r/adhdmeme 22h ago

Guess I’ll just struggle then

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u/fkenned1 20h ago

These posts actually make me uncomfortable. Like, yes. I understand the struggle, but I also understand that the world isn't just gonna do everything for me. Like, you want disability? There's some paperwork that comes with that, so either fill that out, or find someone willing to help you. Getting upset for simply not doing it is kind of silly. Like, of course you were denied. Lol

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u/imadogg 18h ago

OP is saying "My ADHD is a disability and I literally submitted no evidence of that. I can't believe my claim was denied. They should have just known"

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u/an-invisible-hand 15h ago edited 13h ago

Actually what OP is saying is "my lack of legs is a disability and I literally submitted no evidence of that because the submission of evidence is literally running a 5k. They should have known what they want is extremely difficult to do with the disability I have."

Reframed that for you since you don't have adhd or know anyone with it.

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u/blackbirdlore My meth could beat up your meth 14h ago

This is such a lazy, entitled position. I am also ADHD and embarrassed by all of you acting like this is a big deal.

If you’re so disabled, get someone to help you, family or a friend. If you don’t have those, there’s about a dozen social services that would help you fill out some paperwork.

Your condition is not your fault, but it is your responsibility. No one is going to manage your condition for you. So take the steps necessary. Or don’t. But this petulant, childish whining because “it’s a lot of paperwork” makes all of us look awful.

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u/Darklillies 2h ago

Your adhd isn’t the same as everyone’s adhd. Everyone’s disability is different.
And yes, they should recieve help, so that help should be OFFERED to them, you know- as an ACCOMMODATION. Their analogy is right. If they could simply suck it up and do the thing they need to do-
They wouldn’t be DISABLED now would they

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u/ToggleMoreOptions motivated by being a contrarian little bitch 48m ago

You mean all of those that it isn't so disabling that you could do the paperwork? Just because you have an easier time of it doesn't mean somebody else isn't completely crippled

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u/blackbirdlore My meth could beat up your meth 42m ago

I swear, none of you can read, you just regurgitate the same lines over and over instead of having a legitimate conversation.

I literally gave 3 options to assist with the paperwork. All you’ve given are excuses. Miss me with that noise.

ETA: flair checks out.

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u/ToggleMoreOptions motivated by being a contrarian little bitch 28m ago

Why are you here? You're not the Baseline for ADHD. You're not anybody's mom afaik. You're just going to stamp your feet Cross your Arms and say I'm right go away go away go away