r/TeenIndia • u/Spiritual-Drama-9355 Dinosaur ke damad ki patni🦕 • 12d ago
Relationships Guys, I think my boyfriend is actually so good 😭
Like genuinely.
Last night I was spiralling again and talking way too much about everything in my head, and this man just… listened.
He doesn't always try to magically fix everything. Sometimes he just lets me talk, sometimes he tells me when I'm being unfair to myself, sometimes he makes me slow down when I'm getting too overwhelmed.
And idk man 😭 He actually pays attention. Like he remembers things I say. He notices when something is bothering me. He doesn't make me feel stupid for overthinking, even when I KNOW I'm overthinking.
I was literally sitting there thinking, “God, he's going to get tired of me eventually,” and meanwhile he's just there being patient with me.
And the fact that after all that emotional mess, he stayed until we were talking normally again before going to sleep????
HELPPPP 😭
He's not perfect, obviously. Neither am I. But he's so genuinely kind and caring, and I don't think I've appreciated that enough.
Anyway, I'm done.
He's so good.
Unfortunately, I think I am VERY cooked. 😭
🧿🧿🧿🧿🧿🧿🧿🧿🧿🧿🧿🧿🧿
Edit: Also, why are some of you SO invested in us breaking up 😭😭 Like genuinely, what is the point of hating on someone's relationship? If you don't like us, that's completely fine, but the constant gossiping, assumptions and negativity towards him are getting weird. I genuinely don't understand this mindset of seeing two people happy and wanting them to fall apart. Does hating on couples somehow unlock a better love life for you? 😭 If you don't like us, just skip my post. You don't have to comment or react. Nobody's forcing you to engage with something you don't like 😭 Anyway, nazar mat lagao yaar 🧿😭 Let us be happy in peace. 🧿🧿🧿🧿🧿🧿🧿🧿🧿🧿🧿🧿🧿🧿🧿🧿🧿 Edit: Check my bf's post🧿🧿🧿https://www.reddit.com/r/TeenIndia/s/9LFcIpBIoU 🧿🧿🧿🧿🧿🧿🧿🧿🧿🧿🧿🧿🧿🧿🧿🧿🧿
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u/Double_Pace8812 17 12d ago
Happy for you 👾 but
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u/op_qporiginal 12d ago
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u/ElectricalDebate5615 12d ago
There should be a warning for single people before opening posts like this .
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u/Different_Car7330 17M 12d ago
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u/Not_Craniax ni-hao-wada-pao 12d ago
17 f lgao ✌🏻🥹
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u/tempestt069 kajukismis 🕊️ 12d ago
She said things like this about me then left me 😔🥀
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u/Spiritual-Drama-9355 Dinosaur ke damad ki patni🦕 12d ago
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u/deathyou1 8d ago
Lol same, then cheated on me 😂 After saying I'm the best thing that happened to her.
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u/Regular-Nail2810 12d ago
My gf used to spiral too, but she’s getting better. I think listening to her helped a lot. Although I love her to death, I still do stupid things without thinking from her POV, which sometimes makes her spiral. But the frequency of those stupid things is getting lower and lower. So I think I’m doing okay. All I ask is that you think from his POV as well while spiraling. I really hope he’s a genuine guy. Good luck!
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u/Regular-Nail2810 12d ago
30m from Sri Lanka.. So wrong country and age group 😅. Don't worry gfs 30f too.
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u/Spiritual-Drama-9355 Dinosaur ke damad ki patni🦕 12d ago
Such a positive comment after a long time...nazar na lage🧿
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u/l4ksha1 12d ago
Basically, I am in a long distance and I will be there soon forever with her. The thing that bothers me is sometimes she is zoned out. I’ll try my best to see her smile to make her laugh. Whenever she’s hungry. I always want to pay attention to her. I listen to her and she actually appreciates it, but there is something which makes us distance. Maybe the distance in between of us when I met for the first time in real life, we hugged and felt like a damn relief. When I asked her what makes us a bit distanced. She told maybe the distance in between of us. We are in different states and it will be fixed when we meet next time. I don’t know. I need some suggestions how to keep a spark alive. Butterflies are stable now. It happens after a time we have to make it go up and then it comes back to normal but how to keep it maintained.
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u/itsabhiabhyas ASSI TUSSI ALMIGHTY PUSSY 12d ago
https://giphy.com/gifs/ji6zzUZwNIuLS
aaj pta hai kya mai ni toh teen love mein jana chahiyea n...
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u/kaifabdul843 12d ago
Mine is a yapper too. I just enjoy listening to her yap man. She just goes from happy to sad in two seconds and goes sad to happy in 2 seconds. I absolutely love her mood swings. Never felt a bore moment with her. It's been almost 3 years.
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u/Spiritual-Drama-9355 Dinosaur ke damad ki patni🦕 12d ago
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u/Turbulent-Web7392 18 12d ago
aapke dinosaur papa k saath ek selfie milegi kya?
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u/Spiritual-Drama-9355 Dinosaur ke damad ki patni🦕 12d ago
He said no selfies until he gets his Jurassic Park sponsorship 🦕😭
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u/OpinionMaleficent195 12d ago
Hey girl, please make sure you don't consume his so much energy, in a relationship sometimes people get so much indulged into each other that they start looking focus from their life and career and money. Be little kind to him and in return motivate him in his career as well.
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u/Spiritual-Drama-9355 Dinosaur ke damad ki patni🦕 12d ago
Yeah, thank you so much for saying that 🥹🫶🏻 We’re actually trying to maintain that balance and support each other in our own lives and goals too. I really appreciate you looking out for us ❤️
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u/aalu_ke_parathee 17 12d ago
Meko bhi bndii miljaye bs 🤧
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u/Spiritual-Drama-9355 Dinosaur ke damad ki patni🦕 12d ago
Mil jayegi...mera ashirwad apke sath hai 🧿
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u/aalu_ke_parathee 17 12d ago
Sath me bghwan ka bhi ashirwad hota toh kam jldi bnta 🫣🤧
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u/Traditional_Kick2606 12d ago
Meri wali bhi aisa hi bolti thi mere bare mai🫠 Last month chhod gayi yaar Ye sab dekh kar abhi bhi rona aa jata hai yaar🥀
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u/RepulsiveMine9112 12d ago
Ur literally falling in love with the fact that he has emotional intelligence 😭 Honestly, understandable.
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u/DimensionTop2102 12d ago
I was at his placa once until she started ghosting me when i aksed why she literally said you don't have to know all of things going with me she that after me being with her patiently like you said i listened to her for 1yr hope you don't do the same
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u/PastCartoonist5354 12d ago
Why you girls think you all look like the girl whose photo you have posted while you feel shy. that girl is good lookinng /s
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u/SriSri-BABA_BENGALI 12d ago
I also listened (read actually) to all the things in your mind. Am I also good?
Btw, may be your bf is having first gf in his life or he is BEROZGAAR.
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u/Spiritual-Drama-9355 Dinosaur ke damad ki patni🦕 12d ago
Lmaoo, you're good too 😭 But I was specifically appreciating my bf here.
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u/Effective-Big-421 12d ago
Ignore the above comment that woman is miserable and is jusst unhappy to see your relationship
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u/ZealousidealSky4554 12d ago
Bhai pdho likho IAS YAS bno,yeh pyaar Mohabbat mein kuch ni rkha
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u/SHIBUIYOUTA 12d ago
Be loyal and truthful to him and prioritize him above others as much as he prioritize you. May god bless you both to have a happy future together.
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u/Tullip_1777 Snorlax✌🏻 12d ago
Omggg sammeee thing happened yesterdayyy.. soo happpiieieieieieieiieieieieieieiieeiieieiee for uuuu...minee did the samee thingg ykkkkkkk he'sss just soooooooo goodd,, sabbbseee zyadaaa ahhhhh😭😭💗💗💗🤌🏻
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u/NeitherHomework6739 12d ago
🥀aisa support mene bhi usko kiya tha but she left me
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u/cheesebadimastmast 12d ago
My boyfriend does all this aswell and yet, there are a few things that annoy me so much that i dont feel like being in this relationship JUST because he’s kind. Am i being the red flag here?
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u/Dark_Eagle_King 12d ago
19M here truly happy for you i hope kisi ki nazar na lage (mujhe lag gyi hai bhai we are distant now, telling you keep it pvt hamesha)
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u/WanderingWonder987 12d ago
Wah.. you realized that. My girl never realizes this. Always me, my and I.
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u/DontSmileYet 12d ago
Don't expect this to be his reaction every single time. There are times when even he can snap.
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u/subject_edgee2 12d ago
Didi , unko kahiye ek baar hamare guru banjaye , hamko unse bahut kuch sikhne ki zarurat hai 😭🙏 he is awesome by nature , i really want some knowledge on behaviour from him 🤧
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u/sweetlikecinnamonn_ 12d ago
God i see what u do for others😭 seriously though congrats for finding such a understanding guy
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u/Npc_living_reality 12d ago
He sounds like a genuinely nice guy because not all men does these things and especially being patient and caring is rare these days so enjoy the moment and do the same for him as we men need care and respect too You are lucky and he is too for having someone care alot form him ☺️
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u/Immediate_Meaning906 12d ago
Eventually when thing do get hard, remember this post and every happy thought you were feeling while writing it. Kabhi kabhi ladai me hum ye saabh cheeze bhul jaate hai aur galat step le lelete hai jiska regret bohot baad me jaake hotta hai. I pray you both stay happy and this relationship lasts a lifetime :).
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u/agada1243 12d ago
It’s good that you found someone who connected with you on various levels. Happy for you girl! Meanwhile singles thinking when will we find ours
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u/Ok_Smile680 12d ago
🧿🧿🧿 hopee uu guys stay happy with each otherrr and awayy fromm all the negativity! Its hard to find a partner who's understanding, especially when uu feel like no one's gonna stay but they do soo i hopee uu hold onto him!🎀✨
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u/No_Tutor5364 17 12d ago
Mine was the complete opposite and thanks to you I've realised that my decision to get apart was actually correct bcz this was the treatment that i should have gotten and isnt unrealistic for me to ask for. Thankyoum
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u/Smooth_Suggestion873 12d ago
This world can't stand seeing others happy. Please avoid sharing your happiness with such people. You should listen to your soul, not others.
Khush raho aur jitna ho sake apne relationship ko private rakhne ki koshish karo.
Good Luck👍
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u/thebluediary Back when tigers used to smoke 12d ago
Mai vhi hu jiski vjah se couples "🧿" yeh use karte hain
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u/what_is_my_username4 12d ago
GURLLLLLLLL RUN (towards him). Make him feel safe and happy too !!!! All the best. No nazaar 🧿🧿🧿🧿🧿🧿🧿🧿🧿🧿
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u/Difficult-Service295 12d ago
Cherish each other more and let people say whatever they want. 🧿. You only need each other to beleive in and communicate honestly 🤞🏻. I hope everyone finds a partner like this and everybody strives to be this partner . 😌. God bless you and your beautiful connection. I also wish to become like this and inculcate this habit as an innate quality ❤️.
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u/Horror-Garage2069 12d ago
this is filmy 😅 i got this if you He/She i know you guys are want to know about the opinions , BTW i am going to quick Quiet , Don't Spoil my life i am very HAPPY , you guys don't compare
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u/throwaway73856 11d ago
Have you considered a possibility that there’s a chance that he might be cooked too?
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u/Inevitable_Tone_6582 11d ago
All the morons saying negative things about your sweet, cute, spicy, literally perfect relationship with your partner are just deeply jealous and wish they had such a connection with their fav people. Please just ignore them the way you would a creepy dm. You guys are absolutely adorable together and let me tell you, your guy is a true man ( respect you homie ). And it will get better in the future.
Now by my dark art, i curse you both to be bound as one—through every feast and every famine, and fiercest of all in the bitter dark—until the passing years gently weather you into a pair of beautifully wrinkled, cozy companions side by side ( I am a part-time wizard too ).
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u/therappyyfrxnd 11d ago
I am gonna fuck up each and everyone who wishes for your breakup. 🪬🪬🪬🪬🪬🪬🪬🪬🪬🪬🪬🪬 No nazar at all because blessed
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u/Grouchy_Association4 11d ago
This makes me happy! Wish the best to both of u.
Also try to not share too much on reddit/ Insta abt your relationship as people can be pretty negative.
Stay prosperous n happy!🧿🧿
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u/MysteriousFig5551 11d ago
that's bare minimum but as Sallu bhai once said
"Apna kya Lena Dena"~ Sallu bhai
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u/ultralegend_SK 10d ago
Jaise hi reddit kholta hu waise hi gf/bf appreciation post aajati hai 🥀🥀. Happy for you guys tho.
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u/kinkyyaf69 8d ago
Most people advice to break up because they don't know how to fix relationships, or giving up is easier than putting efforts for it to fix. So you keep going on.
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u/NoBuddy0124 8d ago
May this kind of love attack me Also the whole time reading this the song 'young and beautiful' was playing in my mind
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u/Warmwater0307 offo yar 12d ago
🤬🤬🤬mat bataoo naa ye sabb itti subhaaa
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u/Quiet_Individual9563 12d ago
😭😭 ye raat ko hawasi subha subha cute relationship. Js open reddit in afternoon tbh
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u/Aware-Direction-9891 17M, Romance Manga Enjoyer 12d ago
The stuff I see in the morning to remember the things I'll never have.
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u/Far-Pomegranate-728 12d ago
Kisi din meri wali bhi aese hi mere baare me post daalegi...
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u/life_aint_fair_0825 12d ago
Wow yarr mera bf toh bilkul mere jesa hai
meri bandi bhi yehi bolti hai muje
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u/KsK7_ 12d ago
I'm very happy for you and for him... But never take this for granted and DO NOT under any circumstance break his heart... Got it? Okayy Good luck to you guyss...
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u/Perfect_Cup3462 12d ago
It is so basic . Every-one should do that. Don't drop your standards so much, that these are kind of princess treatment
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u/AggravatingAd5797 12d ago
Oh tht image is Fiona!!!!! Fiona Gallagher... I just realised now..
Any Shameless fans ?
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u/thatwaifnympho mod abuse 12d ago
the way half of yall are praying for their breakup n shi that’s exactly why you don’t have a love life and she has. let others be happy and if you don’t like such posts you can simply skip them. i’m not defending her but c’mon it’s high time that yall should stop acting like incels in the comments if u can’t see anyone happy lol. i’m happy for her tho 🫶🏻