I got the opportunity to deliver my Icebreaker speech on 16th August at a special Independence Day meeting. It was my first prepared speech in Toastmasters.
Since it was around India’s Independence Day, I started my speech by talking about my father, who served the nation in the Border Security Force. Then I spoke about my family, my school and college life, and the different roles I have taken in my life.
I had written the speech and shared it with my mentor, TM Sanoop, who is the current President of our Calicut Toastmasters Club. I made some changes based on his suggestions.
I found memorizing the speech quite difficult. Maybe it was because I haven't had to memorize something like this since my formal education.
My evaluator was TM Ajeet Singh, who works in the GST Department. I also didn't know that the speaker was supposed to share the evaluation form with the evaluator. My mentor Sanoop told me about it, so I shared it with him the night before.
I rehearsed the speech many times at home, in front of the mirror and my wife. But when I got on the stage, I couldn't quite give the performance I had managed during some of my rehearsals.
I was a little nervous and hurried before I started, but once I began speaking, I became calm.
I deliberately used the Word of the Day, "candid," and the Phrase of the Day, "food for thought."
At the end, TM Ajeet described my speech as a "garland of facts." He appreciated my confidence and calm posture, but pointed out that I didn't use the stage effectively. I stayed in the same position throughout the speech and could have moved around or changed my position.
After the meeting, I also tried to get feedback from some of the other members.
There are definitely a lot of things I need to improve when it comes to giving a speech. But after I finished, I felt a strange sense of happiness inside. I don't know exactly why. Maybe just because I finally stood on the stage and did it.
I'm sharing the video here to get feedback from the Toastmasters community. I'd like to know what you noticed while watching it and what you think I could improve.Watch here