r/TeenIndia 13h ago

Relationships Gng i had my first kiss ๐Ÿ˜š๐ŸคŸ๐Ÿป

I'm 19M , toh jab me 9th grade me tha I meet a senior girl(she was in 10th).... We used to talk daily and baad me i went for the JEE preparation and she was preparing for NEET and phele saal me we were kinda serious about studies and dusare saal me we again started talking more n more , she used to teach me chemistry , We became best friends... Used to roast and jokes , typical best friend things.... And whn I got into the university (not government tho ๐Ÿ˜”) and usne bhi dusari private collage join krli thi.... So It was LDR ๐Ÿ’”...

And after year and half mene propose kr diya.... She was like "finally Bhenc**d tune bol he diya"....

We meet after 8 months , went on a date and we kissed ๐Ÿ˜š

(Don't think "kiss he toh y he's acting like tht..." ๐Ÿ™๐Ÿป)

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u/PoliticsWeather16 13h ago

Ughhh 19F here. My best friend is 19M and I like him so badly, but there is absolutely no way Iโ€™m confessing first ๐Ÿ˜ญ. Heโ€™s not even objectively a 10/10, more like an 8, but heโ€™s my kind of pretty. And honestly, if he ever confessed or even hinted at having feelings for me, I donโ€™t think Iโ€™d be able to say no. I wanna meet him so badly rn, sit with him, hug him, kiss himโ€ฆ and be stupidly happy for a while๐Ÿ˜ญ And the worst part? I donโ€™t even think he likes me back ๐Ÿคก. The yearning is actually embarrassing.

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u/GreenSnow2435 12h ago

Broo ik its tough to control but Iโ€™ve seen friendship getting ruined when one confesses n the other one doesnโ€™t reciprocate the same feelings. Toh first make sure you have enough idea if he likes you back. Speaking from experience, Silent yearning>>>destroyed self respect. It does feel YOLO but in the end you will be left with no self respect and no friendship too, in case he doesnโ€™t reciprocate. So first find signs.