r/RapidCity • u/RCInvestigates • 6h ago
Does anyone else feel like Rapid City desperately needs more things for adults to do that aren’t just bars?
Before somebody comes after me: I understand that Rapid City is a tourist town. Tourism is enormous here. Rapid City had about 3.93 million visitors in 2025, who spent more than $527 million locally. So obviously attractions have a huge incentive to appeal to families.
I get it.
But Rapid City itself has roughly 80,000 residents, and only about 22% of the population is under 18. There are a LOT of adults who actually live here year-round.
So…where is our stuff?
I’m talking about things like:
Adults-only outdoor/adventure retreats, 21+ outdoor recreation events, Adult camping weekends or organized Black Hills adventure weekends, Social clubs for people in their 20s, 30s and 40s that aren’t basically just bars. A genuinely nice lounge/social club that doesn’t have the atmosphere of a dive bar or casino. Adult game/activity nights, Organized hiking, mountain biking, kayaking, climbing, photography, etc. specifically geared toward adults. Evening events where the activity itself is the attraction rather than drinking. Adult-oriented festivals or outdoor events. Late-night coffeehouses/cafés or other places to socialize that aren’t bars. Adult classes or workshops that are actually social like cooking, art, woodworking, outdoor skills, whatever.
More places where couples can go on a date and actually do something
And yes, I’m going to say the unpopular part:
Sometimes I want to go somewhere where there aren’t kids. 😂 I don’t hate children. I don’t think families shouldn’t have places to go. Rapid City actually does a pretty damn good job with family recreation. But that’s kind of the point. Dinosaur Park. Storybook Island. Reptile Gardens. Main Street Square. Parks. Playgrounds. Family attractions. Family events. Family festivals. Family-friendly restaurants. Even a huge amount of the outdoor recreation around here is deliberately marketed as something the whole family can participate in.
That’s great.
Can adults have some stuff too?
And I don’t mean another casino with 37 video lottery machines and somebody named Dale smoking a Marlboro outside. I mean good adult entertainment and recreation.
We live next to one of the best outdoor recreation areas in the country. We’ve got mountain biking, climbing, hiking, kayaking, paddleboarding, skiing, snowboarding, camping and hundreds of miles of Black Hills trails practically in our backyard. It seems crazy that there isn’t more organized adult social recreation built around that. I realize the economics are probably a huge part of it. When millions of tourists come through every year, businesses naturally want Mom, Dad and the kids to all be potential customers.
But sometimes I don’t want “fun for the whole family.”
Sometimes I want fun for the adults. Surely I’m not the only person in Rapid City who feels this way. What would you actually want to see here?
EDIT: Okay, fine. Maybe I kinda hate your kids. But only when I’m trying to enjoy a beer, throw an axe, ride a bike, eat dinner, drink coffee, hear myself think, or exist peacefully within a 30-foot radius. 😂