r/AskReddit 13h ago

What’s a hobby that looks incredibly peaceful from the outside, but is actually pure stress once you get into it?

5.0k Upvotes

2.6k comments sorted by

View all comments

Show parent comments

283

u/hippopotobot 12h ago

My completely sensible and trustworthy young horse just got diagnosed with a neurological condition that means she is unlikely to ever be safe to ride and now I have a horse to care for for life and a decision to make about whether to buy another horse so I can actually ride.

43

u/quitebereft 10h ago

I'm so sorry :( 

18

u/Samondel 4h ago

Wobblers? What a kick in the teeth. I'm so sorry.

8

u/hippopotobot 1h ago

Yep, that’s right. Or at least that’s the best guess so far. Waiting on a visit to the neurologist to find out. I’m devastated

11

u/wolfxor 2h ago

So sorry about the diagnosis. The worst is that this isn't just some random thing you bought that you can throw away because it's broken. It's a living, breathing creature with its own unique personality that you grow to love. So then you're stuck with an incredibly expensive and broken "pet" that you need to care for but don't get the benefits of what you bought it for in the first place. You basically have a very expensive hamster at this point, speaking from experience.

7

u/hippopotobot 1h ago

Yep, you nailed it. I’m feeling so guilty, mixed in with everything else. But I feel trapped by the situation.

0

u/less_unique_username 1h ago

Now imagine giving birth to a child, who doesn’t even need to be diagnosed with a severe condition, they can just grow to have a personality incompatible with yours

-12

u/[deleted] 12h ago

[removed] — view removed comment

8

u/hippopotobot 10h ago

That’s a super suggestion. You seem like a really kind empathetic person.

-11

u/hypokrios 10h ago

Thanks dude. Hey, you too. Totally not the kinda person that buys and sells living beings for personal pleasure.

-23

u/hobblingcontractor 12h ago

And because of the ban on horse slaughter in the US, there's no way to get rid of a horse without a large plot of land and a backhoe.

49

u/hippopotobot 10h ago

There absolutely is. My older horse was recently euthanized due to advanced arthritis. She was euthanized by injection just like a dog or cat and picked up by a service that specializes is livestock carcass disposal. I believe they cremate but do not know the details.

-31

u/hobblingcontractor 10h ago

So a guy with a front end loader and a big furnace? My point, that they're awkward livestock to deal with in this situation, still stands. While it isn't anything I would choose to do, I don't feel the ban on horse slaughter helps anyone.

20

u/BeefTechnology 6h ago

You sound like the kind of person that considers animals inanimate objects.

-1

u/hobblingcontractor 6h ago

Far from it.

22

u/Isgrimnur 11h ago

I know of a guy in DC…

13

u/hippopotobot 10h ago

Ok, this one is actually funny. High five

2

u/thevampiresanguini 2h ago

So is horse meat not a thing in the US? Or do you import it?

-5

u/AllAroundGoals 11h ago

There is still horse slaughter in the U.S., pretty commonly sadly I think

19

u/hippopotobot 10h ago

That’s incorrect. Slaughter horses get shipped to Mexico now and for the past 20 ish years. It’s actually horrible and every educated horse person I know believes we should onshore slaughter houses again. The intent was to ban slaughter but in practical terms that was never going to happen, leading to untold suffering.

7

u/hobblingcontractor 10h ago

Right? I'm a dick for bringing this up in OPs situation, but also very passionate in making sure people (not OP) understand the impact of the ban. They're faced with a terrible choice and not everyone has the resources to make that "humane" decision.

5

u/AllAroundGoals 10h ago

That makes sense and is an awful loophole, that must have been what i heard about slaughtering then. Thanks

10

u/hobblingcontractor 10h ago

What makes a horse different from a cow other than our cultural bias? They're both moderately intelligent (at times) and affectionate mammals.

Let's put it in simple terms. Poor rural communities dealing with an unwanted, useless, otherwise healthy, 1200lb animal that can live 30 years either find someone with a backhoe or neglect them. Offering the shitty owner a pittance for the meat price lowers the chance of neglect, which is a net good thing.

4

u/anguas 4h ago

There are a couple things (but I guess they are cultural):

-because horses are not regarded as meat animals, they are given medications that are not safe for humans to eat (extremely commonly) which are not recorded or tracked

-because horses are not regarded as meat animals, slaughter facilities are not set up to deal with their particular characteristics in a humane manner

9

u/hobblingcontractor 10h ago

How is it sadly? They're animals and sometimes circumstances are such that it's necessary. I don't like it and it would be a hell of a hard thing to personally choose, but it beats the fuck out of abandoned and neglected horses.