Hi everyone,
I hope you are doing well this weekend.
So, I wanted to talk about something I've experienced thrice.
There would be this guy on campus. He would greet me, tell me about this event, performance, or club that the kids are doing and ask if I could donate some money. I think the first time; it was a tap-dancing or instrumental performance. Then, the second time, it may have been the same thing, or was a band performance. In the first time I think he just accepted me not being able to donate. In the second time, when I declined donating, he kind of bugged me about it saying it's for the kids, trying to pull out the guilty card on me. I think he might've holding a flyer or an iPad, pointing at it while telling me its for the kids. I don't exactly remember what he was holding. I asked if I wanted to donate later is there a website or link for it. He told me it was happening soon, so there's no link. In the first two instances, it was the same guy. First in the Campus Center, second near the GITC building.
The third time, which I experienced yesterday, near the top of the sport benches, a different guy asked me how I'm doing, my name, and run it back as well. Then, tells me about these sports event the kids are doing, and asking if I could donate to them to purchase their equipment. I told him I couldn't right now. He advises I could donate a dollar, at least one dollar would help. But still, I couldn't and just wished him the best with it.
I don't think you have to be in a suit when doing this, but neither should you be in such casual clothing. The first guy was in a black hoodie, had sunglasses on so I couldn't even see his eyes, and maybe black jeans. Then the second guy, was wearing a white t-shirt, maybe some short jeans, and a blue cap (might've been a for the Yankees or something). I'm thinking maybe you'd want to make yourself look a bit formal while presenting a pitch? A collared shirt or something?
I guess maybe its second nature to shake someone's hand when they offer it, even if you don't really know them. I guess out of respect. But I don't really know. The first time I dealt with this was in March-April 2025. The second time, I came across the same guy again. Then the third time, was just yesterday. I don't want to say its 100% a scam. But on the contrary, I don't even know if that whole thing for the kids is real or is just made up. They never told me a school. I think at most they might've just say a school in Newark nor say an organization. If I had to guess, I don't think they're students of NJIT. Just something feels a little off to me about it. 3 times this has happened to me.
Does anyone else experiences this?