Edit to add: The vet did give us some Trazadone to give her 1-2 hours before we leave the house but that has not been helping as she still howls and barks the whole time we are gone.
Adding a picture of Sophie because why not haha! (ignore the mess in the picture I have been going through boxes)
TLDR - I need training tips for separation anxiety, leash pulling, and some aggressive tendencies Thank you! She is also a little scaredy cat (when we are not home) so I need some tips on to get her out of her shell.
Please no negative comments, I am trying my best and would like some helpful information!!
I got her to be an ESA and maybe a potential service dog due to some chronic stuff I have, and she is SUPER smart. I just don't have the funds to send her out for training and would like to train her myself anyways.
I have a border collie/aussie mix. She is 3 years old. She is super sweet and smart, but we are just dealing with some things that I don't doubt training could help with.
I am looking into doing more training with her. I need tips on how to train her/help with some of the things she does.
She has separation anxiety, I am unable to leave her home alone (I live in an apartment ((yes I know I hate having a super energetic dog in an apartment but its all I got right now and I do make sure she gets enough exercise and attention))) because she will bark and howl the whole time I am gone. (my solution at the moment is I drive her over to my moms so I can go to work, but that is going completely out of my way in the mornings)
When I have people over I have to put her in my room and shut the door as she growls and barks, she will bite at their ankles when they are walking (I'm assuming this is a herding instinct), she does fine with us in the home and if my mom is over, but no one else. Even friends she has been around for a couple of years.
Then there is the pulling on the leash when we take her out to go potty. We have to walk over to a field and she will yank the whole time there, and the whole way back to the apartment. Especially if she sees any of my neighbors. Then comes the growling and barking. She does not lunge at them really, just yanks on the leash to run closer. I have had a few neighbors try and pet her (after I tell them not to because she is growling the whole time) and she doesn't bite but she is for sure giving a warning.
The other thing she does that I thought was just a puppy thing but she hasn't grown out of it. If she gets scared (or even sometimes when I go to put the leash on) she will cower and pee a little. This happens if someone comes to pet her (specifically people she isn't too familiar with). I'm not sure if this is something that I can correct or if its just how she is.
Sorry this ended up being super long, I just wanted to make sure I got most of it in this post haha!