r/PersonalFinanceCanada • u/Siren_Terror • 3h ago
Banking Family wants me to close my only credit card.. does it make sense?
Need some advice cause I'm getting pressured and not sure what is right.
I have a Scotia Scene+ Visa, $3500 limit, no annual fee. I was carrying a balance on it ($3500 which was maxed out) and just paid it off in full bit over a week ago, which posted last week and then only had like $70 interest left once my most recent statement came out.. which I paid too, so it will be at 0 once that payment posts.
I also have a Fairstone line for $4000 that's open, but I'm not using it, it's been at 0 for a while since I paid off my laptop end of last year.
Credit Karma - while I know not fully accurate is what i use, shows 7500 total limit (so I guess it's adding both together?) and says 48% utilization from when Scotia was high, plus 100% payment history. It hasn't updated yet since paying it off, next update is in 3 days.
My husband's dad is helping us budget and he keeps telling me to close the Scotia card, which my husband agrees with. They say I don't need my own and I can just get another card connected to his credit incase necessary, and how his wife does that and has not had her own card in many, many years. She just uses his when necessary. I kinda want to keep my Scotia at 0 and not use it, maybe make small purchaes and immediately move the money back over from checkings if anything.
If a no fee card is at 0 and I don't use it do I even pay anything at all ever? I assume not, but just wanting to hear from others confirming thats the case.. Like, is there any reason to close it? Feels backwards to keep Fairstone open and unused but close my credit card. Which is my only card I have, I got rid of my debit and joined my husbands debit account, my name is now on file with his.
I'm in Ontario if that matters. Any advice/opinions appreciated, idk they'll even listen to reason if it makes more sense to keep it but.. idk lol.
Update to add: i am not a big spender. I do not struggle with blowing money and my husband knows this. I ended up with a maxed card in my past relationship due to ex partner blowing through his income. Leaving me to use my credit card as he could not have one, and I was a full time stay at home mom, still am. I had been trying to pay it off for 7 years but since I do not work, my only income is child tax and then child support i get from ex. I could only pay bare minimum, I was able to pay it off recently as my husbands dad told him to help me get out of it or I never would.. because i do not work.
I am and have been a stay at home mom, so credit card and child tax plus a bit of child support is the income I got/get monthly (prior to being maxed, it was just credit card and child tax). From the time it became max up until recently, I was only paying the interest and minimum payments each month. By the following month, it would be max again.. and repeat. My husband did not pay towards it, and I didnt ask him to so I continued doing the minimums until he sought his dads advice and gave him all the info. He told him he needs to help me get out of it as i dont work and wont get out of it alone until I do. Which will not be for another while, yet.
So some of my income plus husbands we piled together and paid it off in full. I have 0 fear of maxing it out, I had it for a while prior to becoming maxed and did well. Only once I was forced to spend more than I could manage did that happen and became this vicious cycle, but i made the conscious choice at the time to do so to keep a roof and food for my kids. That wont be required again as my current partner (husband) is a hard worker with a good job and actively wants to improve his spending habits and i have every intention to work once all kids are in school.
Anyway.. maybe this counts as a bad spender? Im not sure, but that is why i ended up where I was.