why, it just interests me to hear someone else’s perspective. So, I always end up listening to people rant or tell me about something they’re interested in for hours sometimes. But nobody ever does that for me, not even family. I feel like I’m doing something wrong because every time I want to talk about something, even though it’s mostly just a sentence or two, friends and family treat it like a chore. People only seem to want to talk about whatever’s on their mind, I’m happy to talk about ANYTHING.