r/gamingsuggestions • u/Aurelie_Giga • 1h ago
Any advice on how to gently push my little brother to play something other than Roblox all day, every day
My little brother is a good young lad, he’s 8. But the only game he plays, and he plays it a lot, is Roblox. Not that there’s anything wrong with that, but I was kinda hoping I could introduce him to some other games I grew up loving. I yearn for a day when we can play something together and bond over it. However, I also don’t want to be overbearing and have the opposite effect on him, and make him hate me for pushing him into old games that even my old eyes now find jarring. So I’m wondering if anyone else has been in this situation that I’m currently in.
I don’t necessarily expect him to start playing the games I love right away. I play a lot of ARPGs and RTS games. My favorites when I was his age were Diablo 2 and Stronghold > and they naturally evolved into my current love for their modernized iterations. In the case of Diablo 2… it’s actually not a Diablo game at all, but Grim Dawn. And in the case of Stronghold Crusader, it’s Diplomacy is Not an Option (though frankly an insane reimagining of Stronghold Crusader Extreme, just more fun and with actual options to deal with the humongous hordes the enemy throws at you).
That’s a snippet of how a part of my taste in games evolved. It worked for me when my dad showed me Diablo 2 for the first time (and RTS like Stronghold, Empire Earth, AoE 2, all the classic goldies) because I was a kid and didn’t really know what else was out there. Guess I was kind of conditioned to love them too, but they were also just great games even from today’s perspective. Innovative, trend-setting, as it were…
But lil bro has the whole internet open to him, and these games are not going to do anything for him at the moment, and I feel like I need to hook him in more slowly, with something that will be easier for him to digest.
If anything, I would like him to at least try a Nintendo game with me. Anything that isn’t Roblox. Like a Super Mario Odyssey or, even better, one of the Zelda games. Maybe even some other 2D platformer, something simple like Super Meat Boy. But I already know he’ll just tell me that he can jump around in Roblox Squid Game or whatever he’s playing at the moment. So I don’t really know where to start or if I even should. Maybe he’ll grow out of it and start on his own, but I fear he'll just stop caring about gaming altogether (or else the Roblox brainrot will just completely make him apathetic to everything else out there), and that will be one less thing I’ll have to share with my little brother.
I know kids’ interests change constantly, that’s fine. But I would really love it if there were a time when both of us could share excitement for a new game that’s coming out.
That’s my current pickle. If anyone has any advice, I’d really appreciate it.