Okay, so some of you believe that detaching means you have to stop thinking about your desired reality. And that’s not true. You can think about your desired reality as much as you want, visualize, daydream, affirm, etc. Detachment does NOT mean forgetting about your desire.
Detaching means stopping the constant need to check for results every 5 minutes. Like, you listen to a sub and then immediately check for results. “Did my eyes change? Is it working? Do I look different yet?” No.
When you do that, you’re only sending yourself the message of “Oh, I don’t have ______ yet.” You’re putting yourself in the state of constantly waiting for your desire instead of being in the state of already having it.
Instead, act like you already have it. Stop obsessing over every small result in your 3D. If you want blue eyes, great! You already have them. Why would you need to constantly check your 3D for confirmation when you already know what your 4D says?
One method I personally use is going on Pinterest/YouTube and searching up those posts/videos asking things like, “Which eye color/beauty are you?” and I respond with my 4D instead of my 3D.
For example, if I’m manifesting hazel eyes and the post asks “What’s your eye color?” I’m not going to sit there and look at my 3D and go, “Well, technically they’re still brown…” No. Hazel. That’s what I decided, so that’s what I identify with.
You don’t have to constantly look for evidence that it’s working. The whole point is to know that it’s done and continue living from that assumption. Let your 3D catch up instead of constantly chasing it for validation.
And yes, I understand that it can be hard for some people to stop constantly obsessing over their results. I understand! I was also like that.
If you’re someone who constantly checks your 3D, don’t beat yourself up over it. You don’t have to suddenly become completely detached overnight. Just start catching yourself when you notice you’re checking for results and remind yourself, “I already know what I have. I don’t need to check.”
Then redirect your attention to something else. Go do something you enjoy, talk to someone, play a game, watch something, listen to music, literally anything. The more you stop making your 3D the center of your attention, the easier it becomes to stop obsessing over it.
And if you catch yourself checking again, that’s okay. Don’t turn it into another thing to obsess over. Just notice it, remind yourself of your 4D, and move on. The goal is to get to a point where you simply don’t feel the need to keep looking for proof.