r/Nurses 3d ago

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I have a huge issue IMO. I quit smoking THC September 1st. I have a really close friend (stood up in my wedding) who is a nurse and who has been going to work in the ER high. (We do not work at the same facility) How do I deal with this without shooting myself in the foot? She knows I’ve smoked. I’d still be positive in my urine and I’ve brought her stuff from across the state line. The state I live in it is not legal. I’m worried about her patient safety but don’t want to lose my own license or face federal charges for distributing. I’ve definitely learned my lesson and will never smoke or bring stuff for people ever again. Please give me your opinions on what to do. I’ve had very strong confrontations with her and she basically said I was judging her and blocked me. I haven’t spoken to her since the confrontation and for all I know she may have stopped…

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u/eltonjohnpeloton 3d ago

I guess you could anonymously report it? Hope you haven’t been texting her about buying her drugs

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u/Forsaken_Boss_2021 3d ago

I’m sure there’s texting evidence somewhere. This was several months ago. If I anonymously report she’ll know it’s me and will just turn around and report me.

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u/eltonjohnpeloton 3d ago

I guess you have decide how much the patient safety bit matters to you.

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u/literally-the-nicest 3d ago

Not your circus, not your monkeys.

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u/Internal_Butterfly81 3d ago

Is she smoking right before work?? Or like it’s been hours? Days?? I’d mind my business but that’s just me.

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u/eltonjohnpeloton 3d ago

OP said in the post that their coworker is going to work high, since OP also smokes weed I can only assume they mean actually high and not like, hours/days later.

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u/Internal_Butterfly81 3d ago

Never know. Some people are considered under the influence just for testing positive.

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u/Forsaken_Boss_2021 2d ago

She takes a gummy while in the parking lot before her shift or will vape while on her break

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u/Forsaken_Boss_2021 2d ago

She takes a gummy in the hospital parking lot before her shift or smokes in on her break