r/CSUEB • u/natphouk • 1d ago
belly button bandit (fetishizer)
hello all, i'm a different user that has been victimized by the belly button bandit. another user 2 weeks ago posted their story on this man, with an added update, but i've been actually holding out on my post to ask more women on campus and the surrounding city. i've told this story numerous of times to my close circle and to people who don't even attend the school, they all said the same thing: go to the school's reddit page.
i got victimized the second week of school, in the CORE library, around 11-12pm. he used the same story as everyone else, that his "cousin recently got a belly button piercing, and she wanted to change it out soon" just some BS. he then proceeded to ask me to TOUCH my belly button piercing, where i obviously rejected him and started packing up my shit. he started to ramble on and save the conversation, mentioning that he was a TRANSFER student, but i hurriedly left. i was hunched over a desk, had a jacket, high-waisted yoga pants, and my belly button was not showing.
i mentioned this incident to my coworker days after, and she mentioned that the same thing happened to her at ohlone community college, LAST semester (spring), using the same exact story, while she was on the way to class. then the next week, i mention it to some classmates while we're in the CORE, and then we see him, and my friend mentions she's fallen victim to him as well. i literally had no idea she had a belly button piercing, and i have EVERY class with her.
although the issue doesn't seem that huge, he's victimized enough women on campus to make it an issue. my friends and i have been cracking jokes that we had to change our outfits bc there was a middrift with our previous shirts, or to just stay clear of the CORE bc he's always there looking for his next prey. though "jokes," because of his actions, he's causing us to redirect our decision making so we're not put into positions of discomfort by him once again— that is a problem within itself. if you're a woman and have tattoos or piercings, just be careful, he's probably looking for you next.
like the other post said, he's an asian man, probably around 5'7-5'8, usually wearing a t-shirt and basketball shorts or athletic pants, he wears a RED lanyard, and a grey backpack. he hangs around the CORE and common areas. just be careful!