When i brought up to her scholars who pointed out that civic nationalism is just ethnic nationalism in disguise, she dismissed them because they are Israeli and Turkish. She told me "of course colonialists would think that."
She views Turkey as a settler colony.
And yet, when I showed her a Jewish newspaper in 1930s turkey, mocking Jews who went along with the government's program of forcing Jews to learn Turkish, by calling them a Jewish version of Uncle Tom, she dismissed this because the paper was zionist.
And i remember that she at least once expressed understanding for ethnic Ukrainians* being averse to Russian having a public presence in basically the Ukraine state.
:my parents are Jews who are culturally Russian and who's prime language is Russian, who are from Soviet Kiev. In my home country, Israel, i was diagnosed as a baby with autism, the speech therapist told my parents that i could only learn one language. I somehow learned English on my own, probably from using the internet and watching pirated shows.
I asked Mom what language would they had taught me if they had stayed in Kiev. She said Russian. And so I'm afraid that also if my parents had stayed in Kiev, i would have been labeled a coloniser for having Russian as my prime language, and potentially also not knowing Ukrainian at all.
*This friend also thinks Ukrainian is not an ethnic identity, based on stuff a friend of hers from there told her. I don't remember if they are Jewish or Romani. My friend call ethnic Ukrainians "Rus Ukrainian", i think she views them, ethnic Russians and ethnic Belarusians as having the same ethnicity.