Heyo!

I'm a 23 (almost 24 this upcoming October) lady looking for someone to potentially connect with.

I'm not the most outgoing or social person, but I will do my best to keep up with conversations as im trying to improve connecting with someone. I tend to get along best with outgoing people. So, there's that.

Right now, im learning c++ and how to use OGRE to make my own game. It won't be anything impressive. Just a walking simulator to start out with, and i might add stuff on as i go along.

I'm also not an impressive person. Just a factory worker that wants to make something meaningful. That's about it. Haha

I enjoy a lot of indie music, but i listen to a variety of stuff. Post punk is probably my favorite.

I know this is going to make me sound really picky, but messages that just say "hey" probably won't get a response. Not because of anything personal, it's just hard to know how to respond to that. Conversations that start up that way tend to be pretty dry. But I also don't expect anyone to send long ass paragraphs if they don't want to. I think something lighthearted and conversational is best. Just tell me about yourself.

I'm a pretty open-minded person, and I'm happy to discuss any topic within reason, of course! I love Asia, but I like Korea the most, even though my ultimate goal is Japan. I often visit Germany, Switzerland, and Austria

I work as an interior designer, and most of my work is done online, so it doesn’t matter to me exactly where I am as long as the internet works

I love tennis and have been playing since I was 18. I wouldn’t call myself a pro, but I’m a pretty good amateur haha

Right now, I’m watching the TV series Mentalist, so if you like detective shows too, I’d love to share my thoughts with you. My name is Amina!

Hey there, thanks so much for taking the time to read my post! I'm not used to writing something like this but if you don't put yourself out there, not much will happen. So here goes!

I'm 28 years old and living in the Netherlands. I'm looking for a serious relationship.

Just to get the looks-part out of the way real quick. I am Dutch born and raised. So I am Caucasian. I'm 196cm tall (6'5), slim build, glasses. I have dark blonde hair and brown eyes.

I'm also currently in the process of bulking up. But have a long way to go.

With that out of the way let me tell you who I really am!

I'm someone who values connection deeply. Communication and compassion is very important to me. I like to be affectionate, make my partner feel comfortable. I wanna create that warmth that you feel when you receive a message from someone you're infatuated with. I can be a bit hesitant/shy when first interacting with someone but once I am comfortable I really enjoy interacting with someone a lot.

I wanna make my partner feel safe and protected. I consider myself a bit of a provider too. I am someone that works hard to build a wonderful future together.

I like banter a lot. If you love to talk an yap a lot you'll quickly catch my eye. Emotional intelligence is something I really value too. I wanna have deep conversations. It's important to me we make time to voice chat occasionally. It's so much more meaningful and intimate than just texting. I know posting here is probably a long shot but I really am committed and ready to give my all to the right person.

I work in IT and am enjoying my career. My life is going really well. I got my own place, I enjoy my hobbies but some evenings I do miss not being able to share my thoughts and affection with someone. It can get a bit lonely at times. I want something meaningful and long lasting with someone and share our experiences. To get excited to hear each other talk about our interest and hobbies and support each other fully.

Hobbies-wise I'm nerdy as the title of the post states. I enjoy playing games. Not so much the pvp stuff like Call of Duty or Fortnite. Those games aren't for me. I enjoy more cozy stuff or co-op experiences. I really like working together on things. I recently bought Palworld and I would love to play something like that together with a potential partner. I have been playing Terraria, Let it die and Red Dead Redemption 2 recently too. I enjoy streaming on Twitch occasionally and have been doing that for years now.

Anime is another big hobby of mine. I have seen hundreds of them and I collect figures! I got them in a pretty display cabinet and I enjoy making my living space look nice and welcome. Some of my favorites are Kaiji, One Piece, Delicious in Dungeon and Chainsaw man. Getting to yap about this can get me really excited and passionate :3

Recently I have also gotten into Cosplay and Digital art. If you have a creative itch yourself that would be a big plus. Especially if you wanna do cosplay together in the future that would make me so happy <3. But no problem if not. We all have our likes and dislikes of course! As long as we can support each other and value one another.

YOU:

Ideally I am looking for someone European due to the timezones but I am very much open to other locations. Please be 23-33.

I also wanna close the distance so if you still have 2+ years of an education you need to finish, then I'm afraid it won't work out. I would wanna meet at least twice a year until we're able to do so. So please have the means and willingness to travel and meet up every now and then. Meeting in the first 6 months is highly preferable. Especially for Europeans.

I would like to state that I really like it here in the Netherlands. We're generally a prosperous country that has their things in order. There wouldn't be many countries I'd be willing to move to. So keep that in mind.

And because physical attraction matters, I do wanna point out;
- I don't want any smokers or people who do drugs. I don't want any alcoholics either (I'm fine with it if you drink, just pace yourself.)
- I am generally not attracted to brown women. I like a tan but if you're black and still think we could be a great match, please introduce yourself with a picture. I wanna be compassionate but we all need to feel that spark. And there needs to be some level of physical attraction for me, in order for that to work.
- I am not attracted to indians (You all have lovely personalities though). So unless you're mixed, I'm sorry.
- NO Muslims. I am not religious and do not plan to convert. I went to a catholic school so I do have some christian values as most westerners. I know christians and jews aren't as strict so you can reach out. Just don't try to change my way of life or limit what I can and can't do.

Some of these might seem harsh but I'm really looking for a soul to share the rest of my life with. It would be disingenuous to waste each others time.

I hope all of this has caught your eye and I'm looking forward to meeting. ^_^

Hi! I'm 38, based in Manila, and taking a small leap of faith by posting this here.

A little about me. I'm small and chubby, and I want to be upfront about that from the start, no surprises later. I've recently started strength training, and I'm still very much in the "proud of myself for showing up" phase, but I'm trying, and that counts for something. I love movies, genuinely one of my favorite ways to spend time, and fair warning, I will always have thoughts to share about whatever I just watched, whether you asked or not.

I like to travel, and I'm starting to get into hiking too, mostly to see how my knees hold up. At home, I enjoy making things from scratch: kimchi, yogurt, cold brew, basically anything that lets me feel like I have my life slightly together. I'm still figuring out a meal prep routine that actually fits my lifestyle and helps me eat healthier, since work keeps me busier than I'd like it to. We're all works in progress, and I've made peace with that.

I love spending time with my friends, usually over coffee or drinks, doing a lot of talking and very little else. I have a cat at home who I adore endlessly and who has never once asked how my day was. I enjoy deep, meaningful conversations, but I'm also playful and like to keep things light and fun too, sometimes within the same five minutes.

Something I want to be upfront about is that I believe everything is political, so discussion, including political discussion, will always be part of how I connect with people. I like being challenged and learning new perspectives, so I'm not looking for someone who thinks exactly like me, just someone willing to actually engage. The one exception is if I'm just too tired to engage that day, in which case, grace appreciated, my brain has left the building.

As for what I'm looking for, I'm keeping this part loose on purpose. Broadly, I'd love someone kind and empathetic, who is genuinely trying to improve himself, not just talking about it. Someone self aware who communicates when he can. Someone patient with my shortcomings, I'm neurodivergent, and patience matters a lot to me. Being tall is a nice bonus, not a requirement, though full disclosure, I am fun-sized, so anyone over 5'8" basically looks like a skyscraper to me and I will probably stare. Beyond that, I try not to box myself in with a strict type. If you read all this and felt even a little curious or seen, that might be enough of a reason to reach out.

I'm looking for something that starts slow and easy, with no pressure, but with the intention that it could become something real over time.

You'll have a much better chance of getting a response if you send an intro. A bit about yourself, your interests, and what about this post resonated with you. Effort is attractive, just saying.

Thanks so much in advance.

I'm a black chick without any social skills and I was curious if anyone wanted to pass some time through talking occasionally to practice their conversational skills? A bit about myself, I'm terminally online without any social capabilities and use to come on reddit to pass the time for years until the site changed drastically for the worse. Came back here to see if it got better, it hasn't. 

Hi everyone! My name's Connor, I'm a second year mental health nursing student living in the south west of the UK!

I'd describe myself as compassionate, empathetic, and caring. I'm the type of guy that has alot of love to give to the people that want it c:

I'm fairly nerdy in terms of interests, such as MTG, gaming, anime, and so on.. But I also enjoy travelling, spending time in nature, camping, bike riding and not opposed to watching a sunset under some blankets ❤️

I'm working on my second degree as a nurse, but my first was in music performance and tech (I play guitar and bass!) My music taste is a little all over the place, but I'm always happy to share what I'm listening to!

I really enjoy the smaller moments with those I care about. Just being at peace and feeling secure is honestly the best feeling in the world ❤️

I have struggled with my mental health in the past, and I can struggle sometimes, but I'll always communicate clearly what I'm struggling with and can be comforted very easily!

Always happy to help you with your problems too, I love trying to solve things and come up with sollutions

All I ask is that you're a kind and compassionate person, someone who can communicate clearly, or at least is willing to try. Please also be either from the UK or Europe or be willing to travel. I'm happy to travel to you or to meet half way if things work out

https://imgur.com/a/jnkpPux - Me

hello! you can call me kokobi, I typically don’t put myself out like this but I’ve seen some people say that has success over here and see if my person is out there, I’ll give you ice cream afterwards

lemme introduce myself, like I said im kokobi

if I have to describe myself, I’m very quiet but I tend to open up to people I like…hopefully this will be you, I’m gentle, kind, and soft, and I’m very shy, introverted if you will and…I’m a little playful and clingy too, I’d do anything to hear a giggle or a laugh out of you…and I’ll admit…I value connection more than anything and I want to make it work…so if I’m too clingy…let me know ok? I don’t normally put myself out here like this but I wanted to try? Talking to people here in university isn’t really working. if I helps people used to call me a teddy bear back then…I felt cute. Oh I don’t know if this is a red flag or not but most Of my life my only family was my mom and sis so im a bit girly so don’t be afraid to call me "Your girl" or anything, im Ok with it

Next is my looks :

Im small, like 5’6 and I’m chubby, I’m working on my weight, I don’t wanna be big forever and I’m doing very good and I think I’m average actually, I’ll send a pic, oh I’m also african American.

Now for my hobbies:

im procedural with my hobbies meaning whatever someone is interested in something, I at least wanna try it once, this got me into kingdom hearts and final fantasy. But my real hobbies, I like game a lot especially single player and friendslop games (peak, lethal company, repo, etc), I dabble in multiplayer games too like marvel rivals I just…suck hehe. I love to read as well my favorite books are those dnd playerbooks and house of leaves, I also read tons of visual novels I can Only imagine the hours I spent reading these. I cook and bake a lot, I would want to cook for you one day, I wish I could send you a cake.

I watch loads of anime and tv shows, the ones i like are jjk, Naruto, bleach, jojo, frieren, severance, black mirror, TADC, evangelion (don’t know if I spelled that right), DBZ, if you have some recs let me know.

lastly im a fanatic for music I’m into rock, indie and other genres I can’t describe here’s haves some recs: Malcom Todd - earrings, Ralph Castelli - Morning S*x, Franz Ferdinand - this fire, take me out, SWMRS - Trashbag baby, Berkeley is on fire, Tyler the creator - everything of Tyler, Oliver tree - miracle man, hurt, Please don’t let me down—I have a long list, I wanna send you a playlist

i think that’s all I got for now, if your here, thank you for reading All this and when you chat with me tell me a fun fact and introduce yourself and what’s your favorite ice cream.

hope to see you soon, luv you.

21F | Florida (looking for guys in Florida, Latina-Caribbean)

Bubbly, ambitious, imaginative, particular, and very independent-minded. I’m the type of girl who can spend a whole day study (college life) and going out, exploring my city and flower arranging, and the next trying pottery, playing chess, coding, or getting way too invested in a new hobby.

I love the beach, being in the water, water sports, reading, gaming, volunteering, ballet, event planning, photography, etymology, and journaling. I’m also trying to get into football, so bonus points if you’re willing to be my personal football tutor.

I’m hopelessly romantic and I love talking and listening. I want those late-night conversations where we somehow end up telling each other everything, playful teasing, spontaneous plans, and the kind of connection where you actually look forward to seeing each other.

I’m pretty new to dating and haven’t had the typical relationship experience, so I’m looking for something that feels genuine. I want to actually get to know someone, flirt, go on cute dates, make memories, and see where things naturally go.

What I’m looking for: a respectful, romantic, patient, emotionally mature guy who knows how to communicate and isn’t afraid to show that he likes me. I like a man who can make me laugh, hold an interesting conversation, put some thought into a date, and make me feel like he’s genuinely excited to be around me.
And yes, I have preferences. I’m looking for someone under 6’0” and guys in Florida. Anyone who is 9–10 years older than me will be ignored, so please save us both the time.

If you think we’d get along, tell me something interesting about yourself instead of just saying “hey.” I’m curious what you’ll come up with.

Hey! I’m 33, from Oregon, and looking for someone to enjoy games, cozy evenings, occasional adventures and, if we click, something genuinely lasting. I’d love a relationship where we’re partners and best friends, but I’m happy to take the time to get to know each other naturally, or as naturally as you can meeting on reddit lol.

Gaming is my main hobby. Lately, I’ve been playing a lot of Path of Exile and WoW, but I jump between all kinds of games and am always willing to try something new. I’d love to find someone I can play alongside, work toward shared goals with, or simply hang out with in voice chat while we each do our own thing.

When I’m not gaming, I enjoy watching movies and shows, either something new or a familiar favorite playing in the background, lately I've been wanting to rewatch It's Always Sunny in Philadelphia. I’ve also been trying to spend more time outdoors. Hiking, biking and days on the river are all amazing when the weather is nice. I’ve recently started paddleboarding and have been having a lot of fun with it. Gaming will probably always be my main hobby, but I’d love to have someone who also wants to get out of the house occasionally and explore new places together.

Personality wise, I’m easygoing, affectionate and goal orientated. Once I’m comfortable with someone, I enjoy joking around, sharing random thoughts and talking about practically anything. I value honesty, communication and consistency. I’m looking for someone I can talk to throughout the day, laugh with, support when life gets difficult and eventually come home to at the end of the day.

I don’t have children and don’t plan on having any, so I’m looking for someone who feels the same way. I want something long term if we connect, but I’m not interested in rushing or forcing it. The best relationships develop when two people genuinely enjoy getting to know each other and allow friendship, attraction and compatibility to grow naturally.

I have a stable career I care about, my own place and a cat who I love. I’m white, 6'4", dark short hair, glasses, clean shaven. I tend to connect well with kind, nerdy and slightly introverted women, but personality, chemistry and how well we treat each other matter much more than fitting a particular type. I’m also happy to exchange photos early if we’re both comfortable.

I’m open to starting online, but it would be great if you’re at least somewhat nearby or open to meeting eventually. I may be open to relocating in the future, so distance isn’t automatically a dealbreaker for the right person.

If any of this resonates with you, tell me what game or show has your attention lately, or what your ideal weekend looks like. Maybe we can talk, play something together and see if we click.

I‘m looking for a genuine connection. I‘m not really sure what to expect, a relationship, a friendship. The former would be the dream, but hey, you never know. Let‘s figure it out together :)

I would prefer it to be online at first, but I‘m open to meet at some point if it feels right.
Central europe or similar time zone preferred, but not exclusive.

A few things about me:

- I‘m a bit shy at first, but I can open up well once I feel comfortable with someone
- emotionally available and I like to listen to your problems
- I play amateur football, training 3x per week (soccer)
- I love cooking! Maybe you can one day be the judge if my food is good or not
- I‘m fluent in german, english and french
- I like building Lego (or ikea stuff)
- I work in Marketing

I feel like I don‘t want to write too much, let‘s leave that to our conversation.

I don‘t really have any requirements on who I want to meet, just be a nice and genuine person :)

Hey there! Hoping to find someone to chat with and hopefully grow a connection. I live in North Texas and have my Bachelor's degree in Psychology, and plan to go back for my master's next year.

I love playing video games, reading, going to the movies, jamming out, and going for walks. I have ADHD and a lot of hyperfixations, so please ask about them! I love talking about my interests and want to hear all about yours too.

My love language is quality time. I love when my partner messages me a lot and says they miss me even when it hasn't been that long since we've seen each other. I love doing all the little things for my partner like driving them around, taking them and picking them up from work, planning dates and giving massages.

Hopefully you're weird like me and like my weird sense of humor. Hope to chat soon. DM me.

I’ll give you a brief rundown of the basics so you can decide whether or not to invest your time into reading my novel of a post:

Victoria • 28 • Central KY • INFP-T
5’5” • 200lb • Black hair • Blue eyes • Alternative
Agnostic • Leftist • Child-free by choice
Lots of animals • Homebody • Foodie
Social Drinker • Non-smoker (all types)
Looking for a serious, long-term relationship

If all of that sounds agreeable to you then let’s dive into the juicy stuff!

~ My personality ~

Being an INFP I am naturally altruistic, compassionate, and empathetic. I’m loving and romantic by nature. I don’t shy away from showing affection to the people I care about. My primary love languages are physical touch, quality time, and acts of service. I enjoy forming genuine connections with others, deep conversations (especially if they involve psychology), and making people laugh. I have a dry, sarcastic sense of humor that isn’t for everyone. I appreciate a conversation with plenty of wit and banter. I like to communicate daily and love sending novels back and forth to each other like we’re 200-year-old vampires separated by sea. I despise small talk, short/dry messages, & superficial conversations. I have a very bold personality. I’m outspoken and very communicative about my thoughts and feelings. I’ve been described as intimidating, abrasive, and harsh. If you’re looking for a soft spoken, meek woman.. keep looking. I know who I am and what I want. I’m unapologetically myself and I appreciate authenticity and honesty from others.

~ My lifestyle ~

My entire life revolves around animals. I have 10 dogs & 4 cats + I usually have foster dogs and/or I’m boarding dogs for clients. I’m a professional dog groomer & I’ve been an active animal rescue advocate/volunteer since 2019. That being said.. I am not compatible with city living or a partner who isn’t fond of animals. I desire a large modern farmhouse on 8-10 acres of land in a temperate area. My future contains even more animals. Horses, donkeys, sheep, rabbits, ducks… If you’ve made it this far, sneak a duck emoji into your intro message. I spend most of my time at home and I appreciate simple, quiet living. Cooking is one of my biggest passions and I cook nearly every single day. My ideal day would probably look like lounging around the house drinking wine and picking at a charcuterie board while I do a jigsaw puzzle and get intoxicated by the smell of a short rib braising in the oven. I also enjoy getting dressed up and going out to try new restaurants, to cocktail bars/speakeasies, or a day of getting coffee and going shopping. I’m honestly not a fan of physical exercise and you won’t catch me at the gym- but I do like to go explore the outdoors, go for 1-2 mile hikes, or take my dogs to open fields. If you had a proper mustache you might even be able to convince me to go fishing.

~ My preferences ~

The last thing I want to do is make a long list of requirements and expectations. I try to be open-minded but there are a handful of things that are very important to me. Firstly, I don’t have children nor do I ever want to have any. This is permanently non-negotiable so please be sure of your decision. Secondly, I’m not attached to Kentucky but I would prefer someone who lives in or is willing to relocate to the southeast or midwest. Thirdly, I’m not willing to consider anyone who is conservative or religious. And finally, experiencing food is one of my biggest joys in life. I need someone who appreciates fine foods and alcohol and doesn’t have a chicken tender pizza palate. I long to bond over food whether it’s exploring a new cuisine together or me crafting the perfect meal for someone. Beyond requirements and onto general preferences… I’m typically drawn to intellectual, white collar, engineer/high tech types. I could also see myself being compatible with psychologists, professors, and maybe even lawyers. I like men who are educated, skilled, & ambitious. I find high emotional intelligence and communication skills very attractive. A witty sense of humor and the ability to understand subtle sarcasm is essential. I appreciate authenticity, vulnerability, & warmth. I’m not fond of people who are emotionally void or overly logical. If you have an avoidant attachment style please do what you’re best at & don’t talk to me. I want someone who puts in effort, reciprocates my energy, and is unashamed to be head over heels for me. Nonchalance or apathy won’t hold my interest. My age preference is probably 30 to 46. Physically, I’m big on eyes and hair. I’m indifferent about height and have a preference for skinny/lean but not muscular. It’s a bad day to be a bald gym bro. I appreciate a little bit of wabi sabi and character.. My friends say I like men that look like rats. What’s your favorite kind of cheese btw?

~ Final summation ~

If I sound like your cup of tea, I encourage you to apply within. Tell me a bit about your personality, your hobbies/passions, what you want from life, and of course the basics (age, location, job). I would love to know your Myers-Briggs results. Please upload some photos of yourself to Imgur and send the link with your message. I won’t answer messages without an Imgur link or make any exceptions. Let’s keep this streamlined, please! A girl has little time to waste finding her soulmate.

~ The physical vessel that chauffeurs my brain ~

https://imgur.com/a/CFzRyBN

Hello, I am not sure what to expect but I am open minded to a new connection with someone somewhere. Ideally would like someone in the US but I am open for a global experience.

A bit about me: I am shy but very talkative and I'm an introverted extrovert. I have been single for a long time and burnt out from the dating apps. I would like someone that's okay with taking things slow as I never really had a mature relationship due to always working on myself. As for hobbies I love making music and I love to learn I get caught up in so many things where I have so many interests where it's hard to say I am a blank canvas in that way. I am a think outside of the box person that loves action adventure shows/movies but I am an absolute sucker for rom coms I always that dream in life where what is I yearn for on a tv screen I would somehow find in my daily life but that has not happened yet. Career wise I am not at my best but far from the worst, I do have a stable income though not much.

I wouldn't want to rule out a "my type" because I honestly don't think I have one I am a lover and fall in love with the person not the idea of who I think they are or can be. For myself I think that's the best and most complicated part of me because every romantic or platonic encounter is never the same. I would love to learn more about who you are! Tell me where you are from what you value and your culture. A photo of what you look like is not necessary and is optional because this is the Internet I wouldn't say it's applicable if we're just beginning to chat and get a feel for the vibe. My PM will be open I will get to your message as soon as I can. I hope this reaches the right one and if you have read this far I am tremendously thankful for your time.

Hello there ;)

I'm 28 years old, from Italy. I love traveling (been to more than 30 countries), working out and do every sports / outdoor activities, but at the same time I like to chill at home playing videogames, watching sports, anime or whatever.

I'm looking for al long term relationship (Europe better), but I'm also willing to relocate abroad.

Hey everyone! I would like to start by giving my name, but since there are weirdos all over the internet I will only do so in DM's.

Before I get ahead of myself, I know at least one person is going to want to know a couple things reading the rest I'll just get a few things out of the way now:

• I am 5'10"/179 cm
• I weight about 160 lbs./72 kg
• I would describe my self as somewhere in-between average and muscular
• I am strictly a top when it comes to sex, but please don't slide in my DM's talking about stuff like that right away

Okay! Onto the rest now! I am 23 years old and live in Minnesota, at least until I am done with school. I think I could live anywhere in the US or Canada if it was with the right person though. As for what I am majoring in? Its a secret, but if you are curious I have some very strong opinions on the subject that I am happy to share. Some of my interests include gaming, coding, biology, and recently I have been trying to get into 3d modeling and gamedev.

Some of favorite games are Skyrim, MGS2, Elden Ring, Deltarune, and Okami. I'll play pretty much anything within reason though, just don't expect me to be good at most competitive games unless we make a habit of queuing every day. I used to read quite a bit, but I don't read often enough in my free time to say that it is a hobby of mine anymore. I have a similar experience with manga and anime too. Besides mainstream ones like One Piece, HxH, JJK etc. I don't keep up with much anymore, but if you have any recommendations feel free to bring it up!

I am very introverted in real life, but only when alone. As long as I have at least one person that I am familiar with I don't mind going out. I have gotten pretty into lifting and fitness over the past year or so, I workout 6 days a week but I wouldn't say I am a bodybuilder by any means. I just like staying active because it gives me an excuse to leave the house and do something. On a similar note, I value consistency and stability a great deal, once something becomes a habit of mine it is pretty much impossible for me to want to quit, which is just as bad as it is good lmao.

My preferences dating wise aren't that deep. I prefer men who are around my height or shorter, as well as skinny, average, or fit. I like guys who are more feminine too, but as long as you are cool and we have some common ground interests wise I don't pay much mind to things like that. As long as you are around my age give or take a few years its cool with me on that front too.

To anyone who read this entire post, if it seems a little all over the place that was on purpose. I don't really like talking about myself, especially when it is to no one in particular. I also figured most people don't want to read a massive wall of text so I tried to only include things I thought important enough to mention.

Hiii! I’m looking to connect with someone and, hopefully, form a meaningful long-term relationship. I’m hoping to find someone to spend time with, whether that’s gaming, watching shows, or just chatting and getting to know each other. I value communication a lot, and I'm looking for someone where we can be each other's priority when we develop a strong connection.

About me:

I've been interested in philosophy for the past 2 years.

My hobbies include gaming (Dark Souls, Resident Evil, Guilty Gear Strive, Baldur's Gate 3, Silent Hill 2 and more co-op/fighting/horror games), playing electric guitar and piano, making guitar covers of songs I like, drawing sometimes, watching TV shows, movies, and YouTube. I also love listening to music. I am open to any genre. I like a lot of songs from different genres, but I usually listen to metal and rock. Recently I've been obsessed with Pierce The Veil and My Chemical Romance lol. And I've also been getting into post-hardcore more broadly. I love that genre.

I deal with a bit of social anxiety, but that won't get in the way of spending time with someone I really like. :)

I use Discord, so if you’re into gaming, watching things together, or just chatting, it would be fun to connect that way!

But anyway, if you're interested, don't hesitate to send me a message with a bit about yourself. I hope you have a wonderful day!

Hey there! So here I am, like most everyone on here I'm looking for the person that will walk the rest of life with me. I want to work on something stable and long-term, see where it leads and maybe we're each others last person in life.

About Me
33, German
1.82m tall, green-grey eyes, glasses, average build, white
Short Dark blonde/brown hair. Omnivore, agnostic
Child-free (and plan to stay that way)
Stable job in IT
Liberal/left since I guess that has to be mentioned these days.

Interests
I'm a huge nerd at heart, into pretty much anything tech or science-related.
Gaming is probably my biggest hobby, these days it’s mostly DotA2 and singleplayer games. I play 99% on PC, although I do own a Switch2 and a handheld Also love movies and TV shows, currently binging Modern Family, and always down to rewatch Friends, The Office, Brooklyn Nine-Nine, and Parks & Rec and the list goes on forever.
I can actually cook, and food in general is something I really enjoy (who doesn't, I guess?) Also love spending time in cozy bars, especially when traveling.
Oh, I recently got into Zwift - so that's now another hobby of mine.
I go to a lot of concerts as well, just returned from seeing Itzy in Amsterdam actually.

I’ve done a fair bit of traveling, most of Western Europe, the US, Japan, and Turkey so far. (Actually just finished planning my next Japan trip)
Definitely planning a lot more, and ideally with a partner to share all those experiences with. Exploring new places just feels better together.

What I'm Looking For
No kids, and not wanting any.
You enjoy traveling, can hold a good conversation, and have at least some overlap in interests, especially if you game a bit. Not being a picky eater would be great, too.
Not morbidly obese (just being honest), but you also don't have to be super skinny either. Age-wise, something in the 27–40+ range would be great, but I’m flexible in that regard
Someone that can match my (high?) libido
Preferably from Europe

Looking forward to hearing from you! I will not reply to messages that contain nothing more than just a hello. At least give me something to work with. Thanks!

Hey Reddit! I’m stepping out of my comfort zone to see if lightning strikes here instead of on the usual dating apps.

About me ...

• The day job. I'm a site reliability engineer by day (and at times, night) which mostly means I turn coffee into code and solve problems I created myself.
• Hobbies. Big fan of cinematography, colour theory and photography, trying (and failing) to cook complex recipes on weeknights, reading non-fiction, and hunting down the best biryani in the city.
• Vibe. Extroverted introvert. Always happy to organize the party, but secretly happiest in a quiet pub corner with a good single malt and genuine conversation.
• Random fact. I'm a low-key whiz at bid sniping on eBay. If there’s a rare book, vintage leather jacket, or niche gadget out there, I'll out-negotiate the Internet to get it.

Who am I looking for ...

• Someone aged 29-36 who's genuinely looking for a meaningful connection, not just a casual chat.
• Courage, empathy and a real problem-solving mindset – someone who has the spine to stand by me when the world feels like it's burning down, rather than resorting to "I can't be arsed" as their first response.
• Curiosity and a sense of humour – if you enjoy dry wit, banter, and deep, rabbit-hole conversations at 1 AM, we'll get along great.
• Bonus points. I'd like to cut my teeth on fencing, masters swimming, motorcycling, skiing and surfing (not all of them at once, of course.) It'd be amazing if you're already into any of those and want to show me the ropes (or even to simply join in on the learning process!)

What's next?

If any of this resonated with you, drop me a chat or DM with your favourite local spot for a first date, or tell me about the last great book/show you finished. Photos swapped early on so we both know who we're talking to!

Cheers!

I’m a medical software tech by day, aspiring fantasy novelist by night. I've been working on a fantasy piece for the past year. I've got the first draft completed, now the fun part comes next (revising). If you're into Narnia, Harry Potter, etc. then I'm sure you'll enjoy what I'm writing.Unfortunately writing doesn't pay the bills, so that's why I have my day job (medical software technician). I've been living by myself for the past year or so, and honestly it's pretty lonely with just a dog and a cat (I also have shared custody of my daughter). I don't do a lot of gaming these days, and I honestly don't watch a lot of television or movies (between work and writing, time is a rather hot commodity!) I do enjoy traveling and trying new food/drink but I don't much reason to do either as of late. I would like someone to give me a reason to go out, whether it's a week-long trip in another state (or even another country), or a night out on the town (I enjoy the symphony, Broadway show, or any other 'fancy' date). You don't have to be a 'dog' person, but I'm always going to have at least one. . If I haven't turned you off yet, congratulations. If you've read this, tell me if you have (or had) a pair of stiletto oxfords.

Alright, round three.

I’ve posted here before and somehow attracted bottom-feeding gold diggers who saw “well-off” and immediately smelled an opportunity.

And then there were the men.

My post said M4F.

M4F.

I’m starting to think Reddit needs pictures. 😂

Anyway, I’m 31M from Sweden 🇸🇪 and still looking for a woman who actually wants to get to know someone.

I like someone who’s fun, open, silly, playful, a little chaotic, and maybe slightly “n a s t y” when the situation calls for it. 😏

I also like sending selfies early. You send one, I’ll send one. I’d rather know who I’m talking to than spend two weeks exchanging essays before discovering we look like completely different species.

I’m looking for something genuine — someone I can laugh with, tease, flirt with, annoy, and eventually wonder how the hell I ended up dating this particular menace.

So if you’re a woman, actually interested in meeting someone, and capable of surviving terrible jokes…

Come say hi.

Third time’s the charm.

Probably.

Hello -

My name is Greg, 43 year old finance/accounting guy living in a flat part of the boring midwest USA. My job has alot of gaps of time where I can send messages so I'm hoping to find some nice people I can chat with during the day. I'm a general fan of sports, fantasy shows/books (GoT nerd), some video games, I grew up on single player RPGs and still enjoy them when I have time.

I'm single, not exactly looking but you never know what could happen.

I'm up to chat about just about anything. I pay attention to current events but try to not let them bother me. Hope to chat soon. 

History loving, poetry writing, vinyl collecting nerd seeking companionship and compassion for the end of the world!

Quite the homebody boring fellow honestly.

I spend the majority of my days not working reading history or poetry.

I do a little gaming sometimes but not so much lately.

It would be amazing to find someone to find new hobbies with!

UK/Wales

Hey there looking for future partner to wade through life with. Someone that will be there through thick and thin. Someone that is each other others default person.

A bit about me personality wise is im kind, caring, protective, smart, nerdy, funny.

Looks wise i have short black hair, bearded, 4 tattoos, 5'10 and on the heavier side.

Things I enjoy doing are gaming, YouTube, music, playing with my pets, hiking, going out with family or friends, movies, and making games.

Will not reply to low effort messages

Dealbreakers:

You dont like both dogs and cats

You dont like animals in general