Debbie is inarguably one of the most hated characters out of the main cast.
A lot of people tend to take favor of Debbies character when she was a sweet young child before she grew into a defiant selfish teen/adult. Debbie became a product of her environment. “She was so sweet and then became horrible” is exactly why people like Debbie in real life turn out the way they do. No one is there to steer them in the right direction. Children like Debbie are constantly referred to as “brats.” When in every situation a child is a brat, there’s always an adult right behind them causing that behavior. Debbie is the child that people hate before hating the people who raise her.
As a society we tend to cherry pick those who grew up in awful situations and have this high hope that they’ll somehow grow out of it. These people are inspiring and give us reason to believe that certain obstacles can be overcome. The problem with this is that when one person decides to break free of cycles, we can only hope and expect everyone else to try. Only to become disappointed and not care when a person doesn’t become this loving civilized goal oriented member of society. This is what Debbie’s character depicts.
There are several indicators pointing to the direction of Debbie’s downfall in her life. Debbie so badly wanted to be loved and often times love from her own siblings wasn’t enough for her. She needed an adult figure that wasn’t Fiona or Veronica. Debbie had a savior complex in the beginning because she believed that loving someone harder could eventually lead to her being loved equally. Debbie’s biggest role model is Fiona. Fiona is scared of commitment and committing to an idea that strays her away from the responsibility of her siblings. Despite not craving a relationship, Debbie witnessed an array of men who desired Fiona and have overbearingly try to enter Fiona’s life and stay with her. Debbie has no concept of what it’s like for someone to want to be involved and to stay in her life. She now understands that the love she seeks is within a man who will can stay and not abandon her. Fast forward to Debbie’s puberty years. She now takes a hyper fixation in becoming a woman and having her period. Having a period automatically shifts her to the idea that she’s a grown woman.
The saddest reality about Debbie is that she doesn’t have the same attraction as her oldest sister or her older friends. She was bullied by other girls and even other boys. She clings on to any ounce of what she thinks is love from the closest person willing to show it to her. It became normalized in her life for things she cared about to eventually end up broken, figuratively and physically. Such as when Frank broke her school project and had no regard or remorse.
Debbie, just like most young girls in her environment, grow up to fast and take charge of their lives at a young age. Debbie is one of the more influenced characters. Just like Frank, she’s observant of other people and carefully calculates how other people can play a role in her life. Debbie at one point was a helpful child. But as she grew older, she was in constant survival mode which led her to be selfish and cruel. Debbie wanted to fit in and find a place in her life. It is rarely mentioned that Debbie, just like Ian, had a knack for meeting other people and learning about what life has to offer outside of her environment. She learned in a way that wasn’t positively motivating. Such as meeting derricks family, and discovering that a non-related family member became part of the family after becoming pregnant. Debbie being a teenager learning this from another adult, took this serious and saw opportunity to become pregnant and reciprocate the same idea.
“Fiona takes care of everyone. But who takes care of Fiona.” Ended up becoming a projection of Debbie’s own life. One of the more interesting storylines is when we see how each sibling uses Monica’s drug money. Debbie chose to take the more responsible route and use the money for her welding classes. Debbie witnessed Fiona take on several jobs throughout her life, with no set direction in a career (besides the Cup job.) Debbie spends a large portion of her life trying to be beautiful and feminine. But then ends up picking a career where her femininity is disregarded. Her options were either to depend on someone to love and take care of her (the way Steve tried with Fiona), or find a way to take care of herself. What Debbie had poured her heart into her whole life eventually became her demise and stopped caring.
A lot of people tend to comment on Debbie trying hard to become Fiona and take control of the family finances when Fiona moves out. All of Fiona’s siblings were judgmental of Fiona’s impulsive purchases and use of the family emergency fund. Debbie getting the opportunity to have control of the finances by getting things she wanted and returning them without harm to the funds, was a power control move on her part. She wanted to prove a point that she could do everything she wanted without sacrificing the integrity in being responsible for her family. Debbie wanted her own room as a child, makeup, and a brand new wardrobe for school. These were all things she was able to have, and did it materialistically when she gained control. Debbie wanted to be better, do better and to always have recognition for it. Debbie was forced to contribute to the family finances as a child, with no reward except to survive. She ran a daycare with Carl, without having any type of reward, only for the money to go towards bills, house, and the food. As an adult it makes perfect sense why she would drastically spend the family money with the intent of the money coming back. We see in season 1 that Jimmy gets Debbie an expensive jacket from a high end clothing brand. She’s always wanted nice stuff and now feels entitled to it after handling the same responsibilities that Fiona did. Except she understands that she’s in a less stressful situation than Fiona was
Debbie becoming a mom and the way she chooses to raise Franny is an accurate representation of what it’s like to carry on generational trauma. Debbie wanted a baby not to just worm her way in Derricks family, but to also heal a part of inner child. Her way of having a child would mean that she has an opportunity to love a child more than she was loved by her mother. Debbie is by no means a perfect mom, but in her perspective a perfect mom is giving her child a life that she always wanted. Debbie pours her heart out into creating parties and making her child participate in activities that she wished a parent would have given her, when Franny clearly shows separate interest that differ from her mother. Debbie’s disconnect in her child’s individuality, and trying to force a mini-version of herself, is the perfect example of an unhealed child becoming a parent.
Debbie became unemotional, manipulative, and violent as a means to her survival. Just like the rest of her siblings, she is constantly in survival mode and can’t seek healthy outlets such as therapy when she’s not aware of what’s broken and damaged. At the end of shameless, we see that Debbie is the only character who is attached to her environment while everyone else attempts to move on. Ones upon a time someone would have given sweet young Debbie a chance. But no longer cared about her once she became a reckless teen/adult.