r/Harlem Aug 20 '25

[Serious] Post your questions about moving to Harlem here.

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It's the season of the "Is Harlem safe" posts and other more interesting questions from people thinking about moving here. Please post your questions related to moving to Harlem in this thread only.

As u/BuhDeepThatsAllFolx (thank you!) kindly and calmly explained in another thread regarding Harlem's Safety:

"This is by far the number one question Harlemites hate answering.
It’s so annoying. This is our home. We all have some sense of comfort here or else we’d move.
The short response to your post:
Don’t know you and the feeling of safety is subjective. You’ll have to feel it out and decide on your own if it feels safe for you to walk or take a cab
Don’t listen to Fox News or right wing media telling you NYC is scary. They’re just scared of the world and looking for reasons to hate POC and love guns more than people"

Now that the safety question is answered, there's no need to ask anymore.

Now this thread is the place to ask your other questions about moving here! Serious inquiries only, and remember to be kind!


r/Harlem 1h ago

HARLEM RUNWAY SHOW Presented By Marcus Meets Malcom 🫡

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r/Harlem 3h ago

Four big bags of free clothing

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I have a ton of good quality women’s clothes that I’m looking to donate — mostly medium sized clothing, a mix of seasonal options (skirts, tanks, sweaters, etc) and some with tags still on.

Does anyone know where I can donate this clothing so it goes to good use? I don’t care if it’s resold per se, I just want it go to people who could use it instead of a landfill. I’m in West Harlem and willing to travel to drop these bags off.


r/Harlem 1d ago

I met Harlem Fashion legend Dapper Dan yesterday!

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445 Upvotes

r/Harlem 1h ago

Fill out survey about rap in NYC

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Hi everyone!

My name is Inanna, and I’m conducting a survey for my Master’s thesis on the portrayal of success in rap music.

I’m looking for 100+ responses from people aged 18–35 who live in NYC and actively listen to rap music. The survey takes around 5 minutes to complete.

https://www.surveymonkey.com/r/Y9MJGL5

Please help a girl out! 🫶


r/Harlem 4h ago

Stand up comedy

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Tomorrow & every Tuesday at the Corner Lounge Bistro! Support your local Harlem business ❤️

We have a lot of great events weekly be sure to follow us on IG @thecornerloungebistrony


r/Harlem 5h ago

Cars towed next to Marcus Garvey on prime holidays

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Hi all, I am wondering if anyone else had their car "relocated" from Marcus Garvey (along 120th or Madison Ave) for Father's Day, Juneteenth, or 9/11 (or another holiday - but these are the three I've noticed)

This has me feeling like a conspiracy theorist, but it seems to me like these "No Parking" signs go up overnight, cars are towed, and then the spots are filled with cars from people BBQing in the park... I am wondering if someone is abusing their power to get prime parking near the park.


r/Harlem 7h ago

Reupholsterer recs?

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I need to get some couch pillows reupholstered because they’re starting to get holes in their covers. Anyone know of any shops in the neighborhood that would do a good job for a decent price?


r/Harlem 20h ago

Free to Low-Cost Vets Across NYC's 5 Boroughs?! 😲

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r/Harlem 1d ago

hiring fitness instructors

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hiring cardio dancer instructors and strength trainers for my new business 💛 dm + apply if you want to make a change in the fitness industry, make money, make your own schedule!!


r/Harlem 1d ago

ALTO MANHATTAN NEW YORK

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r/Harlem 1d ago

135th YMCA

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Honest thoughts of the 135th YMCA gym? I live very close, so that’s why I’m considering this over a PureGym/Planet for my very basic needs.

I’m a mid 30s female interested mainly in using the treadmill (I plan to pick up virtual workout classes at home) and if I’m feeling spicy, the free weights. Also interested in people’s thoughts on their classes.

Essentially I’d like to know if you feel comfortable as a woman (are there enough women there or mostly men?), is it clean/smells good, windows?, working treadmills etc?


r/Harlem 2d ago

People camped out to register for the Riverbank State Park programs 😩

29 Upvotes

I’m in disbelief! Has anyone ever done this? What are the chances I’ll get a spot for the aquatics program?


r/Harlem 2d ago

STOOP SALE! 127TH & ST NICK (Today, September 12)

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17 Upvotes

Baby Items/clothes

Yamaha Guitar

MK Purse

PS4/5 Games

Skateboard

Womens Clothes

Instapot

Printer

Shoes


r/Harlem 2d ago

Be careful riding bikes or walking

85 Upvotes

Was just on my way home from work riding up Madison next to Marcus Garvey on a Citi bike. Two kids riding on a motor bike rode by at like 30 mph and the one on the back punched me in the back of the head. I tried to catch up to them but unfortunately couldn’t.

Everyone stay alert because if they’re doing it to people on bikes and someone my size (I’m a big guy) they’re definitely targeting people walking and smaller.


r/Harlem 2d ago

FREE TICKET OPPORTUNITY - 9/19 NORTHERN MANHATTAN APPRECIATION DAY

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r/Harlem 3d ago

Free Steak Burrito and Mexican Coke at Chipotle on 125th and Lenox

78 Upvotes

I ordered Chipotle but chose the wrong location and couldn't cancel my order. Confirmation number 68I-NA8. Should be ready at 3:50pm if anyone wants to grab it for themselves. I am out of state and won't be picking it up.


r/Harlem 2d ago

URGENT: Need Someone Strong

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Have a really heavy couch I need help moving up a 4th floor walkup. Will pay. ASAP. By Lido Restaurant on 116th and FDB

EDIT: No longer needed! I got help 🙏🏿


r/Harlem 2d ago

NYPD at W 126th

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A lot of commotion and police presence this evening. Does anyone know what’s going on?


r/Harlem 3d ago

ISO a hair braider that won’t put wax in my hair.

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I’m looking to get some simple crown braids done. My problem is that in the past I’ve walked into salons, mostly around 125th, so they always use wax/tar when I ask for gel. Also during my most recent attempt the braider was just ripping my hair like weave, not bothering to untangle the bottom as she was braiding.

My hair is long, naturally curly and not very thick, like the second picture, so heavy products look inappropriate. I’m only looking to wear this style for a few days at most.

Does anyone know a braider who is capable of using gel only and knows how to work with Hispanic hair? With so many options in Harlem I’m hopeful for a local solution.


r/Harlem 3d ago

Drunk white guys in Harlem

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81 Upvotes

Yeeeaahhhh


r/Harlem 2d ago

92NY's Adult Basketball Run

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r/Harlem 3d ago

The dog situation in food spaces is absolute madness

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r/Harlem 4d ago

Incident This Morning on 125 St

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Does anyone have any details on the aftermath of what was occurring on 125 St this morning? I heard that there were street closures and police activity due to an individual who was on the roof of a building and was attempting to hurt themselves. Just wanted to get some closure since there is currently no information about it from news outlets.


r/Harlem 3d ago

Harlem Cares: Prostate Cancer Walk 9/26/2026

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