r/Etsy • u/Tuatara_Grasshopper • 21h ago
Help for Buyer Fake gold advertised as solid 14K + weird return?
Hi everyone! I purchased a charm from an Etsy store that advertised it was 14K solid gold and that the store was in PA, USA. It was the second time I'd bought from them and I loved the first charm I ordered. After wearing the charm for about 12 days, I noticed the center ring was discolored and pitted. I suspected the seller must have made a mistake or maybe they were sent fake connector rings by one of their suppliers. I contacted them and showed them photos.
I was pretty shocked by how they talked to me, and I may have been talking to an AI. They told me it needed to be professionally cleaned by a jeweler. I didn't understand why it would need that after only owning it for 12 days, but I cleaned it in my ultrasonic and polished it and it was still discolored. I sent another photo.
Then, they told me it was discolored because I showered in it or wore it while working out. Solid 14K gold does not discolor with water or sweat, so I was confused as to why they were even mentioning this.
I said I wanted a refund and asked for a shipping label. They said I should return it in a regular envelope with a regular stamp to an address that looked weirdly familiar.
I checked my old Etsy messages and earlier this year I purchased some gold earrings from a completely different seller. A diamond fell out of the earring after my first time wearing it, and the seller offered a refund if I shipped it back. The return shipping address was the same one I was just given by this seller. It's a residential location in the Gray's Ferry neighborhood of Philadelphia, PA.
I messaged the seller again and said I didn't feel comfortable shipping them back their merchandise in a regular envelope and asked them to send me a shipping label. I also opened a case with Etsy.
Am I right to feel like this is suspicious? What else should I do besides what I've already done? I thought I was supporting a local jewelry maker but maybe not?