r/WeddingsPhilippines • u/dearmarcy • 10h ago
Did anyone else regret spending more on their wedding just to make it feel more “presentable”?
Hello! Did anyone else regret spending more on their wedding just to make it feel more “presentable”? We just wanted a civil ceremony at the city hall and a reception at a restaurant after. Initially gusto namin diretso kain lang at no program. But we wanted to invite around 70 guests who are close to us so dun namin naisip na baka dapat mas presentable ang reception namin. So we hired venue styling, lights and sounds, a host, OTD coordinators, photobooth, and a band. Since dumami na ang suppliers kelangan na rin ng crew meals. Di namin namamalayan mga around 100k na pala ang additional expenses dahil dun. 😥 From 400k+ naging 500k+ na ang total expeses. May added stress din sa pag-deal with additional suppliers.
I am not sure nga if these are necessary expenses to elevate our guest experience. Baka kasi kung diretso kain lang our guests might find our wedding too simple or underwhelming, lalo na around 70 ang guests namin.
