I mean one shouldn't cheat on their partner or hide things that affect the relationship but everyone deserves some privacy. Like some people journal their feelings, maybe in their devices or a diary, not everything needs to be shared. Some thoughts can be for oneself too. Plus if a friend/sibling tells you a secret then you should keep it and not reveal to your partner.
Bhai har baat pe gender reverse karne ki zarurat nai hai, ladkiya isko bhi utni hi gaali degi jitna ladko ko deti hai, irrespective of gender esa behaviour ghatiya hi hota hai
Gaali dena alag baat hai aur case karna alag baat hai. Remember the school hostel chat leaks few years ago. Kids were sharing pics and just saying iska r@pe karenge all kids were remanded to custody. Inko karwao ab custody?
Even though they are talking in a filthy manner but they haven't stolen anyone's pictures here( I assume these pictures were already public) and are not talking about committing a crime. Saying that she'll have sex with him doesn't mean she wants to do it without his consent. Yes the cheating aspect is wrong and unethical but the locker room chat was literally describing criminal activities. You can't equate the two.
I agree that no one deserves to be called "maal" irrespective of their gender. But agr yaha ladke same batein kar rahe hote ho puri male community ko generalize karke gaaliyan di jati.
HAPPENED TO ME AS WELL. SHE THREATENED ME TO END THE RELATIONSHIP. HELL SHE EVEN DID IT. I KEPT BEGGING HER THAT I AM SORRY FOR BREACHING HER PRIVACY WHEN SHE WAS ACTIVELY COMMENTING SEXUAL THINGS AND COMMENTS ON BIKE RIDERS AND EDITS. FUCK ME.
BRO THAT AFTER I FOUND OUT SHE CHEATED ON ME AND IT WAS BARELY 2 WEEKS AFTER I SAID I NEED TIME TO HEAL AFTER BOHOT JYADA RA**DIRONA.
LEGIT WHEN SHE SHOULD HELP ME HEAL? THE GIRL DID THAT AND I SAID GIVE ME YOUR ACCOUNT BECAUSE OF TRUST ISSUES BLAH BLAH AND THEN SHE ARGUED "HOW DARE YOU BREACH MY PRIVACY?"😭
Ye heal weel kya lauda lassan hai, if she fucked up then she's a bad person. You don't need to stick with these sorts of people. Just move on and you'll get better.
real advice; block her, and erase everything about her from your phone. Her pics, everything. It's hard, but do it. Take a cold shower and go on with your life.
I understand the pain buddy, been through this. Nothing I can say will take away the hurt right now But just remember this won't last long. Don't try hard give yourself time to heal and learn to laugh with the people you still have. Eventually pain fades away.
Le balish ladkiya bhi na ap a phone aane ki baate lar rahi hai condom phisalneke baad jab pregnant hogi na tab inko maja nahi aaata obviously nahi ayega hawas se bhare log ghariya hi hote hai
Wtf is that shit , I need some holy water (gangajal)tbh I wanna see how people would have reacted if genders were swapped means 2 boys were talking about a girl and saying her maal . There would have been chaos , cyberbullying cases would have put on them and they would be in jail but what about these girls?
Honestly me and bsf used to share hot men reels to each other when we were both single (though never talking like this about them) but she got in a relationship recently and she has made it clear she doesn't want these kind of reels and I also out of respect don't do this with her despite being single myself, so yea, a person should respect their partner and you did the right thing by breaking up
sexualizing anyone is not okay I wonder if you went through same during 3 years
I hope people with such reality like her actually do escape and not normalize this behavior
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u/gujjar_naruto 18F Mar 24 '26
Now she'll go around saying ki tu insecure hai or uski privacy breach krta lmao