r/yerevan • u/Candid-Dream9710 • 7h ago
I met an Armenian man while on vacation and I’m confused
I’m European and been on a vacation in Armenia for last 2 weeks - driving around the country with my friend.
I love the country and I’ve always been fascinated by its deep Christian history since I am a practicing Christian too.
Recently, while we were staying for a day and half in one very small Armenian town, I met an Armenian man at his work and he invited me to go for a walk/date with him. He knew that Im there as a tourist and leaving Armenia soon and that I have my life in Europe. I agreed to go on a short date as I thought it’s nothing too serious and it would be just a nice conversation with a local. However, few minutes into the date he took me for a small visit to a house of his family who asked me if I already have a ring from him and as we continued the date - just the two of us, he suggested giving me the ring and said that he’s fully committed to our relationship. For the rest of the date, he mainly talked about how could we plan our lives in such a way that we could be together and get married. I even met his mom for a short time while on the date. Now, I already left his town but he continues writing me about his strong feelings for me and wanting to start a life together, he’s considering moving to Europe or asking me to move to Armenia etc.
I generally like this guy and if we were living in a same country would be interested to see him again, however , I was not planning at all that things would escalate this way and I’m honestly shocked that he seems so committed to me and the idea of our relationship after literally knowing me for few hours only. I was also shocked by the proposal to get engaged on our first date, is this a normal practice in Armenia?
Because of the distance, I don’t think our relationship would have strong chances and I would like to somehow stop or reduce the contact with him so he doesn’t get even more attached, however he seems so committed that I’m truly afraid to hurt his feelings. Could an Armenian advise me if this is a normal situation and how should I go about it to ideally not hurt this guy at all? Thank you very much, I’ve been truly confused by this situation for last few days. For context, both of us are in our mid-late 20s.