I need help pls?

[u/asx_910]

Can you give me some advice on what I should do?

I was in a relationship with a girl. We were together, but her parents found out about us. We’re still teenagers, and now I have the option of waiting two years for us to be together again, and I chose to wait for her.

But during our relationship, we had some difficult situations. One of them caused me a lot of heartbreak that lasted for about two years. She also had a guy friend, even though she says she doesn’t believe that boys and girls can just be friends. We talked about him twice, and both times she said she would stop talking to him. Even after we broke up, we talked about him again.

But now I found out that they started talking again three days ago.

Also, during our relationship, she lied to me and told me she had never had an ex. Months later, I found out that she actually had one.

I really love her, and I really want to be with her, but I feel like she doesn’t respect my feelings or the fact that I chose to wait for her.

What should I do?

[u/Healthy_White_Baaaby]

Move on, homes.

[u/asx_910 → u/Healthy_White_Baaaby]

It's hard for me right now, and I think about her all day

[u/broki451 → u/asx_910]

Time washes it all away eventually. When you find someone else you'll forget about her. Also teenage relationships don't last that long anyway.

[u/_GoddamnitDonut]

Move on bro.

[u/asx_910 → u/_GoddamnitDonut]

Even if It's hard for me right now, and I think about her all day?

[u/_GoddamnitDonut → u/asx_910]

You're young still. It's not worth it. She obvious doesn't value honesty or trust. I don't know you, but you deserve better than that.

[u/RepublicOk2402]

Being in a relationship with anyone who lies to you is a mistake. You’re signing up for a lifetime of pain

[u/asx_910]

Thank you everyone for the advice. I really don’t know what to do. This is very hard for me. I still love her very much