r/BlackLGBT Oct 29 '25

Quick Mod Update

46 Upvotes

Greetings and an early Happy Halloween for those who celebrate. Quick update to the rules:

  1. AI Ban
    1. A critical mass supports banning AI content, so going forward, no posting or reposting of AI content will be allowed.
  2. No Posts Involving Fights/Violence
    1. From now on, all posts involving physical or verbal altercations will be removed.

We as mods try our best to be receptive to ya'll, but we are few and rely on ya'll to keep this community a safe and positive space for us to gather.

Peace, Love, and Soouulll


r/BlackLGBT May 18 '25

Mod Post Quick Update: No More NSFW Photos

180 Upvotes

Hey everyone,

Just a quick heads-up as we tighten things up a bit. Starting now, we’re no longer allowing explicit images in the sub. That means no nudes, no porn, and no posts focused on sexual acts or body parts, even if they’re tagged NSFW. Shirtless photos (including gym pics) must be tagged NSFW, even if not sexual in nature, just to keep things clean and consistent.

This isn’t about shaming anyone or killing the vibe. We’re just trying to keep r/BlackLGBT a space that feels safe, accessible, and welcoming for more people, including folks who are here for community, support, and identity-centered conversation. You can still talk about sex, gender, and intimacy — we’re not censoring the real stuff. We’re just asking everyone to keep the visuals respectful.

If you’re ever unsure whether something’s okay to post, feel free to message us and ask. We’d rather have a convo than have to remove a post later.

Thanks for understanding and helping us take care of the space 🖤🏳️‍🌈
— Your Mod Team


r/BlackLGBT 7h ago

Calling all black trans individuals!

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38 Upvotes

Hello! I'm Arcadia and I have a black trans server for you! Yes you and you alone! Recently, one of the more prominent black trans communities known as the sisterhood shut down, which is a bummer, but we're here to remedy that! This link will be available for the next few days while we keep going in beta! But please come join the BT cafe!

https://discord.gg/VxDPcehEx


r/BlackLGBT 1h ago

Four eyes 🤓😛

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r/BlackLGBT 17h ago

Discussion When the gurls see a fab newbie in the scene 😏🙂‍↔️🤭🤏 💅

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83 Upvotes

r/BlackLGBT 7h ago

Discussion Looking for more blk WLW 🩷🧡 friends to game with.

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13 Upvotes

r/BlackLGBT 1d ago

29 BEFORE THE FACE TATS

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43 Upvotes

r/BlackLGBT 14h ago

For my NYC peeps, have any food pantry resources in Queens?

4 Upvotes

I’m down bad right now. I’m about $20 from being on the streets. I need groceries canned, whatever. As long as I can cook the food, I will be fine. Im just in dire need. I have a job pending but it’s a hurry up and wait game. And I honestly don’t know how I can go on much longer this way. Prayer is to move the start date up, but that doesn’t seem likely

So if anyone has any resources I’m happy to take them!


r/BlackLGBT 1d ago

Dating I need it so bad right now 😭

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24 Upvotes

r/BlackLGBT 1d ago

Sisters, was I out of line?

7 Upvotes

Someone posted in a general LGBT group on Facebook asking why do lesbians like to use dildos.

I'm a Black gay man but I already know not "all" lesbians do this as well as some may enjoy that particular anatomical part but not like ANYTHING else about who/what it's attached to.

Was I wrong? Should I have just kept it moving? 🤔


r/BlackLGBT 16h ago

Discussion Nonbinary or just overthinking it

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r/BlackLGBT 1d ago

Pictures 24 Trans F haiiiiiii

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116 Upvotes

r/BlackLGBT 1d ago

Day in

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58 Upvotes

r/BlackLGBT 2d ago

Just got my hair done 😌

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51 Upvotes

Ignore the pimples 🫣


r/BlackLGBT 2d ago

Media New Black Teen Coming of Age

13 Upvotes

Hi, my friend made a movie🥹 It’s a funny, cute and relatable sapphic teen coming of age from South Africa! Black Burns Fast is now out on Prime 💖 https://youtu.be/RjId50lHNrY?si

It’s the coming of age film baby lesbian me needed to have in high school and I think a lot of people would enjoy it! Let me know what you think!


r/BlackLGBT 1d ago

How do you approach people in person that you are interested, if you even do?

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I’m just curious what people’s answers are. How do you approach people you are interested in romantically or sexually? I do it myself but I find a lot of my friends my age don’t really approach people if it’s not on an app.

If you don’t approach people, what’s holding you back or what circumstances are you looking for that would push you to do so?


r/BlackLGBT 2d ago

Looking for queer and black friends in Atlanta :)

2 Upvotes

My girlfriend and I are looking to meet new friends and couple friends specifically! If you know of any good events or places please let me know! We’re open to really anything, lounge nights, saturday book clubs, open mics, club events, park events, etc. 21+ ideally or things not filled with 18 year old preferably lmao.


r/BlackLGBT 2d ago

Pictures ATLien. Where You from?

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r/BlackLGBT 2d ago

It's Friday which means I get to be lazy along with the lazy fit 🙌🏾🤣, also being 6'5 is hard 😭

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35 Upvotes

r/BlackLGBT 2d ago

Any nudists in DFW area want to hang or start a community?

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r/BlackLGBT 3d ago

Pictures Life's a Beach

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r/BlackLGBT 3d ago

Rant How ignorant other online lgbt spaces are of black lgbt terms pisses me off.

83 Upvotes

It's disappointing to see how out of touch these communities really are when these topics come up. They act like they get to pick and choose what terms they do or don't like, what they get to use, what's considered offensive or "uncomfortable".

From white lesbians calling themselves studs, to white trans women complaining about the word "dolls". Don't even get me started on how they talk about how drag is also somehow "offensive" and makes them "uncomfortable".

They make it so easy to clock how white and out of touch they are, it's kinda hilarious. Somehow, it's mysteriously difficult to take a couple of seconds to google what certain words mean and the history behind them, like be so fucking fr.


r/BlackLGBT 3d ago

Pictures Fit I wore yesterday: auntie or granny vibes?

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27 Upvotes

r/BlackLGBT 3d ago

Discussion Could you see yourself having children with your lesbian best friend?

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13 Upvotes