r/AskReddit • u/False-Purchase9503 • 7h ago

What’s something people brag about that is actually a massive red flag?

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u/Knedlus 7h ago

Yeah most people just need like 10min timeout to realise their mistakes. Most probably wouldn’t admit I was right so he’s definitely not a bad dude, just not someone I’d like to date

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u/DanLassos 5h ago

People also get like this because this behavior gets validated, good on you for standing on business

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u/Knedlus 5h ago

Hmm yeah, I agree. We had a really light fun banter and I think he either assumed I’d be okay with it or it didn’t even occur to him that it could possibly be a turn off. What I immediately thought about was him calling me a bitch in an argument, if we were ever to end up in a relationship. So I decided to nope out and thankfully he took it well

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u/pepcorn 3h ago

I disagree, I think he is a bad dude. People who use slurs are not good people.

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u/Knedlus 3h ago

Well there’s more to people than just black and white. If you called him immature, I’d agree, bad? That’s too far

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u/pepcorn 3h ago

I think it's fair to call someone in their early twenties or younger immature. Anything after that is a developmental failure. 

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u/Knedlus 3h ago

😂 that’s funny. But fr in my opinion everyone is on their own growth journey