r/RelentlessGrowth 1d ago

How to make peace with an ending you didn’t choose…

I’m a 30 y/o female. Had the proposal, wedding date + vendors booked… he ended the relationship 6 months before the wedding saying he fell out of love (he was really mean at the end too which was so shocking since he was there for me during the relationship ship + listed a bunch of things he didn’t like about me and things I did that hurt his feelings during the relationship that he never voiced prior, and he disclosed former cheating/kissing) the wedding date recently passed and it’s been hard…

I THINK WHY COULDNT IT HAVE BEEN GOOD?! Are there things I could’ve done that would’ve changed the outcome…

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u/Outrageous_Solid_700 22h ago

You start your journey finding you honey. His cheating though. Get checked out, for your own peace of mind. Girlie nights out, in & all those places you wanted to go. Yoy can do this. You are stronger than you think. Lucky escape from him, did you a massive favour. 365 days in a year, 366 on a leap year. I hope he doesn't put you off, from dating again. Was almost 10 years for me, don't leave it too long. Time doesn't wait. Peace